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Post by chameli Thu Nov 10, 2011 4:20 pm

If you like someone on Internet how do u proceed to know him/her better ?

1 email

2 voice chat on ym or gtalk

3 video chat

In this order I am guessing

And then what ? Isn't it frustrating sometimes that it can go no further?
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Post by Guest Thu Nov 10, 2011 6:21 pm

isnt that how we stay connected to our family back home too?
We call them, vdo chat with them and email them or say our friends who are in India or other countries, we do the same.

that's the thing with long distance relationships. if your internet friend lives locally then you can become friends i mean meet up every now n then and become real friends.

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Post by harharmahadev Thu Nov 10, 2011 7:19 pm

chameli wrote:If you like someone on Internet how do u proceed to know him/her better ?

1 email

2 voice chat on ym or gtalk

3 video chat

In this order I am guessing

And then what ? Isn't it frustrating sometimes that it can go no further?

Arrange a face to face meeting. Then a body to body meeting.

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Post by Guest Thu Nov 10, 2011 7:52 pm

seven wrote:isnt that how we stay connected to our family back home too?
We call them, vdo chat with them and email them or say our friends who are in India or other countries, we do the same.

that's the thing with long distance relationships. if your internet friend lives locally then you can become friends i mean meet up every now n then and become real friends.

I wanted to add, it can get frustrating i agree, but if it wasnt for this, it wud get even more frustrating. imagine no contact!

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Post by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Fri Nov 11, 2011 12:53 am

chameli wrote:If you like someone on Internet how do u proceed to know him/her better ?

1 email

2 voice chat on ym or gtalk

3 video chat

In this order I am guessing

And then what ? Isn't it frustrating sometimes that it can go no further?

Define "further"...

If you want to go on a Kasi Yatra with him/her you should have no problem...

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Post by chameli Fri Nov 11, 2011 9:05 am

seven ,

of course we have to count our blessings that we even get to know people this way

I'm talking about a romantic relationship online starting from.... say a "suchat"

..what if there is a real possibility of it being more permanent ..and both have prior commitments...? what does one do ?

sigh ! let go of the online business I suppose !
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Post by chameli Fri Nov 11, 2011 9:12 am

har har mahadevji,

u are giving me the right sequence

after the body to body ..should they move in together ..?

or pay heed to the life they had before this romance happened ?
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Post by chameli Fri Nov 11, 2011 9:17 am

Marathadi,

lol !

You know exactly what I am getting at and it doesnt include Mount Kailas Smile

That would be a turn off for sure

Sometimes the lines blur between real and unreal .

Isn't that so ?
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