Improving relationship - any tips

by Nila Tue May 03, 2011 11:01 pm

ahem with hubby dear. Only married ppl replies are considered, others can still yap yap yap.

lol if you guys know any.

Thanks,

by Guest Tue May 03, 2011 11:05 pm

let's mark out the strong and problem areas of the marriage first.

by Nila Tue May 03, 2011 11:07 pm

Strong areas: Cooking, Cleaning, Organizing, Helping each other in accomplishing the family responsibilities and commitments....

by Guest Tue May 03, 2011 11:08 pm

hmm... all domestic/boring stuff... go out somewhere w/o the kids perhaps?

by Nila Tue May 03, 2011 11:11 pm

Okay forget it...no more discussions.

g'nite Trace. C ya laters.

by Guest Tue May 03, 2011 11:47 pm

when i read the subject, i thought u were ready to apologize for wat u did to SuCH and wanted to smooth things with us...but this is serious.
u mentioned earlier that ur husband helps u with setting up the dining table and with kids...did u say cooking too ? wat more can one do to improve he relationship ?
buy u flowers everyday and ....forget it. wats bothering u ?

by charvaka Wed May 04, 2011 12:15 am

Sasthi wrote:ahem with hubby dear. Only married ppl replies are considered, others can still yap yap yap.

lol if you guys know any.

Thanks,

Vacation.

by Hellsangel Wed May 04, 2011 12:16 am

charvaka wrote:Vacation.

Separate ones?

by rawemotions Wed May 04, 2011 12:30 am

Find a common interest, that can be considered as a hobby. Outdoor Sports, Swimming or anything else.

Understand his goals, aspirations, and most important , his worries. Slowly get involved, to understand them, rather than go into a suggestion mode of how to fix the issues (if any). Discuss the problems and don't just communicate your solutions.

Spending time with Kids are a great way to bond in itself.

by charvaka Wed May 04, 2011 12:35 am

Sasthi wrote:ahem with hubby dear. Only married ppl replies are considered, others can still yap yap yap.

lol if you guys know any.

Thanks,

Tell him Uppili is line-maroing you on CH. He will immediately turn into a hardcore romantic.

by Guest Wed May 04, 2011 1:19 am

"lol if you guys know any."

! What a Face

by Guest Wed May 04, 2011 1:25 am

Sasthi wrote:ahem with hubby dear. Only married ppl replies are considered, others can still yap yap yap.

lol if you guys know any.

Thanks,

Is this the real Sasthi, the killer queen?

by Guest Wed May 04, 2011 1:28 am

blabberwock wrote:
Sasthi wrote:ahem with hubby dear. Only married ppl replies are considered, others can still yap yap yap.

lol if you guys know any.

Thanks,

Is this the real Sasthi, the killer queen?

lets give her a break...we'll give her tough time when she's feeling better, ya?

by Rekz Wed May 04, 2011 1:30 am

Express admiration sasthi...It's easy.. won't cost u much
and trust me...it will help u mend any kinda relationships...
Kill ego...u r anyway good in killing:))
But don't do this often...

by Rekz Wed May 04, 2011 1:39 am

Sasthi wrote:Strong areas: Cooking, Cleaning, Organizing, Helping each other in accomplishing the family responsibilities and commitments....

I assume u r married for many years....
Frankly u can't do much to change the already set pattern...

by Impedimenta Wed May 04, 2011 9:48 am

rawemotions wrote:Find a common interest, that can be considered as a hobby. Outdoor Sports, Swimming or anything else.

Understand his goals, aspirations, and most important , his worries. Slowly get involved, to understand them, rather than go into a suggestion mode of how to fix the issues (if any). Discuss the problems and don't just communicate your solutions.

Spending time with Kids are a great way to bond in itself.

excuse me? his this, his that? really? so, there is no "her" in the picture, is there? i am not liking men today...

by Guest Wed May 04, 2011 10:02 am

charvaka wrote:Tell him Uppili is line-maroing you on CH. He will immediately turn into a hardcore romantic.

and

Hellsangel wrote:
charvaka wrote:Vacation.
Separate ones?

by Nila Wed May 04, 2011 12:59 pm

I am perfectly fine with taking seperate vacations....OMG! We have been together from 1998 *touch wood * and haven't been away from each other since then...always see each other and may be it's time to take a break.

Thanks for the enlightment you guys....what will I be without you ppl....

by Propagandhi711 Wed May 04, 2011 1:02 pm

Sasthi wrote:ahem with hubby dear. Only married ppl replies are considered, others can still yap yap yap.

lol if you guys know any.

Thanks,

lose that shitty childish attitude first. then everything will fall into place.

by Nila Wed May 04, 2011 3:43 pm

lose that shitty childish attitude first. then everything will fall into place.

Nice to see you here bava...you can yap yap yap.

lol

The childish attitude is my in born character or default built ....doesn't go easily.

by SomeProfile Thu May 05, 2011 12:06 am

Please send me your chat ID. We can discuss this in detail. I am very good at giving relationship advice that is useful, relevant and above all enjoyable to all parties - the giver and the receiver. ASAP. Don't delay.

by charvaka Thu May 05, 2011 12:14 am

SomeProfile wrote:above all enjoyable to all parties - the giver and the receiver.

Are you still talking about relationship advice?

by Nila Thu May 05, 2011 12:19 am

Please send me your chat ID. We can discuss this in detail. I am very good at giving relationship advice that is useful, relevant and above all enjoyable to all parties - the giver and the receiver. ASAP. Don't delay..

Oh please! I already have too many real life admirers who can give me advice on everything....but but but....when I feel like I am about to fall for somone I divert my attention to online forums like sulekha and make myself steady...I am sure chating with you will be one another problem for me....it's better for us that way..... Razz

by SomeProfile Thu May 05, 2011 8:40 pm

Sasthi wrote:when I feel like I am about to fall for somone I divert my attention to online forums like sulekha and make myself steady...I am sure chating with you will be one another problem for me....it's better for us that way.....

I am flattered and touched. I'll let you go for now... But I'll be watching for another moment of vulnerability. When I find it... gabak!

by charvaka Thu May 05, 2011 8:42 pm

SomeProfile wrote:gabak!

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