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Post by confuzzled dude Tue Jun 09, 2015 2:02 pm


The truth is, far away from the comfortable fighting pit of Twitter, women are systematically made to suffer the consequences of being born with a uterus. And mostly we don't fret over it. In fact, many of us go and dutifully 'like' pictures taken by friends on vacations - of Rajasthani women balancing multiple matkas on their heads as they trundle across the desert, or of women blowing into a chulha to stoke the fire or tea garden workers carrying babies in sacks tied to their backs as they pluck tea leaves. Before we quickly type in our 'wows' in the comments section, we mostly don't think about what the picture really implies behind its National Geographic aesthetic. Women who have to travel miles to get drinking water, women who have to jeopardize their lungs to put a basic meal together, women who have no maternity leave or childcare in their lives. The world in which these women live, and everything they do, is indeed achieved 'despite being a woman'. No hashtags are necessary.

When Narendra Modi, with his usual theatrical flourish, announced how amazing it was that Sheikh Hasina, 'despite being a woman' was resolved about fighting terrorism, he epitomized why being a woman continues to be such a challenge. It is because neither education, nor success, nor exposure to modern professional spaces can bust the many stereotypes that we nurse about women. And the lower we go down on the economy ladder, the gender roles become more defined and more unquestioned.
http://www.firstpost.com/living/despitebeingawoman-why-invoke-indira-gandhi-to-counter-modis-praise-for-hasina-2284380.html

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Post by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Tue Jun 09, 2015 2:03 pm

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The truth is, far away from the comfortable fighting pit of Twitter, women are systematically made to suffer the consequences of being born with a uterus. And mostly we don't fret over it. In fact, many of us go and dutifully 'like' pictures taken by friends on vacations - of Rajasthani women balancing multiple matkas on their heads as they trundle across the desert, or of women blowing into a chulha to stoke the fire or tea garden workers carrying babies in sacks tied to their backs as they pluck tea leaves. Before we quickly type in our 'wows' in the comments section, we mostly don't think about what the picture really implies behind its National Geographic aesthetic. Women who have to travel miles to get drinking water, women who have to jeopardize their lungs to put a basic meal together, women who have no maternity leave or childcare in their lives. The world in which these women live, and everything they do, is indeed achieved 'despite being a woman'. No hashtags are necessary.

When Narendra Modi, with his usual theatrical flourish, announced how amazing it was that Sheikh Hasina, 'despite being a woman' was resolved about fighting terrorism, he epitomized why being a woman continues to be such a challenge. It is because neither education, nor success, nor exposure to modern professional spaces can bust the many stereotypes that we nurse about women. And the lower we go down on the economy ladder, the gender roles become more defined and more unquestioned.
http://www.firstpost.com/living/despitebeingawoman-why-invoke-indira-gandhi-to-counter-modis-praise-for-hasina-2284380.html

So...lets hear your diatribe against Modi....

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Post by confuzzled dude Tue Jun 09, 2015 3:23 pm

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
confuzzled dude wrote:

The truth is, far away from the comfortable fighting pit of Twitter, women are systematically made to suffer the consequences of being born with a uterus. And mostly we don't fret over it. In fact, many of us go and dutifully 'like' pictures taken by friends on vacations - of Rajasthani women balancing multiple matkas on their heads as they trundle across the desert, or of women blowing into a chulha to stoke the fire or tea garden workers carrying babies in sacks tied to their backs as they pluck tea leaves. Before we quickly type in our 'wows' in the comments section, we mostly don't think about what the picture really implies behind its National Geographic aesthetic. Women who have to travel miles to get drinking water, women who have to jeopardize their lungs to put a basic meal together, women who have no maternity leave or childcare in their lives. The world in which these women live, and everything they do, is indeed achieved 'despite being a woman'. No hashtags are necessary.

When Narendra Modi, with his usual theatrical flourish, announced how amazing it was that Sheikh Hasina, 'despite being a woman' was resolved about fighting terrorism, he epitomized why being a woman continues to be such a challenge. It is because neither education, nor success, nor exposure to modern professional spaces can bust the many stereotypes that we nurse about women. And the lower we go down on the economy ladder, the gender roles become more defined and more unquestioned.
http://www.firstpost.com/living/despitebeingawoman-why-invoke-indira-gandhi-to-counter-modis-praise-for-hasina-2284380.html

So...lets hear your diatribe against Modi....
Hmmm.. looks like you're confusing RE for me. In any event, this is his third blunder on as many foreign tours; perhaps he is not ready to be an international leader (yet).

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Post by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Tue Jun 09, 2015 3:29 pm

confuzzled dude wrote:
Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
confuzzled dude wrote:

The truth is, far away from the comfortable fighting pit of Twitter, women are systematically made to suffer the consequences of being born with a uterus. And mostly we don't fret over it. In fact, many of us go and dutifully 'like' pictures taken by friends on vacations - of Rajasthani women balancing multiple matkas on their heads as they trundle across the desert, or of women blowing into a chulha to stoke the fire or tea garden workers carrying babies in sacks tied to their backs as they pluck tea leaves. Before we quickly type in our 'wows' in the comments section, we mostly don't think about what the picture really implies behind its National Geographic aesthetic. Women who have to travel miles to get drinking water, women who have to jeopardize their lungs to put a basic meal together, women who have no maternity leave or childcare in their lives. The world in which these women live, and everything they do, is indeed achieved 'despite being a woman'. No hashtags are necessary.

When Narendra Modi, with his usual theatrical flourish, announced how amazing it was that Sheikh Hasina, 'despite being a woman' was resolved about fighting terrorism, he epitomized why being a woman continues to be such a challenge. It is because neither education, nor success, nor exposure to modern professional spaces can bust the many stereotypes that we nurse about women. And the lower we go down on the economy ladder, the gender roles become more defined and more unquestioned.
http://www.firstpost.com/living/despitebeingawoman-why-invoke-indira-gandhi-to-counter-modis-praise-for-hasina-2284380.html

So...lets hear your diatribe against Modi....
Hmmm.. looks like you're confusing RE for me. In any event, this is his third blunder on as many foreign tours; perhaps he is not ready to be an international leader (yet).

There is no Blunder. Being a woman itself is a curse in Beggardeshi Mullahs and Maulanas. And for her to rise up and fight the same jehadi mullahs is a huge accomplishment. Isn't it the country that threatened to kill Nasleema ?

So Modi ji was actually congratulating the muslims with some brains and those who pray to Walls and Bricks. But then, this is way too advanced and nuanced for you to iSlam-brainwashed people like yourselves.

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Post by confuzzled dude Tue Jun 09, 2015 3:43 pm

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
There is no Blunder. Being a woman itself is a curse in Beggardeshi Mullahs and Maulanas. And for her to rise up and fight the same jehadi mullahs is a huge accomplishment.  Isn't it the country that threatened to kill Nasleema ?

So Modi ji was actually congratulating the muslims with some brains and those who pray to Walls and Bricks. But then, this is way too advanced and nuanced for you to iSlam-brainwashed people like yourselves.
I don't think Modiji or any Indian for that matter is in a position to look down at Bangladesh wrt the treatment meted out to women, as a matter of fact BD ranks higher than India.

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Post by seven Tue Jun 09, 2015 8:55 pm

when i red the OP, i thought he by mistake praised modi. 

he simply acknowledged the fact it's not easy being a woman - in any country. 

cd will manage to see everything modi says/does in  wrong light.

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Post by confuzzled dude Tue Jun 09, 2015 9:02 pm

seven wrote:when i red the OP, i thought he by mistake praised modi. 

he simply acknowledged the fact it's not easy being a woman - in any country

cd will manage to see everything modi says/does in  wrong light.
Not really... this lady is much much senior to him [politically], he should have been humble and respectful to her instead of taking male chauvinist route.
Hasina, a hard-as-nails political infighter who’s been accused of using the elite anti-terrorist police as a death squad to eliminate rivals and advance her family’s interests, seems like a particularly odd leader to say this about. There’s plenty to criticize about her, but nobody should be surprised by her toughness at this point.

With one remark, Modi turned a potentially historic moment where he had an opportunity to prove his critics wrong into another example of his chauvinism.
http://www.slate.com/blogs/the_slatest/2015/06/08/narendra_modi_historic_visit_to_bangladesh_ruined_by_a_sexist_comment.html

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Post by seven Tue Jun 09, 2015 9:20 pm

confuzzled dude wrote:
seven wrote:when i red the OP, i thought he by mistake praised modi. 

he simply acknowledged the fact it's not easy being a woman - in any country

cd will manage to see everything modi says/does in  wrong light.
Not really... this lady is much much senior to him [politically], he should have been humble and respectful to her instead of taking male chauvinist route.
Hasina, a hard-as-nails political infighter who’s been accused of using the elite anti-terrorist police as a death squad to eliminate rivals and advance her family’s interests, seems like a particularly odd leader to say this about. There’s plenty to criticize about her, but nobody should be surprised by her toughness at this point.

With one remark, Modi turned a potentially historic moment where he had an opportunity to prove his critics wrong into another example of his chauvinism.
http://www.slate.com/blogs/the_slatest/2015/06/08/narendra_modi_historic_visit_to_bangladesh_ruined_by_a_sexist_comment.html
ok i just red his comment. it did not sound like praise. he needs to be more careful how he chooses his words. he being not you and me but PM of India

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Post by TruthSeeker Tue Jun 09, 2015 9:50 pm

Hmm. On gender inequality, I have always believed that:

1. Women are much smarter than men. Survival of the fittest theory. They have far more ways, than men can imagine.

2. Women in urban areas misuse laws made to protect women in rural areas. Urban women are NOT same as rural women. Hence, the conflict in so many ways.

3. Women in general are not Truthful people. They are raised to lie. To survive in masculine societies, like India or US. They do not even think that to speak a simple lie is anything wrong, unlike men who can be Truthful in your face. Its a sad truth of our society, because we want a society where women can speak fearlessly.

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Post by Merlot Daruwala Wed Jun 10, 2015 5:37 am

TruthSeeker wrote:
3. Women in general are not Truthful people. They are raised to lie. To survive in masculine societies, like India or US. They do not even think that to speak a simple lie is anything wrong, unlike men who can be Truthful in your face. Its a sad truth of our society, because we want a society where women can speak fearlessly.

TS.
Ah finally.
Women = Lies
Men = Truth
TruthSeeker = Men Seeker

Thank you for finally coming out of that closet, TS. This merits raising a toast to your courage. Cheersh!
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Post by SomeProfile Wed Jun 10, 2015 5:32 pm

Merlot Daruwala wrote:
TruthSeeker wrote:
3. Women in general are not Truthful people. They are raised to lie. To survive in masculine societies, like India or US. They do not even think that to speak a simple lie is anything wrong, unlike men who can be Truthful in your face. Its a sad truth of our society, because we want a society where women can speak fearlessly.

TS.
Ah finally.
Women = Lies
Men = Truth
TruthSeeker = Men Seeker

Thank you for finally coming out of that closet, TS. This merits raising a toast to your courage. Cheersh!

Why is Daruwali Aunty so happy to find another gay person?!  Cool Wink Laughing

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Post by Merlot Daruwala Thu Jun 11, 2015 12:57 am

SomeProfile wrote:
Merlot Daruwala wrote:
TruthSeeker wrote:
3. Women in general are not Truthful people. They are raised to lie. To survive in masculine societies, like India or US. They do not even think that to speak a simple lie is anything wrong, unlike men who can be Truthful in your face. Its a sad truth of our society, because we want a society where women can speak fearlessly.

TS.
Ah finally.
Women = Lies
Men = Truth
TruthSeeker = Men Seeker

Thank you for finally coming out of that closet, TS. This merits raising a toast to your courage. Cheersh!

Why is Daruwali Aunty so happy to find another gay person?!  Cool Wink Laughing

Courage is something that always makes me happy. If at some point, you grow out of your hysterical, limpwristed breastbeating and show some courage - however remote that possibility, I'll be happy for you too.
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