I can NOT live without my family!

by TruthSeeker Thu Dec 04, 2014 10:45 pm

The older I get, More I know I can NOT live without my family.

I used to think that personal freedom would make me happy, but even a day without any of them, is the hardest to pass.

It does not feel like freedom, but some sort of vacuum.

To an extent, that it is not even possible for me.

What will happen when part of this family, kids, fly away?

Uff @ that thought.

G'nite,
TS.

by Propagandhi711 Fri Dec 05, 2014 12:12 am

is it thursday evening already? or is this a special extra show for the holidays?

by Merlot Daruwala Fri Dec 05, 2014 6:09 am

Propagandhi711 wrote:is it thursday evening already? or is this a special extra show for the holidays?

The "family" is two one liter bottles and two quarters (ala `hum do hamare do') of two-dollar hooch.

Even a day without any of them is the hardest to pass. And yet, as the evening progresses, first the kids and then the adults gradually disappear. And then tears start rolling down from the eyeballs. This, alas, is the sad Truth. This..is...TS.

by TruthSeeker Wed Dec 10, 2014 12:40 am

(-:

Glad to know Merlot, that you cannot survive without me as well.

Your existence need not be to post smart-ass comments to me, you know that, dont you?

Be your own, someday.

Best wishes,
TS.

by Merlot Daruwala Wed Dec 10, 2014 12:46 am

TruthSeeker wrote:(-:

Glad to know Merlot, that you cannot survive without me as well.

Of course TS. Your are family. Absolutely can't survive without you. Or the mid-week entertainment you so unfailingly provide. *Hugs*

by TruthSeeker Wed Dec 10, 2014 12:49 am

To be "reactive" to someone personally, to a point that it defines your "existence" - is a point to ponder Merlot.

Learn to start new topics yourself.

Best wishes,
TS.

by Merlot Daruwala Wed Dec 10, 2014 12:53 am

TruthSeeker wrote:To be "reactive" to someone personally, to a point that it defines your "existence" - is a point to ponder Merlot.

Learn to start new topics yourself.

Best wishes,
TS.

Unkil, how can discussions ensue if everyone just keeps posting new topics?

If everyone is a leader, and there are no followers, the concept of a leader itself gets negated. So I prefer to remain a humble follower. I follow your topics with much interest and diligence. Please keep posting new topics.

by TruthSeeker Wed Dec 10, 2014 12:56 am

How can you never be that leader to post a new topic?

Do you question yourself, or afraid to be judged like other "reactive" folks?

You do not look like someone who is afraid. Why not post your original thoughts than always trying to prove to others by reacting?

Think about it,
TS.

by TruthSeeker Wed Dec 10, 2014 12:58 am

And if You are afraid that I'd make fun of your original thoughts, I promise that I'd be respectful in my response - agree or disagree.

G'nite and may you feel powerful,
TS.

by Merlot Daruwala Wed Dec 10, 2014 1:08 am

TruthSeeker wrote:And if You are afraid that I'd make fun of your original thoughts, I promise that I'd be respectful in my response - agree or disagree.

G'nite and may you feel powerful,
TS.

Thank you Unkil. I feel most empowered just now. Will surely post a new topic today. Just for you.

by Guest Wed Dec 10, 2014 10:59 am

TruthSeeker wrote:The older I get, More I know I can NOT live without my family.

I used to think that personal freedom would make me happy, but even a day without any of them, is the hardest to pass.

It does not feel like freedom, but some sort of vacuum.

To an extent, that it is not even possible for me.

What will happen when part of this family, kids, fly away?

Uff @ that thought.

G'nite,
TS.

Not good signs. When younger, you want to get away from your parents and have your own personal freedom. When older, you want to hang on to your kids and have them fill your vacuum. You got to let go. Your job is to nurture them until their wings are strong. Once they are, let them fly away.

by TruthSeeker Sun Dec 21, 2014 7:28 pm

Hi Kinnu,

Ok. Like you wisely suggest - I will let them fly away.

Thanks,
TS.

by MaxEntropy_Man Fri Dec 26, 2014 10:35 pm

develop strong hobbies and passions independently which have nothing to do with your family. these could be recreational mathematics, music, biking, hiking, or creative writing. nurture your inner self (i am not talking about fortifying yourself with $2/gal hooch). that will help you when you become an empty nester.

by TruthSeeker Mon Dec 29, 2014 1:21 am

@Maxi - Your perceptions aint my truth. You see void in others that exist within you. That is my truth of people like you, or Merlot who are here only to judge others, barely exposing themselves. Scared puppies you are.

Think about it,
TS.

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