My foolish friend

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 1:58 pm

Just saw my colleague crying. He had had another fight with his lady love. What an ass.

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 2:10 pm

why is he an ass?

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 2:14 pm

Kinnera wrote:why is he an ass?

Someone once told me:

Never run after a girl, it's the worst thing you can do
Show them your independence, and let them run after you

by harharmahadev Mon Mar 24, 2014 2:19 pm

Rashmun wrote:Just saw my colleague crying. He had had another fight with his lady love. What an ass.

What were they fighting about?

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 2:20 pm

harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:Just saw my colleague crying. He had had another fight with his lady love. What an ass.

What were they fighting about?

No idea.

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 2:21 pm

Rashmun wrote:
Kinnera wrote:why is he an ass?

Someone once told me:

Never run after a girl, it's the worst thing you can do
Show them your independence, and let them run after you

If they behave like egoistic jerks, then no girl is going to run after them.

Btw, if he were running after a girl, he wouldn't have fought with her. rite? He would've done everything to please her and not fight with her. You said 'another' fight, which means they fought many times before too, but then got back together again. So it's all good. Their bond is strong.

by harharmahadev Mon Mar 24, 2014 2:36 pm

Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:Just saw my colleague crying. He had had another fight with his lady love. What an ass.

What were they fighting about?

No idea.

How do you know he had a fight with his lady love? How do you know he was not crying because of kidney stones?

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 2:39 pm

harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:Just saw my colleague crying. He had had another fight with his lady love. What an ass.

What were they fighting about?

No idea.

How do you know he had a fight with his lady love? How do you know he was not crying because of kidney stones?

I saw the two of them together shortly before I saw him crying.

by harharmahadev Mon Mar 24, 2014 2:44 pm

Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:Just saw my colleague crying. He had had another fight with his lady love. What an ass.

What were they fighting about?

No idea.

How do you know he had a fight with his lady love? How do you know he was not crying because of kidney stones?

I saw the two of them together shortly before I saw him crying.

Did you overhear them fighting? Did she look upset? She could have told him about MH370. How can you be so certain that they had a fight?

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 2:53 pm

harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:

What were they fighting about?

No idea.

How do you know he had a fight with his lady love? How do you know he was not crying because of kidney stones?

I saw the two of them together shortly before I saw him crying.

Did you overhear them fighting? Did she look upset? She could have told him about MH370. How can you be so certain that they had a fight?

I came to the conclusion with the help of Occam's razor.

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:02 pm

In the beg. of my career, this slightly senior colleague of mine used to like this another colleague. He was pretty open about it, as in we all used to sorta joke about it. She began dating someone else, some other guy in the company itself. He got sick when he found out. Real sick. Sorta cried too. I went up to him and put a hand on his shoulder and consoled him, I felt so bad. Later, he told the girl his feelings and got his heart broken further. He would check out the guy's picture on intranet and smolder. I would smolder along with him.

We moved on to different projects. Later, he got a very short stint as a resource manager and at the same time I was on bench. He put me in ultra-exclusive inner frameworks project with PAID enterprise 2-month training. Only 5-6 people were put on it in the entire company. The rest my friend, is history. I owe my entire career to that guy, literally.

What I mean to say is, if someone is crying, console them. Do not call them an ass.

by seven Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:10 pm

Crying at work? In everyone's sight?
Does she work in the same office?

This lack of data issue is so frustrating.

He's an ass because he fought or bcz he cried or bcz it's not the first time he fought or bcz he's not being independent n is running after love?

by harharmahadev Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:17 pm

Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:

No idea.

How do you know he had a fight with his lady love? How do you know he was not crying because of kidney stones?

I saw the two of them together shortly before I saw him crying.

Did you overhear them fighting? Did she look upset? She could have told him about MH370. How can you be so certain that they had a fight?

I came to the conclusion with the help of Occam's razor.

Do they have kids? Are both of them working? How old are they? Is it an arranged marriage or love marriage?

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:21 pm

harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:

How do you know he had a fight with his lady love? How do you know he was not crying because of kidney stones?

I saw the two of them together shortly before I saw him crying.

Did you overhear them fighting? Did she look upset? She could have told him about MH370. How can you be so certain that they had a fight?

I came to the conclusion with the help of Occam's razor.

Do they have kids? Are both of them working? How old are they? Is it an arranged marriage or love marriage?

Both of them are single. Don't know the age.

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:26 pm

seven wrote:Crying at work? In everyone's sight?
Does she work in the same office?

This lack of data issue is so frustrating.

He's an ass because he fought or bcz he cried or bcz it's not the first time he fought or bcz he's not being independent n is running after love?

In my opinion it is the woman's prerogative to become emotional in the course of a relationship. He is an ass for being so excessively emotional in this matter.

by harharmahadev Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:28 pm

Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:

I saw the two of them together shortly before I saw him crying.

Did you overhear them fighting? Did she look upset? She could have told him about MH370. How can you be so certain that they had a fight?

I came to the conclusion with the help of Occam's razor.

Do they have kids? Are both of them working? How old are they? Is it an arranged marriage or love marriage?

Both of them are single. Don't know the age.

What does she look like? Is she bangable?

by michelle2 Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:29 pm

harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:

What were they fighting about?

No idea.

How do you know he had a fight with his lady love? How do you know he was not crying because of kidney stones?

I saw the two of them together shortly before I saw him crying.

Did you overhear them fighting? Did she look upset? She could have told him about MH370. How can you be so certain that they had a fight?

he may have suggested that she gift her friend who lost someone close to her in the MH370 disaster with a shawl and a $100 gift certificate, and she may have called him an idiot and forced him to sit on a sharp object that soon disappeared up his posterior orifice. that may be why he was crying. how could rashmun be so sure?

by harharmahadev Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:34 pm

michelle2 wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:

No idea.

How do you know he had a fight with his lady love? How do you know he was not crying because of kidney stones?

I saw the two of them together shortly before I saw him crying.

Did you overhear them fighting? Did she look upset? She could have told him about MH370. How can you be so certain that they had a fight?
he may have suggested that she gift her friend who lost someone close to her in the MH370 disaster with a shawl and a $100 gift certificate, and she may have called him an idiot and forced him to sit on a sharp object that soon disappeared up his posterior orifice. that may be why he was crying. how could rashmun be so sure?

If that was her response to his compassion-filled suggestion, then he is better off without her.

by seven Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:35 pm

I'm starting to think this 'friend' doesn't exist. It's rashmun who fought n cried n is now upset with himself for being so foolish in love n crying.

Amiright or am I right.

<hugs> rashmun

by michelle2 Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:36 pm

harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:

Did you overhear them fighting? Did she look upset? She could have told him about MH370. How can you be so certain that they had a fight?

I came to the conclusion with the help of Occam's razor.

Do they have kids? Are both of them working? How old are they? Is it an arranged marriage or love marriage?

Both of them are single. Don't know the age.

What does she look like? Is she bangable?

not by you. friendly suggestion: continue to visit the floozies; get yourself tested for hiv every few months.

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:40 pm

seven wrote:I'm starting to think this 'friend' doesn't exist. It's rashmun who fought n cried n is now upset with himself for being so foolish in love n crying.

Amiright or am I right.

<hugs> rashmun

No my friend is for real. He is Caucasian and his girlfriend is Chinese.

by michelle2 Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:42 pm

harharmahadev wrote:
michelle2 wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:

How do you know he had a fight with his lady love? How do you know he was not crying because of kidney stones?

I saw the two of them together shortly before I saw him crying.

Did you overhear them fighting? Did she look upset? She could have told him about MH370. How can you be so certain that they had a fight?
he may have suggested that she gift her friend who lost someone close to her in the MH370 disaster with a shawl and a $100 gift certificate, and she may have called him an idiot and forced him to sit on a sharp object that soon disappeared up his posterior orifice. that may be why he was crying. how could rashmun be so sure?

If that was her response to his compassion-filled suggestion, then he is better off without her.

ah, interesting. is that how you would respond to a friend's grief over death?

by harharmahadev Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:43 pm

michelle2 wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:

I came to the conclusion with the help of Occam's razor.

Do they have kids? Are both of them working? How old are they? Is it an arranged marriage or love marriage?

Both of them are single. Don't know the age.

What does she look like? Is she bangable?
not by you. friendly suggestion: continue to visit the floozies; get yourself tested for hiv every few months.

Let's stay on topic, okay? This is not about you and me. It's about Rashmun and his colleague.

by michelle2 Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:47 pm

Rashmun wrote:
seven wrote:I'm starting to think this 'friend' doesn't exist. It's rashmun who fought n cried n is now upset with himself for being so foolish in love n crying.

Amiright or am I right.

<hugs> rashmun

No my friend is for real. He is Caucasian and his girlfriend is Chinese.

you should have said so earlier. you forced people to waste their emotions on someone who's not marathi or gujarati.

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:51 pm

Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:Just saw my colleague crying. He had had another fight with his lady love. What an ass.

What were they fighting about?

No idea.

Did you make an attempt to talk to him and find out why he's upset?

by michelle2 Mon Mar 24, 2014 3:57 pm

harharmahadev wrote:
michelle2 wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:

Do they have kids? Are both of them working? How old are they? Is it an arranged marriage or love marriage?

Both of them are single. Don't know the age.

What does she look like? Is she bangable?
not by you. friendly suggestion: continue to visit the floozies; get yourself tested for hiv every few months.

Let's stay on topic, okay? This is not about you and me. It's about Rashmun and his colleague.

my post was about bangability - your ability to "bang" an unknown female - a topic you opened, okay?

by harharmahadev Mon Mar 24, 2014 4:03 pm

michelle2 wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
seven wrote:I'm starting to think this 'friend' doesn't exist. It's rashmun who fought n cried n is now upset with himself for being so foolish in love n crying.

Amiright or am I right.

<hugs> rashmun

No my friend is for real. He is Caucasian and his girlfriend is Chinese.
you should have said so earlier. you forced people to waste their emotions on someone who's not marathi or gujarati.

I concur. This was a complete waste of my time.

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 4:04 pm

Kinnera wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:Just saw my colleague crying. He had had another fight with his lady love. What an ass.

What were they fighting about?

No idea.
Did you make an attempt to talk to him and find out why he's upset?

Of course not. It's his personal matter. He would be offended if I made any such attempt.

by smArtha Mon Mar 24, 2014 4:08 pm

Kinnera wrote:If they behave like egoistic jerks, then no girl is going to run after them.

So it's all good. Their bond is strong.

Acc to Rashmun, this is past the "you impress me I impress you phase", so let's cut the chase( or run). These people seem to be already involved and the fights or emotional outbursts are from that. There is not enough information to comment about the 'strength or character' of the two involved as well as of their bond.

by seven Mon Mar 24, 2014 4:14 pm

Just saw my colleague have another fight with his lady love. What an ass.
Who would say sucha thing?
Sm1 who has a crush on the same girl?

Is that it, rashmun?

We'll totally side with you. We don't even know the other two people so don't worry. Tell how you feel.
He's an ass for fighting with her. Again. Yes?

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 4:16 pm

Rashmun wrote:
Kinnera wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:Just saw my colleague crying. He had had another fight with his lady love. What an ass.

What were they fighting about?

No idea.
Did you make an attempt to talk to him and find out why he's upset?

Of course not. It's his personal matter. He would be offended if I made any such attempt.

If someone beside you is obviously upset, won't you make an attempt to talk to them, at least with an 'Are you ok?'? That could help him open up. If he wants to talk, he will. Else he could say, 'No, I am fine. Thank you.' And then you just move on and do your thing and he'll deal with his grief. But you making that small conversation is the most natural and courteous thing to do. Is it not?

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 4:22 pm

Kinnera wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
Kinnera wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:

What were they fighting about?

No idea.
Did you make an attempt to talk to him and find out why he's upset?

Of course not. It's his personal matter. He would be offended if I made any such attempt.
If someone beside you is obviously upset, won't you make an attempt to talk to them, at least with an 'Are you ok?'? That could help him open up. If he wants to talk, he will. Else he could say, 'No, I am fine. Thank you.' And then you just move on and do your thing and he'll deal with his grief. But you making that small conversation is the most natural and courteous thing to do. Is it not?

As nearly as I can tell The reason they are fighting is because he tried hitting on a girlfriend of a mutual friend of ours ( including things like holding hands) and the boyfriend of the other girl found out about it. And subsequently I am assuming so did his own girlfriend. Now the reason I know about the second girl is because I am a good friend of the other guy ( the one whose girlfriend the Caucasian guy was trying to hit on) and he told this to me.

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 4:27 pm

smArtha wrote:
Kinnera wrote:If they behave like egoistic jerks, then no girl is going to run after them.

So it's all good. Their bond is strong.

Acc to Rashmun, this is past the "you impress me I impress you phase", so let's cut the chase( or run). These people seem to be already involved and the fights or emotional outbursts are from that. There is not enough information to comment about the 'strength or character' of the two involved as well as of their bond.

From what i understood, they are in a relationship and they fought before too. And obviously, they got back together. I think these are pretty common in a relationship and if they are back together again, there's some bond/love left between them.

PS: oh btw, you quoted me wrongly above. My first sentence is in response to what rashmun stated abt how to have the girl running after the man.

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 4:32 pm

Rashmun wrote:
Kinnera wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
Kinnera wrote:
Rashmun wrote:

No idea.
Did you make an attempt to talk to him and find out why he's upset?

Of course not. It's his personal matter. He would be offended if I made any such attempt.
If someone beside you is obviously upset, won't you make an attempt to talk to them, at least with an 'Are you ok?'? That could help him open up. If he wants to talk, he will. Else he could say, 'No, I am fine. Thank you.' And then you just move on and do your thing and he'll deal with his grief. But you making that small conversation is the most natural and courteous thing to do. Is it not?

As nearly as I can tell The reason they are fighting is because he tried hitting on a girlfriend of a mutual friend of ours ( including things like holding hands) and the boyfriend of the other girl found out about it. And subsequently I am assuming so did his own girlfriend. Now the reason I know about the second girl is because I am a good friend of the other guy ( the one whose girlfriend the Caucasian guy was trying to hit on) and he told this to me.

Oh..so the keeping tab on the gossips and making assumptions about others is going on in real life too Smile

. K...i am out of this thread

by seven Mon Mar 24, 2014 4:46 pm

Rashmun wrote:
harharmahadev wrote:
Rashmun wrote:Just saw my colleague crying. He had had another fight with his lady love. What an ass.

What were they fighting about?

No idea.

No idea or some idea?

My astrologer asked me not to speculate too much.

by Propagandhi711 Mon Mar 24, 2014 4:50 pm

douchey thread of the day from doucheman

by smArtha Mon Mar 24, 2014 5:06 pm

seven wrote:No idea or some idea?

My astrologer asked me not to speculate too much.

He, actually, meant that was his job.

by seven Mon Mar 24, 2014 5:23 pm

smArtha wrote:
seven wrote:No idea or some idea?

My astrologer asked me not to speculate too much.

He, actually, meant that was his job.

I wanted to delete my post but Propa posted before I could.
I wanted to delete all my posts but people replied too fast n I couldn't.

Also, I didn't understand what you meant thanks to all the commas.

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 5:28 pm

Rashu are you trolling?

(thanks)

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 8:52 pm

Tracy Whitney wrote:Rashu are you trolling?

(thanks)

No I was not.

Incidentally is it not true that you have been sharing Kinnera's family picture ( which Kinnera shared with you in private) with other members of this forum without Kinnera's permission?

by Guest Mon Mar 24, 2014 9:12 pm

Rashmun wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:Rashu are you trolling?

(thanks)

No I was not.

Incidentally is it not true that you have been sharing Kinnera's family picture ( which Kinnera shared with you in private) with other members of this forum without Kinnera's permission?

are you asking me or telling me?

by Propagandhi711 Mon Mar 24, 2014 9:25 pm

Tracy Whitney wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:Rashu are you trolling?

(thanks)

No I was not.

Incidentally is it not true that you have been sharing Kinnera's family picture ( which Kinnera shared with you in private) with other members of this forum without Kinnera's permission?

are you asking me or telling me?

he is leading you on. douchemun fancies himself to be a state prosecutor working in the courtroom of SUCH

by Guest Tue Mar 25, 2014 4:55 pm

Rashmun wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:Rashu are you trolling?

(thanks)

No I was not.

Incidentally is it not true that you have been sharing Kinnera's family picture ( which Kinnera shared with you in private) with other members of this forum without Kinnera's permission?

I know Tracy very well as she's my dear friend. The thing is, the one who is spreading the word that she is sharing my family pic is a jerk/jerkini. To hell with them!

by Rekz Tue Mar 25, 2014 5:12 pm

Kinnera wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:Rashu are you trolling?

(thanks)

No I was not.

Incidentally is it not true that you have been sharing Kinnera's family picture ( which Kinnera shared with you in private) with other members of this forum without Kinnera's permission?
I know Tracy very well as she's my dear friend. The thing is, the one who is spreading the word that she is sharing my family pic is a jerk/jerkini. To hell with them!

Tracy is capable of doing this.... Coz she is one loda loda vaayi....the other day she almost made me and seven lock horns Mad

... Crazy woman by god...

Baat simple si thi ... But I'm very disappointed with her behaviour.. AnD one foolish friend can ruin your privacy ..

by Guest Tue Mar 25, 2014 5:43 pm

Rekz wrote:
Kinnera wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:Rashu are you trolling?

(thanks)

No I was not.

Incidentally is it not true that you have been sharing Kinnera's family picture ( which Kinnera shared with you in private) with other members of this forum without Kinnera's permission?
I know Tracy very well as she's my dear friend. The thing is, the one who is spreading the word that she is sharing my family pic is a jerk/jerkini. To hell with them!
Tracy is capable of doing this....

She may or may not have shared my pic. That's not the point here. Hypothetically, let's say she did...why did the other person ask for my pic in the first place and/or was willing to see it if she was showing it? And after seeing it, they shld've just appreciated it and STFU. Instead, why do they have to go around telling ppl that she shared my pic? What kind of a character is that? That's a very sneaky behavior and a major breach of trust.

by seven Tue Mar 25, 2014 6:01 pm

Yup! Hypothetically speaking, they should have said no to seeing the pic if they were offered to see. They should have not mentioned to anyone they saw the pic.
And because they didn't do it, they are sneaky.

:thumbs up

by Guest Tue Mar 25, 2014 6:05 pm

seven wrote:Yup! Hypothetically speaking, they should have said no to seeing the pic if they were offered to see. They should have not mentioned to anyone they saw the pic.
And because they didn't do it, they are sneaky.

:thumbs up

:thumbs up, 7! Smile

by Propagandhi711 Tue Mar 25, 2014 6:54 pm

Rekz wrote:
Kinnera wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:Rashu are you trolling?

(thanks)

No I was not.

Incidentally is it not true that you have been sharing Kinnera's family picture ( which Kinnera shared with you in private) with other members of this forum without Kinnera's permission?
I know Tracy very well as she's my dear friend. The thing is, the one who is spreading the word that she is sharing my family pic is a jerk/jerkini. To hell with them!
Tracy is capable of doing this.... Coz she is one loda loda vaayi....the other day she almost made me and seven lock horns ... Crazy woman by god...

Baat simple si thi ... But I'm very disappointed with her behaviour.. AnD one foolish friend can ruin your privacy ..

I'd like to see you two take off your chunnis seductively, rub oil on your naked chesticles and...wrong channel, never mind.

by MaxEntropy_Man Tue Mar 25, 2014 7:05 pm

Rashmun wrote:Just saw my colleague crying. He had had another fight with his lady love. What an ass.

instead of consoling him, why are you ogling his girlfriend's ass?

by Propagandhi711 Tue Mar 25, 2014 7:07 pm

whatever gave you the idea it's the girlfriend's ass he was ogling?

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