Re: Love Story 2. Part 7.

by artood2 Thu Jul 28, 2011 2:57 am

What's wrong with looking Muslim? Weren't folks falling over the Paki minister? How about Madhubala, Nargis, Waheeda Rehman, Zeenat Aman?

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 3:21 am

i suppose you asked that question of shaven.

no there is nothing wrong in looking muslim -- especially if you are hina khar, fabulously rich and pay no income taxes.

by artood2 Thu Jul 28, 2011 3:22 am

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:i suppose you asked that question of shaven.

no there is nothing wrong in looking muslim -- especially if you are hina khar, fabulously rich and pay no income taxes.

It was to you, 7 and TW.

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 3:57 am

neither i nor tw expressed disdain for looking muslim. only shaven expressed some amount of consternation when she said:

Seven wrote:eww puhleez! i wear kajal/liner mascara all the time and dont look least bit muslim :-&

i suppose that bolded emoticon means that she is feeling repugnant.

tw's child is a kid. she thinks long noses are muslim. as she grows up and meets more people, she will understand that this is not necessarily true but that childhood identifier will always remain etched. quite like how kajal reminds TW's husband of things muslim -- maybe it is a childhood experience. same for me. although my mom used to apply kajal to my eyes when i was a kid, i have seen grown up men apply kajal to their eyes only among the muslims. strong kajal among women evokes the same feeling in me -- the person looks muslim. their is no feeling of abhorrence or anything to this practise. in fact i love muslim women -- many of them are very pretty. so if someone looks muslim it is good.i think TW also said that in the same vein -- looking muslim as a form of flattery.

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 5:45 am

i have a pakistani friend in a game i play. she is 35, from lahore, married. we play fb delete delete to. we add each other, see each other's pics and then we delete our friendship. repeat whenever a new pic. is loaded. one day we were chatting.

farwa - janeman, can you do me a favour
me - what?
farwa - can you mail me a sari?
me - Shocked

farwa - heloooo, u der?
me - i'll have to think about this....
farwa - any sari yaar
me - do you know how to wear one?
farwa - yes
me - don't you get them there?
farwa - yes but quality is not good
me - sari can cost from rs 500 to 5 lacs...
farwa - anything you like
me - ok i'll ask my wife
farwa - hutt buddhu leave it
me - what?
farwa - don't ask your wife. she will cut your net. i don't want it
me - ok...

(later)

farwa - don't you have a friend who can mail it? i'll say my dost sent it from india
me - hmmm

*next day i changed my id -- am still thinking what to do*

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 7:23 am

Why don't you just give each other the link of the album?

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 7:46 am

forgot about the links to the album feature. let me see how one retrieves that.

edit. but that universal link is kind of dangerous. no, delete delete is better -- plus it's more fun.

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 8:21 am

Is it dangerous? How?

Another way would be to make the album public for a while and them make it private again.

But I get it. You like delete delete. Maybe you also check out wall etc.

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 8:30 am

Tracy Whitney wrote:Is it dangerous? How?

can not anyone (non friends) access it even when i don't want them to? and circulate it to others without my knowing?

what does "check out wall etc." mean?

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 8:35 am

No. Under any album there is a link, visible only to you that you can copy paste to show someone. The only 'risk' here is if that person misuses that link later.

By wall I meant your wall on FB.

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 8:47 am

that is what i am saying. it is a "universal" link. anyone can see it once you pass it on -- friends, non friends and stalkers. with delete delete at least you have control for you are opening the window for a few minutes and then shutting it. of course your friend can copy/paste but that's different for the images he might exhibit are not "tied" to your profile. you can always do a qb and deny it's you and sometimes say oh whoever he is he's ugly and sometimes say, he's handsome, lol but it's not me etc.

what's there to see in wall etc.? c'mon. in any case most walls are locked and open only to friends.

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 8:51 am

Huzefa Kapasi wrote: you can always do a qb and deny it's you and sometimes say oh whoever he is he's ugly and sometimes say, he's handsome, lol but it's not me etc.

ya well, I usually don't open up to peeps I could not fully trust. I make small mistakes here and there, but am sorta alert overall.

by Propagandhi711 Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:56 am

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:i have a pakistani friend in a game i play. she is 35, from lahore, married. we play fb delete delete to. we add each other, see each other's pics and then we delete our friendship. repeat whenever a new pic. is loaded. one day we were chatting.

farwa - janeman, can you do me a favour
me - what?
farwa - can you mail me a sari?
me -
farwa - heloooo, u der?
me - i'll have to think about this....
farwa - any sari yaar
me - do you know how to wear one?
farwa - yes
me - don't you get them there?
farwa - yes but quality is not good
me - sari can cost from rs 500 to 5 lacs...
farwa - anything you like
me - ok i'll ask my wife
farwa - hutt buddhu leave it
me - what?
farwa - don't ask your wife. she will cut your net. i don't want it
me - ok...

(later)

farwa - don't you have a friend who can mail it? i'll say my dost sent it from india
me - hmmm

*next day i changed my id -- am still thinking what to do*

are you ewww at 35, muslim, married or paki? or just get cold feet? chicken.

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 10:15 am

Propagandhi711 wrote:are you ewww at 35, muslim, married or paki? or just get cold feet? chicken.

no no, no question of ewww. i'm scared of my wife -- don't want to upset her. in fact, i did ask my wife if i could send her a sari and punctuated it with the comment that it was, after all, harmless fun. her silence. i changed my id before silence turned into a tantrum. sometimes i do chat with the 35, muslim in my old id. i had even mentioned the wife episode to her. she had said -- oye buddhu, wo uska pyaar dikhane ka tarika hai. ok.

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 10:22 am

I gotta learn this silence business. have heard too many anecdotes by now of husbands getting scared after getting silent treatment from wife.

Usually I get curious, ask questions, then start understanding what all must be going on, even imagine it, then start forming theories, and then start running experiments to test out those theories.

When all I need to do is to go silent.

How is it done and how to execute it fully?

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 12:52 pm

Tracy Whitney wrote:How is it done and how to execute it fully?

i made my wife read this (notwithstanding the fact that she reads everything i post anywhere). she smiled and said kuch nahi hai silent treatment. i hope you understand.

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 12:58 pm

artood2 wrote:What's wrong with looking Muslim? Weren't folks falling over the Paki minister? How about Madhubala, Nargis, Waheeda Rehman, Zeenat Aman?

nothing wrong at all. i am against making kajal a muslim-only feature. hindus wear kajal too. forever. maybe bcz muslims dont wear bindi and show only their eyes ppl think kajal associated with muslims.

well my point was kajal looks b'ful and i didnt want muslims to claim their sole authority on it. like its our thing and everyone else is copying us type of thing.

@ HK, well ty. i dont wana argue with you either.

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 1:01 pm

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:How is it done and how to execute it fully?

i made my wife read this (notwithstanding the fact that she reads everything i post anywhere). she smiled and said kuch nahi hai silent treatment. i hope you understand.

telling ya. she's mastered the art. she's not gonna give out the secret.

by Propagandhi711 Thu Jul 28, 2011 1:13 pm

Tracy Whitney wrote:I gotta learn this silence business.

yes, some silence from you would be much appreciated.

by Propagandhi711 Thu Jul 28, 2011 1:16 pm

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:
Propagandhi711 wrote:are you ewww at 35, muslim, married or paki? or just get cold feet? chicken.

no no, no question of ewww. i'm scared of my wife -- don't want to upset her. in fact, i did ask my wife if i could send her a sari and punctuated it with the comment that it was, after all, harmless fun. her silence. i changed my id before silence turned into a tantrum. sometimes i do chat with the 35, muslim in my old id. i had even mentioned the wife episode to her. she had said -- oye buddhu, wo uska pyaar dikhane ka tarika hai. ok.

told your WIFE!!! god, you bushleaguers

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 1:18 pm

Propagandhi711 wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:I gotta learn this silence business.

yes, some silence from you would be much appreciated.

arre! fine then.. zzip. your loss wonly.

by Propagandhi711 Thu Jul 28, 2011 1:20 pm

zipp would help you much. this is for your benefit wonly.

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 1:24 pm

Propagandhi711 wrote:zipp would help you much. this is for your benefit wonly.

k, my silent treatment starts right now. Wait, HK, am I supposed to say it before I start it? I am guessing no...

but then how would DUT know I am giving him the silent treatment? what if he thought I am silent just coz I am?

kya problem hai yaar.

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 1:33 pm

ha ha. my philosophy is do what your heart says and live to defend it with the rashmun method. fultoo success so far. silence is not important but demonstrating that you are silent is more important.

by Guest Thu Jul 28, 2011 2:04 pm

i'm lurking presently

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