kinnera wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

kinnera wrote:

What abt the desired traits of a "better husband"?

hmm -
intelligent
earn
bod should not look ugh when nekkid.
cook
good dad
clean
be clean
drive
porn star in bed
listen
massage
sing
dance
no farting

very nice! Polyandry shld be made legal.

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

kinnera wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

kinnera wrote:

What abt the desired traits of a "better husband"?

hmm -
intelligent
earn
bod should not look ugh when nekkid.
cook
good dad
clean
be clean
drive
porn star in bed
listen
massage
sing
dance
no farting

very nice! Polyandry shld be made legal.

Fine. Don't know what I was thinking. Fine. Let him be a billionaire and I'll make myself believe he is all of the above.

Rashmun wrote:Who makes better wives--iyers or iyengars?

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:Who makes better wives--iyers or iyengars?

Pliss to define iyer or Iyengar.

Is it I-err and I-anger?

Rashmun wrote:

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:Who makes better wives--iyers or iyengars?

Pliss to define iyer or Iyengar.

Is it I-err and I-anger?

i loved the story about your brother. have not been able to forget it.

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:Who makes better wives--iyers or iyengars?

Pliss to define iyer or Iyengar.

Is it I-err and I-anger?

i loved the story about your brother. have not been able to forget it.

How relevant is my brother story to this topic.

Rashmun wrote:

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:Who makes better wives--iyers or iyengars?

Pliss to define iyer or Iyengar.

Is it I-err and I-anger?

i loved the story about your brother. have not been able to forget it.

How relevant is my brother story to this topic.

i was never able to thank you for sharing that story because i think i was traveling and so wanted to do it now.

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:

Sasthi wrote:



Pliss to define iyer or Iyengar.

Is it I-err and I-anger?

i loved the story about your brother. have not been able to forget it.

How relevant is my brother story to this topic.

i was never able to thank you for sharing that story because i think i was traveling and so wanted to do it now.

Oh okay, whatever!

They got divorced. My brother had so many restrictions about her family and relatives visting the house. My SIL couldn't take it and she seperated. The kids stay with her and my brother is staying with my Mom. He doesn't talk to anyone like he used to be.

Rashmun wrote:

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:

i loved the story about your brother. have not been able to forget it.

How relevant is my brother story to this topic.

i was never able to thank you for sharing that story because i think i was traveling and so wanted to do it now.

Oh okay, whatever!

They got divorced. My brother had so many restrictions about her family and relatives visting the house. My SIL couldn't take it and she seperated. The kids stay with her and my brother is staying with my Mom. He doesn't talk to anyone like he used to be.

very sad to hear this.

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:

Sasthi wrote:



How relevant is my brother story to this topic.

i was never able to thank you for sharing that story because i think i was traveling and so wanted to do it now.

Oh okay, whatever!

They got divorced. My brother had so many restrictions about her family and relatives visting the house. My SIL couldn't take it and she seperated. The kids stay with her and my brother is staying with my Mom. He doesn't talk to anyone like he used to be.

very sad to hear this.

Atleast my Mom is changing. She picks up the kids from school every evening and baby sits at their home. I think with time my brother will change. It's okay...don't be sad. It will get better.

Rashmun wrote:

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:

i was never able to thank you for sharing that story because i think i was traveling and so wanted to do it now.

Oh okay, whatever!

They got divorced. My brother had so many restrictions about her family and relatives visting the house. My SIL couldn't take it and she seperated. The kids stay with her and my brother is staying with my Mom. He doesn't talk to anyone like he used to be.

very sad to hear this.

Atleast my Mom is changing. She picks up the kids from school every evening and baby sits at their home. I think with time my brother will change. It's okay...don't be sad. It will get better.

can i ask how long they were together and how old are the kids now?

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:

Sasthi wrote:

Rashmun wrote:

Sasthi wrote:

Oh okay, whatever!

They got divorced. My brother had so many restrictions about her family and relatives visting the house. My SIL couldn't take it and she seperated. The kids stay with her and my brother is staying with my Mom. He doesn't talk to anyone like he used to be.

very sad to hear this.

Atleast my Mom is changing. She picks up the kids from school every evening and baby sits at their home. I think with time my brother will change. It's okay...don't be sad. It will get better.

can i ask how long they were together and how old are the kids now?

They have been like 20+ years together. Three kids, 1 girl and 2 boys. Eldest goes to the college, his daughter is the yougest, she is a 5th grader and the middle one is a 10th grader.