Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:That explains his actions and inactions.

Vidya Bagchi wrote:My thoughts are totally out of sync with my beliefs. Major disconnect there. No wonder my destiny is all screwed up.

Vidya Bagchi wrote:My thoughts are totally out of sync with my beliefs. Major disconnect there. No wonder my destiny is all screwed up.

confuzzled dude wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:My thoughts are totally out of sync with my beliefs. Major disconnect there. No wonder my destiny is all screwed up.

On the bright side your actions landed you in the US, haven't they? Of course, I'm assuming that was a good thing.

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

confuzzled dude wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:My thoughts are totally out of sync with my beliefs. Major disconnect there. No wonder my destiny is all screwed up.

On the bright side your actions landed you in the US, haven't they? Of course, I'm assuming that was a good thing.

My landing in the US, hmm. Funny how it happened and I didn't even know it was happening. XH came here, so I had to get here too. He was doing MS, and that was the fastest way for me to get here too. Up until final year I used to claim I won't do masters, and that I had studied enough. But there I was, taking GRE and TOEFL, and then doing masters here. Treated MS not as a goal but simply as a means to a goal. Chose the university that he was in, chose the field that he was in. Got married at the end of first sem, got preggers by the end of the second sem, and had the baby 3 days after finishg 3rd sem, lol. Funny how ambitious I never was.

Rishi wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

confuzzled dude wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:My thoughts are totally out of sync with my beliefs. Major disconnect there. No wonder my destiny is all screwed up.

On the bright side your actions landed you in the US, haven't they? Of course, I'm assuming that was a good thing.

My landing in the US, hmm. Funny how it happened and I didn't even know it was happening. XH came here, so I had to get here too. He was doing MS, and that was the fastest way for me to get here too. Up until final year I used to claim I won't do masters, and that I had studied enough. But there I was, taking GRE and TOEFL, and then doing masters here. Treated MS not as a goal but simply as a means to a goal. Chose the university that he was in, chose the field that he was in. Got married at the end of first sem, got preggers by the end of the second sem, and had the baby 3 days after finishg 3rd sem, lol. Funny how ambitious I never was.

VB,

You were never divorced for a single minute.
Why the need for concocting this story?

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

Rishi wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

confuzzled dude wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:My thoughts are totally out of sync with my beliefs. Major disconnect there. No wonder my destiny is all screwed up.

On the bright side your actions landed you in the US, haven't they? Of course, I'm assuming that was a good thing.

My landing in the US, hmm. Funny how it happened and I didn't even know it was happening. XH came here, so I had to get here too. He was doing MS, and that was the fastest way for me to get here too. Up until final year I used to claim I won't do masters, and that I had studied enough. But there I was, taking GRE and TOEFL, and then doing masters here. Treated MS not as a goal but simply as a means to a goal. Chose the university that he was in, chose the field that he was in. Got married at the end of first sem, got preggers by the end of the second sem, and had the baby 3 days after finishg 3rd sem, lol. Funny how ambitious I never was.

VB,

You were never divorced for a single minute.
Why the need for concocting this story?

I am just bored, that's why all these tales. What about you, are you married?

Rishi wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

Rishi wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

confuzzled dude wrote:On the bright side your actions landed you in the US, haven't they? Of course, I'm assuming that was a good thing.

My landing in the US, hmm. Funny how it happened and I didn't even know it was happening. XH came here, so I had to get here too. He was doing MS, and that was the fastest way for me to get here too. Up until final year I used to claim I won't do masters, and that I had studied enough. But there I was, taking GRE and TOEFL, and then doing masters here. Treated MS not as a goal but simply as a means to a goal. Chose the university that he was in, chose the field that he was in. Got married at the end of first sem, got preggers by the end of the second sem, and had the baby 3 days after finishg 3rd sem, lol. Funny how ambitious I never was.

VB,

You were never divorced for a single minute.
Why the need for concocting this story?

I am just bored, that's why all these tales. What about you, are you married?

>>> I am gay. I am getting married next  year in India. Will dedicate my marriage to Lord Ayyappa.

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

Rishi wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

Rishi wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:My landing in the US, hmm. Funny how it happened and I didn't even know it was happening. XH came here, so I had to get here too. He was doing MS, and that was the fastest way for me to get here too. Up until final year I used to claim I won't do masters, and that I had studied enough. But there I was, taking GRE and TOEFL, and then doing masters here. Treated MS not as a goal but simply as a means to a goal. Chose the university that he was in, chose the field that he was in. Got married at the end of first sem, got preggers by the end of the second sem, and had the baby 3 days after finishg 3rd sem, lol. Funny how ambitious I never was.

VB,

You were never divorced for a single minute.
Why the need for concocting this story?

I am just bored, that's why all these tales. What about you, are you married?

>>> I am gay. I am getting married next  year in India. Will dedicate my marriage to Lord Ayyappa.

Oh that's cool. Congrats! So are you marrying a whitie or a blackie? Or is it iyer brahmin?

Not sure what the Ayyapa reference is. What god is that?

Rishi wrote:>>> Lord Ayyapaa was the result of the union between Vishnu and Shiva. 

Rishi wrote:
I have two choices. One guy is Persian and the other fellow a Chinese. The problem with the Persian guy is he cries "Allahu Akbar" even during love making.

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

Rishi wrote:>>> Lord Ayyapaa was the result of the union between Vishnu and Shiva. 

 just wiki'd it. Vishnu's female avatar Mohini, egads!!! I love our mythology.

Rishi wrote:
I have two choices. One guy is Persian and the other fellow a Chinese. The problem with the Persian guy is he cries "Allahu Akbar" even during love making.

So wait, you have the venue and the year decided, but not decided the guy yet? What's the problem with allahu akbar, you can always reciprocate it with, "Venkateshwaraaaaaa". What's wrong with the chinku?

Rishi wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

Rishi wrote:>>> Lord Ayyapaa was the result of the union between Vishnu and Shiva. 

 just wiki'd it. Vishnu's female avatar Mohini, egads!!! I love our mythology.

Rishi wrote:
I have two choices. One guy is Persian and the other fellow a Chinese. The problem with the Persian guy is he cries "Allahu Akbar" even during love making.

So wait, you have the venue and the year decided, but not decided the guy yet? What's the problem with allahu akbar, you can always reciprocate it with, "Venkateshwaraaaaaa". What's wrong with the chinku?

VB,

The Chinku guy has bad breath.

It looks daily dose of "Allahu Akbar" is more tolerable.

Life decisions can be hard.

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

Rishi wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

Rishi wrote:>>> Lord Ayyapaa was the result of the union between Vishnu and Shiva. 

 just wiki'd it. Vishnu's female avatar Mohini, egads!!! I love our mythology.

Rishi wrote:
I have two choices. One guy is Persian and the other fellow a Chinese. The problem with the Persian guy is he cries "Allahu Akbar" even during love making.

So wait, you have the venue and the year decided, but not decided the guy yet? What's the problem with allahu akbar, you can always reciprocate it with, "Venkateshwaraaaaaa". What's wrong with the chinku?

VB,

The Chinku guy has bad breath.

It looks daily dose of "Allahu Akbar" is more tolerable.

Life decisions can be hard.

daily?  omg, I sure do envy you now. Go for the persian, I say!