How many of you are faithful?

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

11.  Never send a link to this article to your spouse (which I just did.)

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

12. Talking to ANYONE - male or female can be construed as flirting  - these days. The spouse, coming to know of it, will suspect you are a gay or Lesbo, which is even more dangerous now.

seven wrote:They forgot to add to the list,
- being in touch with old friends of opposite gender
- complimenting people of opposite sex on their looks, accomplishments
- accepting compliments from people of opposite gender.

I'm hungry but they forgot a lot of things on that list like not wearing burka n wearing your hair down for people of other sex to see, wearing perfume to work where your spouse doesn't work. Doing anything for yourself.

Bittu wrote:Troll submission from BK, but I'll bite.

After a man attains Chodu Level 100, nothing feels like cheating anymore. It's like a nurse who gets desensitized to seeing patients in pain, a master Chodu feels zero guilt in pummeling random yonifuls with his dong.

HTH

Beatrix Kiddo wrote:

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

12. Talking to ANYONE - male or female can be construed as flirting  - these days. The spouse, coming to know of it, will suspect you are a gay or Lesbo, which is even more dangerous now.

lol, if I ever learn xh is a closet gay, I would somehow feel better. actually, at this point even if I find out he had affair(s) all through our marriage, I won't care. Guess in that case it would be like I made the right decision.

seven wrote:

Beatrix Kiddo wrote:

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

12. Talking to ANYONE - male or female can be construed as flirting  - these days. The spouse, coming to know of it, will suspect you are a gay or Lesbo, which is even more dangerous now.

lol, if I ever learn xh is a closet gay, I would somehow feel better. actually, at this point even if I find out he had affair(s) all through our marriage, I won't care. Guess in that case it would be like I made the right decision.

Easier said than done. From wrat you've shared, it seems like you don't totally hate him. If you found out he cheated, you'll be hurt.

Beatrix Kiddo wrote:

nope not at all. that's the only thing about him that makes me a bit guilty, that he never supposedly had an affair or even one-nighter. If he did, then it's a load off my chest. 

Bittu wrote:Troll submission from BK, but I'll bite.

After a man attains Chodu Level 100, nothing feels like cheating anymore. It's like a nurse who gets desensitized to seeing patients in pain, a master Chodu feels zero guilt in pummeling random yonifuls with his dong.

HTH

smArtha wrote:

Beatrix Kiddo wrote:

nope not at all. that's the only thing about him that makes me a bit guilty, that he never supposedly had an affair or even one-nighter. If he did, then it's a load off my chest. 

Why are you carrying the burden of his faithfulness? Why does he 'not-cheating' make you guilty? Or you want him to crossover the line to give yourself a sound justification for your separation?

Beatrix Kiddo wrote:

ya well, his faithfulness has not been determined  not really carrying a burden, but when protesting divorce that's what he used to say over and over how adultery was a much worse thing (compared to my reasons) and he didn't do that so why was I still divorcing him.

truthbetold wrote:Does this mean marriage counselor replaces the catholic priest? These guys want everybody to feel guilty and run to a marriage counselor.

A more interesting question is how many have strayed from the beaten path?

goodcitizn wrote:If this is the barometer of faithfulness, I didn't realize I sucked at it so.

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

11.  Never send a link to this article to your spouse (which I just did.)

seven wrote:They forgot to add to the list,
- being in touch with old friends of opposite gender
- complimenting people of opposite sex on their looks, accomplishments
- accepting compliments from people of opposite gender.

I'm hungry but they forgot a lot of things on that list like not wearing burka n wearing your hair down for people of other sex to see, wearing perfume to work where your spouse doesn't work. Doing anything for yourself.

Kinnera wrote:So basically they are saying that getting married is equivalent to taking Sanyasam.

SomeProfile wrote:

seven wrote:They forgot to add to the list,
- being in touch with old friends of opposite gender
- complimenting people of opposite sex on their looks, accomplishments
- accepting compliments from people of opposite gender.

I'm hungry but they forgot a lot of things on that list like not wearing burka n wearing your hair down for people of other sex to see, wearing perfume to work where your spouse doesn't work. Doing anything for yourself.

You didn't answer the original question from this post. Have you been unfaithful as per this article? If yes, which of these rules did you break? Which ones do you break habitually / frequently?

seven wrote:

SomeProfile wrote:

seven wrote:They forgot to add to the list,
- being in touch with old friends of opposite gender
- complimenting people of opposite sex on their looks, accomplishments
- accepting compliments from people of opposite gender.

I'm hungry but they forgot a lot of things on that list like not wearing burka n wearing your hair down for people of other sex to see, wearing perfume to work where your spouse doesn't work. Doing anything for yourself.

You didn't answer the original question from this post. Have you been unfaithful as per this article? If yes, which of these rules did you break? Which ones do you break habitually / frequently?

if the article is a line, the line is a dot to me.

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

Bittu wrote:Troll submission from BK, but I'll bite.

After a man attains Chodu Level 100, nothing feels like cheating anymore. It's like a nurse who gets desensitized to seeing patients in pain, a master Chodu feels zero guilt in pummeling random yonifuls with his dong.

HTH

Well... a 73 yr old guy was fired last week on the spot by our CEO as the motorcycle riding oldie loved to talk in ambiguous wordage much to the delight of the 20-something girls. It is rumored one of the 50+ bitches was his arch enemy and "lighted" the match.

So it is not what YOU think but what others think....