what makes a Good Husband...

by Silly Point Tue Feb 04, 2014 3:24 pm

*crickets*
*crickets*
*crickets*

by Guest Tue Feb 04, 2014 3:35 pm

hmm let's see. will try to keep it short.

smart
can impress my dad
decent looking
even tempered
well built
good hygience
smells divine
has good sense of direction
can earn a good livelihood
can fix things around the house and garage
can cook
can please me in atleast 3 different ways, each time
is the best man my kids will ever know

by Silly Point Tue Feb 04, 2014 3:37 pm

don't forget Shovel snow Very Happy

by Guest Tue Feb 04, 2014 3:38 pm

Silly Point wrote:don't forget Shovel snow

oh ya lol.. that's covered in 'can fix things around the house and garage' Very Happy

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Tue Feb 04, 2014 3:44 pm

Tracy Whitney wrote:hmm let's see. will try to keep it short.

smart
can impress my dad
decent looking
even tempered
well built
good hygience
smells divine
has good sense of direction
can earn a good livelihood
can fix things around the house and garage
can cook
can please me in atleast 3 different ways, each time
is the best man my kids will ever know

How do you plan to verify the above claims on his "resume?"

by Guest Tue Feb 04, 2014 3:47 pm

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:hmm let's see. will try to keep it short.

smart
can impress my dad
decent looking
even tempered
well built
good hygience
smells divine
has good sense of direction
can earn a good livelihood
can fix things around the house and garage
can cook
can please me in atleast 3 different ways, each time
is the best man my kids will ever know

How do you plan to verify the above claims on his "resume?"

too late for me but should try it out first i guess. and once you have tried it out, marriage is nothing but a paper that can mean a lot in terms of security and spousal rights in a hospital, but not if these things don't matter much.

by harharmahadev Tue Feb 04, 2014 4:50 pm

Silly Point wrote:*crickets*
*crickets*
*crickets*

I'm a male, so my opinion may be slightly biased on what women should look for in a good husband.

Women and men have distinct roles. The wife's role is to make babies, take care of children and take care of household chores. I am a modern man. I completely understand that modern women like to work. Working women should work as long as it doesn't distance themselves from their core activities. A good husband is one who provides moral support to his wife in performing her obligations. A good husband should share his knowledge with his wife. If her work is satisfactory, he should reward her periodically by giving her the gift of his seed.

by smArtha Tue Feb 04, 2014 5:04 pm

Tracy Whitney wrote:hmm let's see. will try to keep it short.

smart
can impress my dad
decent looking
even tempered
well built
good hygience
smells divine
has good sense of direction
can earn a good livelihood
can fix things around the house and garage
can cook
can please me in atleast 3 different ways, each time
is the best man my kids will ever know

>> can impress my dad
This is what middle age seems to do for most people.. fall in-line with established traditions :-)

>> smells divine
divine => divas + wine?

>>can please me in atleast 3 different ways, each time
bait for bittu

>>is the best man my kids will ever know
Not unless you want your daughter(s) to remain single forever

by Guest Tue Feb 04, 2014 5:59 pm

smArtha wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:hmm let's see. will try to keep it short.

smart
can impress my dad
decent looking
even tempered
well built
good hygience
smells divine
has good sense of direction
can earn a good livelihood
can fix things around the house and garage
can cook
can please me in atleast 3 different ways, each time
is the best man my kids will ever know

>> can impress my dad
This is what middle age seems to do for most people.. fall in-line with established traditions :-)

no no, I was always like that. Even back then, it mattered to me what my parents thought of who.

smArtha wrote:
>> smells divine
divine => divas + wine?

clean smell + some nice cologne will work.

smArtha wrote:
>>can please me in atleast 3 different ways, each time
bait for bittu

No baiting. A woman wants what a woman wants Smile

smArtha wrote:
>>is the best man my kids will ever know
Not unless you want your daughter(s) to remain single forever

haha. nope. My dad is still da best and XH knows that very well.

by Silly Point Tue Feb 04, 2014 6:08 pm

There is something about a man who smells amazing.. you know when you hug him your clothes smell faintly of his cologne.. sigh..

The voice is also a big part of the equation..

Lemme stop before the unkils on here start yelling at me Very Happy

by MaxEntropy_Man Tue Feb 04, 2014 6:40 pm

Silly Point wrote:don't forget Shovel snow

nobody in the boonies shovels snow. you blow it with a big ass machine.

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Tue Feb 04, 2014 7:03 pm

MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
Silly Point wrote:don't forget Shovel snow

nobody in the boonies shovels snow. you blow it with a big ass machine.

Talk for yourself...

I just shoveled my driveway and surveyed the roads in my car....

Besides, we in the midwest shovel only. I cant remember seeing anyone using no big ass machines or even blowers....srsly.

by Hellsangel Tue Feb 04, 2014 7:09 pm

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
Silly Point wrote:don't forget Shovel snow

nobody in the boonies shovels snow. you blow it with a big ass machine.

Talk for yourself...

I just shoveled my driveway and surveyed the roads in my car....

Besides, we in the midwest shovel only. I cant remember seeing anyone using no big ass machines or even blowers....srsly.

Oh my! Don't the tough guys in the Midwest and especially KS use their bare hands to pick up the snow?

by pravalika nanda Tue Feb 04, 2014 7:13 pm

Hellsangel wrote:
Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
Silly Point wrote:don't forget Shovel snow

nobody in the boonies shovels snow. you blow it with a big ass machine.

Talk for yourself...

I just shoveled my driveway and surveyed the roads in my car....

Besides, we in the midwest shovel only. I cant remember seeing anyone using no big ass machines or even blowers....srsly.
Oh my! Don't the tough guys in the Midwest and especially KS use their bare hands to pick up the snow?

leave the old man alone, he's an honest fellow: he "can't remember" and that's that.

by Rekz Tue Feb 04, 2014 7:43 pm

Rekz as a female

Good husband

The one who gives you lots of space,boring,clean.and helpful.

Tips for singles here - Keep your expectations to the minimal for a happy married life. Thank you :-)

by FluteHolder Tue Feb 04, 2014 8:11 pm

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Tue Feb 04, 2014 8:32 pm

FluteHolder wrote:

He is one of my all time favorites along with Mukesh. Almost all of Chandrababu's songs were hit and very meaningful.

Poor guy - another comedian who dies as a destitute. MGR - that noble dude - ruined him.

by Guest Tue Feb 04, 2014 10:34 pm

A good husband is someone who gives his wife a sense of 'nishchinta', a secured assurance, a feeling of, 'it's going to be ok because he's there'.

by Kris Wed Feb 05, 2014 12:08 am

Kinnera wrote:A good husband is someone who gives his wife a sense of 'nishchinta', a secured assurance, a feeling of, 'it's going to be ok because he's there'.

>>>on the couch, watching TV, drinking beer. Never wants to move so as not to take away that security his wife has while she is cooking, doing the laundry, the dishes, driving the kids to their games etc etc. I always knew we were of like minds Kinnera

Smile

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Wed Feb 05, 2014 12:17 am

Kris wrote:
Kinnera wrote:A good husband is someone who gives his wife a sense of 'nishchinta', a secured assurance, a feeling of, 'it's going to be ok because he's there'.
>>>on the couch, watching TV, drinking beer. Never wants to move so as not to take away that security his wife has while she is cooking, doing the laundry, the dishes, driving the kids to their games etc etc. I always knew we were of like minds Kinnera

Hey...and just keep praising the wife with empty words "that was great, you are the best, you cook fantastic, you are so smart, best idea." Women love these priases and melt - although they know the words are all lies.

by bw Wed Feb 05, 2014 12:26 am

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
Kris wrote:
Kinnera wrote:A good husband is someone who gives his wife a sense of 'nishchinta', a secured assurance, a feeling of, 'it's going to be ok because he's there'.
>>>on the couch, watching TV, drinking beer. Never wants to move so as not to take away that security his wife has while she is cooking, doing the laundry, the dishes, driving the kids to their games etc etc. I always knew we were of like minds Kinnera

Hey...and just keep praising the wife with empty words "that was great, you are the best, you cook fantastic, you are so smart, best idea." Women love these priases and melt - although they know the words are all lies.

yeah right!

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Wed Feb 05, 2014 12:42 am

bw wrote:
Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
Kris wrote:
Kinnera wrote:A good husband is someone who gives his wife a sense of 'nishchinta', a secured assurance, a feeling of, 'it's going to be ok because he's there'.
>>>on the couch, watching TV, drinking beer. Never wants to move so as not to take away that security his wife has while she is cooking, doing the laundry, the dishes, driving the kids to their games etc etc. I always knew we were of like minds Kinnera

Hey...and just keep praising the wife with empty words "that was great, you are the best, you cook fantastic, you are so smart, best idea." Women love these priases and melt - although they know the words are all lies.

yeah right!

UnnaiyE aaru sonnaanga?.. Razz

Neethaan KozhayadilE sandei podara Koodai kaarinu yennaukku theriumE. andha gujaal velai yellam unnaanda kaiavaathunu Yenaku theriyaadha?

by Guest Wed Feb 05, 2014 8:38 am

Kris wrote:
Kinnera wrote:A good husband is someone who gives his wife a sense of 'nishchinta', a secured assurance, a feeling of, 'it's going to be ok because he's there'.
>>>on the couch, watching TV, drinking beer. Never wants to move so as not to take away that security his wife has while she is cooking, doing the laundry, the dishes, driving the kids to their games etc etc. I always knew we were of like minds Kinnera

You are exactly like my husband Kris, except for two things.
1. My husband does the laundry and folds the clothes. He wants to pretend to be doing something while watching sports for hrs and hrs together. Folding the clothes is the most convenient thing to do while glued to the tv/ipad.So....yeah!
2. He switched from beer to red wine. Red wine is good for the heart, he believes. He is getting old and needs to take care of his heart. It's all for his heart, you see.

PS: I never said that my husband is an ideal husband Razz

.

by Guest Wed Feb 05, 2014 8:42 am

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
Kris wrote:
Kinnera wrote:A good husband is someone who gives his wife a sense of 'nishchinta', a secured assurance, a feeling of, 'it's going to be ok because he's there'.
>>>on the couch, watching TV, drinking beer. Never wants to move so as not to take away that security his wife has while she is cooking, doing the laundry, the dishes, driving the kids to their games etc etc. I always knew we were of like minds Kinnera

Hey...and just keep praising the wife with empty words "that was great, you are the best, you cook fantastic, you are so smart, best idea." Women love these priases and melt - although they know the words are all lies.

We believe their praises, but we are smart enuff not to believe their 'i love you' and 'i miss you's. The minute we stop being functional and in a stage where our bed pans need to be changed, we know that they'd be hoping for us to kick the bucket.

PS: Kin in a practical mood today.

by Kris Wed Feb 05, 2014 10:51 am

Kinnera wrote:
Kris wrote:
Kinnera wrote:A good husband is someone who gives his wife a sense of 'nishchinta', a secured assurance, a feeling of, 'it's going to be ok because he's there'.
>>>on the couch, watching TV, drinking beer. Never wants to move so as not to take away that security his wife has while she is cooking, doing the laundry, the dishes, driving the kids to their games etc etc. I always knew we were of like minds Kinnera

You are exactly like my husband Kris, except for two things.
1. My husband does the laundry and folds the clothes. He wants to pretend to be doing something while watching sports for hrs and hrs together. Folding the clothes is the most convenient thing to do while glued to the tv/ipad.So....yeah!
2. He switched from beer to red wine. Red wine is good for the heart, he believes. He is getting old and needs to take care of his heart. It's all for his heart, you see.

PS: I never said that my husband is an ideal husband .

>>>Hey, ditto on #1 and 2, except my TV hours are almost obsessively focused on the history and travel channels.

What do you mean not the ideal husband? We were going for the "Padmina' title. Smile

by Silly Point Wed Feb 05, 2014 11:41 am

maybe I am just being naive, but what ever happened to just knowing.. it doesnt need to be said.. just know that I am special and lovely and all that.. you know on the actions spealks louder than words scenario..

Maybe I am just idealistic and Naive

Krithi

by indophile Wed Feb 05, 2014 1:11 pm

An ideal husband is like Carnot Cycle.
The Carnot cycle consists of the following four phases:
I. Isothermal expansion and doing work. He takes heat (call it verbal stimulation) from you (heat source) and does the work assigned to him without getting heated up in the process. While doing work even the disorderliness is reduced (entropy decreases).
II. Adiabatic expansion process. Then he does more work out of sight and without needing any more heat supply from you (verbal stimulation). However, once out of sight he doesn’t bother about disorderliness (entropy stays the same). With you out of sight, he cools a little.
III. Isothermal compression and getting worked on. You are back again with your heat (tongue-lashing) to get him to prepare for the next round of work. He cringes (compressed) but does not get angry (not heated up). He is just mentally disturbed (entropy increases).
IV. Adiabatic compression. Here he lets more work done on him without your stimulation and he gets heated up. Disorderliness /disorganization stays the same (entropy remains same).
And this 4-step process repeats.
This 4-step process can also be ascribed to an ideal wife.
Unfortunately Carnot cycle cannot be achieved in real life because of the pushes and pulls imposed by thermodynamic laws.

by MaxEntropy_Man Wed Feb 05, 2014 1:17 pm

indophile wrote:An ideal husband is like Carnot Cycle.
The Carnot cycle consists of the following four phases:
I. Isothermal expansion and doing work. He takes heat (call it verbal stimulation) from you (heat source) and does the work assigned to him without getting heated up in the process. While doing work even the disorderliness is reduced (entropy decreases).
II. Adiabatic expansion process. Then he does more work out of sight and without needing any more heat supply from you (verbal stimulation). However, once out of sight he doesn’t bother about disorderliness (entropy stays the same). With you out of sight, he cools a little.
III. Isothermal compression and getting worked on. You are back again with your heat (tongue-lashing) to get him to prepare for the next round of work. He cringes (compressed) but does not get angry (not heated up). He is just mentally disturbed (entropy increases).
IV. Adiabatic compression. Here he lets more work done on him without your stimulation and he gets heated up. Disorderliness /disorganization stays the same (entropy remains same).
And this 4-step process repeats.
This 4-step process can also be ascribed to an ideal wife.
Unfortunately Carnot cycle cannot be achieved in real life because of the pushes and pulls imposed by thermodynamic laws.

cute but with some errors; probably put in there to make it fit.

by Silly Point Wed Feb 05, 2014 1:22 pm

MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
indophile wrote:An ideal husband is like Carnot Cycle.
The Carnot cycle consists of the following four phases:
I. Isothermal expansion and doing work. He takes heat (call it verbal stimulation) from you (heat source) and does the work assigned to him without getting heated up in the process. While doing work even the disorderliness is reduced (entropy decreases).
II. Adiabatic expansion process. Then he does more work out of sight and without needing any more heat supply from you (verbal stimulation). However, once out of sight he doesn’t bother about disorderliness (entropy stays the same). With you out of sight, he cools a little.
III. Isothermal compression and getting worked on. You are back again with your heat (tongue-lashing) to get him to prepare for the next round of work. He cringes (compressed) but does not get angry (not heated up). He is just mentally disturbed (entropy increases).
IV. Adiabatic compression. Here he lets more work done on him without your stimulation and he gets heated up. Disorderliness /disorganization stays the same (entropy remains same).
And this 4-step process repeats.
This 4-step process can also be ascribed to an ideal wife.
Unfortunately Carnot cycle cannot be achieved in real life because of the pushes and pulls imposed by thermodynamic laws.

cute but with some errors; probably put in there to make it fit.

Thats what she said!!! Very Happy

by smArtha Wed Feb 05, 2014 1:26 pm

Silly Point wrote:maybe I am just being naive, but what ever happened to just knowing.. it doesnt need to be said.. just know that I am special and lovely and all that.. you know on the actions spealks louder than words scenario..

Maybe I am just idealistic and Naive

Krithi

What is it about woman and their craving 'to be special' in someone's eyes? Did male suppression over centuries result in such 'obsessive attention seeking' that they want at least one man to certify and treat them a Queen? Why cannot I'm normal and willing to look for a partner that is the norm and suitable to me be the criteria? In my experience, even the so called 'accomplished woman' seem to be suffering this syndrome. Only middle age and/or living together with a partner for a reasonable period of time seems to level their expectations straight and realistic.

Since you are 'seeking' let me throw a free advice.. your best man is often, not necessarily, the one who praises and treats you a Queen. It is highly likely the one who is 'selling himself hard by impressing you by all means' may just be a great sales person with nothing much of valuable substance and fulfillment to offer. If you don't like this coming from a man, talk to the 'happily married for at the least decade or so folks' and get the needed 'wordly gyAn'.

by MaxEntropy_Man Wed Feb 05, 2014 1:38 pm

Silly Point wrote:
MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
indophile wrote:An ideal husband is like Carnot Cycle.
The Carnot cycle consists of the following four phases:
I. Isothermal expansion and doing work. He takes heat (call it verbal stimulation) from you (heat source) and does the work assigned to him without getting heated up in the process. While doing work even the disorderliness is reduced (entropy decreases).
II. Adiabatic expansion process. Then he does more work out of sight and without needing any more heat supply from you (verbal stimulation). However, once out of sight he doesn’t bother about disorderliness (entropy stays the same). With you out of sight, he cools a little.
III. Isothermal compression and getting worked on. You are back again with your heat (tongue-lashing) to get him to prepare for the next round of work. He cringes (compressed) but does not get angry (not heated up). He is just mentally disturbed (entropy increases).
IV. Adiabatic compression. Here he lets more work done on him without your stimulation and he gets heated up. Disorderliness /disorganization stays the same (entropy remains same).
And this 4-step process repeats.
This 4-step process can also be ascribed to an ideal wife.
Unfortunately Carnot cycle cannot be achieved in real life because of the pushes and pulls imposed by thermodynamic laws.

cute but with some errors; probably put in there to make it fit.
Thats what she said!!!

one track mind, but that's not a bad trait in a fiance seekaraL.

by indophile Wed Feb 05, 2014 1:56 pm

There are many tall Iyer boys here.

http://www.iyermatrimony.com/matrimonial/Iyer+Grooms

by Silly Point Wed Feb 05, 2014 2:12 pm

smArtha wrote:
Silly Point wrote:maybe I am just being naive, but what ever happened to just knowing.. it doesnt need to be said.. just know that I am special and lovely and all that.. you know on the actions spealks louder than words scenario..

Maybe I am just idealistic and Naive

Krithi

What is it about woman and their craving 'to be special' in someone's eyes? Did male suppression over centuries result in such 'obsessive attention seeking' that they want at least one man to certify and treat them a Queen? Why cannot I'm normal and willing to look for a partner that is the norm and suitable to me be the criteria? In my experience, even the so called 'accomplished woman' seem to be suffering this syndrome. Only middle age and/or living together with a partner for a reasonable period of time seems to level their expectations straight and realistic.

Since you are 'seeking' let me throw a free advice.. your best man is often, not necessarily, the one who praises and treats you a Queen. It is highly likely the one who is 'selling himself hard by impressing you by all means' may just be a great sales person with nothing much of valuable substance and fulfillment to offer. If you don't like this coming from a man, talk to the 'happily married for at the least decade or so folks' and get the needed 'wordly gyAn'.

Thats what i am saying too.. it is not the constant you are awesome you are lovely you are this and that.. I am looking for, I am looking for the subtle difference in play. It is the same way both ways.. my MAN will know he is special and means a lot to me by my actions..
I am TIRED of the lip service, I am TIRED of the fill in the blanks, I just want the comfort level again I guess I am asking for too much..

*sigh*
I am also resigned to knowing that the INDIAN man, though complicated in his own right, Is THE kind of man for me.. Having traveled the world it is time for me to go HOME Very Happy

by Silly Point Wed Feb 05, 2014 2:15 pm

indophile wrote:There are many tall Iyer boys here.

http://www.iyermatrimony.com/matrimonial/Iyer+Grooms

there are all fetuses on there age 24?? and some how 5ft 6 is not tall enough..

Thanks for trying dawlin

*air kisses*

Krithi

by MaxEntropy_Man Wed Feb 05, 2014 2:16 pm

is r.ashwin taken? he's a tall iyer boy and a competent cricketer to boot.

by Silly Point Wed Feb 05, 2014 2:17 pm

MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
Silly Point wrote:
MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
indophile wrote:An ideal husband is like Carnot Cycle.
The Carnot cycle consists of the following four phases:
I. Isothermal expansion and doing work. He takes heat (call it verbal stimulation) from you (heat source) and does the work assigned to him without getting heated up in the process. While doing work even the disorderliness is reduced (entropy decreases).
II. Adiabatic expansion process. Then he does more work out of sight and without needing any more heat supply from you (verbal stimulation). However, once out of sight he doesn’t bother about disorderliness (entropy stays the same). With you out of sight, he cools a little.
III. Isothermal compression and getting worked on. You are back again with your heat (tongue-lashing) to get him to prepare for the next round of work. He cringes (compressed) but does not get angry (not heated up). He is just mentally disturbed (entropy increases).
IV. Adiabatic compression. Here he lets more work done on him without your stimulation and he gets heated up. Disorderliness /disorganization stays the same (entropy remains same).
And this 4-step process repeats.
This 4-step process can also be ascribed to an ideal wife.
Unfortunately Carnot cycle cannot be achieved in real life because of the pushes and pulls imposed by thermodynamic laws.

cute but with some errors; probably put in there to make it fit.
Thats what she said!!!

one track mind, but that's not a bad trait in a fiance seekaraL.

That is the only TRACK that is fun IMO

Krithi

by garam_kuta Wed Feb 05, 2014 2:54 pm

Silly Point wrote:
MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
Silly Point wrote:

cute but with some errors; probably put in there to make it fit.
Thats what she said!!!

one track mind, but that's not a bad trait in a fiance seekaraL.

That is the only TRACK that is fun IMO

Krithi[/quote]

howdha..sari. mathae idhanna sariyagae punctuation mAdi, nOdana?

fun fun fun worry worry worry

by garam_kuta Wed Feb 05, 2014 2:56 pm

Silly Point wrote:
MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
Silly Point wrote:
MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
cute but with some errors; probably put in there to make it fit.
Thats what she said!!!

one track mind, but that's not a bad trait in a fiance seekaraL.

That is the only TRACK that is fun IMO
Krithi

howdha..sari. mathae idhanna sariyagae punctuate mAdi, nOdana?

fun fun fun worry worry worry

by Silly Point Wed Feb 05, 2014 3:20 pm

konjam translate maadi.. I am not understanding...

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Wed Feb 05, 2014 3:41 pm

Kinnera wrote:
We believe their praises, but we are smart enuff not to believe their 'i love you' and 'i miss you's. The minute we stop being functional and in a stage where our bed pans need to be changed, we know that they'd be hoping for us to kick the bucket.

PS: Kin in a practical mood today.

Yeah...if you women make us dysfunctional all through our lives, what else we poor men can hope for.... Razz

by garam_kuta Wed Feb 05, 2014 7:02 pm

Silly Point wrote:

....thats the only track that is fun IMO

howdha..sari. mathae idhanna sariyagae punctuate mAdi, nOdana?

fun fun fun worry worry worry

konjam translate maadi.. I am not understanding...

aiyO aiyO aiaiyO neevu shuru madubitrA..

anyways, I just asked you to give your own version of punctuation for the following:

fun fun fun worry worry worry

by bw Wed Feb 05, 2014 7:34 pm

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
bw wrote:
Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
Kris wrote:
Kinnera wrote:A good husband is someone who gives his wife a sense of 'nishchinta', a secured assurance, a feeling of, 'it's going to be ok because he's there'.
>>>on the couch, watching TV, drinking beer. Never wants to move so as not to take away that security his wife has while she is cooking, doing the laundry, the dishes, driving the kids to their games etc etc. I always knew we were of like minds Kinnera

Hey...and just keep praising the wife with empty words "that was great, you are the best, you cook fantastic, you are so smart, best idea." Women love these priases and melt - although they know the words are all lies.

yeah right!

UnnaiyE aaru sonnaanga?..

Neethaan KozhayadilE sandei podara Koodai kaarinu yennaukku theriumE. andha gujaal velai yellam unnaanda kaiavaathunu Yenaku theriyaadha?

not a sandaikaari at all but i have always relished people with whom i can have a healthy argument/disagreement on issues without it getting personal and affecting the relationship.

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Wed Feb 05, 2014 7:39 pm

bw wrote:
Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

UnnaiyE aaru sonnaanga?..

Neethaan KozhayadilE sandei podara Koodai kaarinu yennaukku theriumE. andha gujaal velai yellam unnaanda kaiavaathunu Yenaku theriyaadha?

not a sandaikaari at all but i have always relished people with whom i can have a healthy argument/disagreement on issues without it getting personal and affecting the relationship.

You mean "controlled and conscious" arguments? That is for workplace.

by bw Wed Feb 05, 2014 7:44 pm

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
bw wrote:
Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

UnnaiyE aaru sonnaanga?..

Neethaan KozhayadilE sandei podara Koodai kaarinu yennaukku theriumE. andha gujaal velai yellam unnaanda kaiavaathunu Yenaku theriyaadha?

not a sandaikaari at all but i have always relished people with whom i can have a healthy argument/disagreement on issues without it getting personal and affecting the relationship.

You mean "controlled and conscious" arguments? That is for workplace.

with kids around, who has the time for petty, domestic arguments - larger priorities beckon and as long as each party pulls his/her weight, life is good.

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Wed Feb 05, 2014 7:53 pm

bw wrote:
Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
bw wrote:
Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

UnnaiyE aaru sonnaanga?..

Neethaan KozhayadilE sandei podara Koodai kaarinu yennaukku theriumE. andha gujaal velai yellam unnaanda kaiavaathunu Yenaku theriyaadha?

not a sandaikaari at all but i have always relished people with whom i can have a healthy argument/disagreement on issues without it getting personal and affecting the relationship.

You mean "controlled and conscious" arguments? That is for workplace.

with kids around, who has the time for petty, domestic arguments - larger priorities beckon and as long as each party pulls his/her weight, life is good.

Oh you are talking about homeland. If each party let the other pull the weight without adding to it, that is goodly enough.

by pravalika nanda Wed Feb 05, 2014 10:29 pm

Silly Point wrote:
indophile wrote:There are many tall Iyer boys here.

http://www.iyermatrimony.com/matrimonial/Iyer+Grooms

there are all fetuses on there age 24?? and some how 5ft 6 is not tall enough..

Thanks for trying dawlin

*air kisses*

Krithi

i like nondescript iyer # 245897, venkatesh p. he might just want a couple of goats in dowry and he is sold!

by Silly Point Wed Feb 05, 2014 10:36 pm

pravalika nanda wrote:
Silly Point wrote:
indophile wrote:There are many tall Iyer boys here.

http://www.iyermatrimony.com/matrimonial/Iyer+Grooms

there are all fetuses on there age 24?? and some how 5ft 6 is not tall enough..

Thanks for trying dawlin

*air kisses*

Krithi
i like nondescript iyer # 245897, venkatesh p. he might just want a couple of goats in dowry and he is sold!

Fo Reals??? too bad i dont have any goats..
but do keep looking..

Thanks, Have a Blessed day

Krithi

by Guest Wed Feb 05, 2014 10:38 pm

indophile wrote:There are many tall Iyer boys here.

http://www.iyermatrimony.com/matrimonial/Iyer+Grooms

this is funny. I used to imagine Rishi looking like IYR246129 vaitheeswaran.

by bw Wed Feb 05, 2014 10:45 pm

pravalika nanda wrote:
Silly Point wrote:
indophile wrote:There are many tall Iyer boys here.

http://www.iyermatrimony.com/matrimonial/Iyer+Grooms

there are all fetuses on there age 24?? and some how 5ft 6 is not tall enough..

Thanks for trying dawlin

*air kisses*

Krithi
i like nondescript iyer # 245897, venkatesh p. he might just want a couple of goats in dowry and he is sold!

wow, the site has a pull-down menu to specify subcaastu as well - who would want to marry these losers drowned in caastu/subcaaastu preferences. wussy iyer boys, all.

by Hellsangel Wed Feb 05, 2014 10:50 pm

bw wrote:
pravalika nanda wrote:
Silly Point wrote:
indophile wrote:There are many tall Iyer boys here.

http://www.iyermatrimony.com/matrimonial/Iyer+Grooms

there are all fetuses on there age 24?? and some how 5ft 6 is not tall enough..

Thanks for trying dawlin

*air kisses*

Krithi
i like nondescript iyer # 245897, venkatesh p. he might just want a couple of goats in dowry and he is sold!

wow, the site has a pull-down menu to specify sub-caastu as well - who would want to marry these losers drowned in caastu/subcaaastu preferences. wussy iyer boys, all.

Some poor goat would. That is the only way these wussy Iyer boys can marry.

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