Beatrix Kiddo wrote:www.huffingtonpost.com/richard-paul-evans/how-i-saved-my-marriage_b_6958222.html

Finally, hoarse and broken, I sat down in the shower and began to cry. In the depths of my despair powerful inspiration came to me. You can't change her, Rick. You can only change yourself. At that moment I began to pray. If I can't change her, God, then change me. I prayed late into the night. I prayed the next day on the flight home. I prayed as I walked in the door to a cold wife who barely even acknowledged me. That night, as we lay in our bed, inches from each other yet miles apart, the inspiration came. I knew what I had to do.
The next morning I rolled over in bed next to Keri and asked, "How can I make your day better?"
Keri looked at me angrily. "What?"
"How can I make your day better?"

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

Beatrix Kiddo wrote:www.huffingtonpost.com/richard-paul-evans/how-i-saved-my-marriage_b_6958222.html

Finally, hoarse and broken, I sat down in the shower and began to cry. In the depths of my despair powerful inspiration came to me. You can't change her, Rick. You can only change yourself. At that moment I began to pray. If I can't change her, God, then change me. I prayed late into the night. I prayed the next day on the flight home. I prayed as I walked in the door to a cold wife who barely even acknowledged me. That night, as we lay in our bed, inches from each other yet miles apart, the inspiration came. I knew what I had to do.
The next morning I rolled over in bed next to Keri and asked, "How can I make your day better?"
Keri looked at me angrily. "What?"
"How can I make your day better?"

Lady...Are you trying to start some "Evening Tea" thread ?

If I asked my wife "how can I make your day better" it will confirm that "I am indeed an idiot"

Beatrix Kiddo wrote:www.huffingtonpost.com/richard-paul-evans/how-i-saved-my-marriage_b_6958222.html

Finally, hoarse and broken, I sat down in the shower and began to cry. In the depths of my despair powerful inspiration came to me. You can't change her, Rick. You can only change yourself. At that moment I began to pray. If I can't change her, God, then change me. I prayed late into the night. I prayed the next day on the flight home. I prayed as I walked in the door to a cold wife who barely even acknowledged me. That night, as we lay in our bed, inches from each other yet miles apart, the inspiration came. I knew what I had to do.
The next morning I rolled over in bed next to Keri and asked, "How can I make your day better?"
Keri looked at me angrily. "What?"
"How can I make your day better?"

Beatrix Kiddo wrote:www.huffingtonpost.com/richard-paul-evans/how-i-saved-my-marriage_b_6958222.html

Finally, hoarse and broken, I sat down in the shower and began to cry. In the depths of my despair powerful inspiration came to me. You can't change her, Rick. You can only change yourself. At that moment I began to pray. If I can't change her, God, then change me. I prayed late into the night. I prayed the next day on the flight home. I prayed as I walked in the door to a cold wife who barely even acknowledged me. That night, as we lay in our bed, inches from each other yet miles apart, the inspiration came. I knew what I had to do.
The next morning I rolled over in bed next to Keri and asked, "How can I make your day better?"
Keri looked at me angrily. "What?"
"How can I make your day better?"

Kris wrote:

Beatrix Kiddo wrote:www.huffingtonpost.com/richard-paul-evans/how-i-saved-my-marriage_b_6958222.html

Finally, hoarse and broken, I sat down in the shower and began to cry. In the depths of my despair powerful inspiration came to me. You can't change her, Rick. You can only change yourself. At that moment I began to pray. If I can't change her, God, then change me. I prayed late into the night. I prayed the next day on the flight home. I prayed as I walked in the door to a cold wife who barely even acknowledged me. That night, as we lay in our bed, inches from each other yet miles apart, the inspiration came. I knew what I had to do.
The next morning I rolled over in bed next to Keri and asked, "How can I make your day better?"
Keri looked at me angrily. "What?"
"How can I make your day better?"

>>>I want to find out Rick's wife's strategy to get him to say "how can i make your day better?" I too need someone to clean the garage, the cars etc.

Kris wrote:

Kris wrote:

Beatrix Kiddo wrote:www.huffingtonpost.com/richard-paul-evans/how-i-saved-my-marriage_b_6958222.html

Finally, hoarse and broken, I sat down in the shower and began to cry. In the depths of my despair powerful inspiration came to me. You can't change her, Rick. You can only change yourself. At that moment I began to pray. If I can't change her, God, then change me. I prayed late into the night. I prayed the next day on the flight home. I prayed as I walked in the door to a cold wife who barely even acknowledged me. That night, as we lay in our bed, inches from each other yet miles apart, the inspiration came. I knew what I had to do.
The next morning I rolled over in bed next to Keri and asked, "How can I make your day better?"
Keri looked at me angrily. "What?"
"How can I make your day better?"

>>>I want to find out Rick's wife's strategy to get him to say "how can i make your day better?" I too need someone to clean the garage, the cars etc.

>>Or maybe she can say ' now that you have cleaned our garage, go clean Kris's'. Yeah, I think that has a better chance of success for me too.

Kris wrote:

Kris wrote:

Beatrix Kiddo wrote:www.huffingtonpost.com/richard-paul-evans/how-i-saved-my-marriage_b_6958222.html

Finally, hoarse and broken, I sat down in the shower and began to cry. In the depths of my despair powerful inspiration came to me. You can't change her, Rick. You can only change yourself. At that moment I began to pray. If I can't change her, God, then change me. I prayed late into the night. I prayed the next day on the flight home. I prayed as I walked in the door to a cold wife who barely even acknowledged me. That night, as we lay in our bed, inches from each other yet miles apart, the inspiration came. I knew what I had to do.
The next morning I rolled over in bed next to Keri and asked, "How can I make your day better?"
Keri looked at me angrily. "What?"
"How can I make your day better?"

>>>I want to find out Rick's wife's strategy to get him to say "how can i make your day better?" I too need someone to clean the garage, the cars etc.

>>Or maybe she can say ' now that you have cleaned our garage, go clean Kris's'. Yeah, I think that has a better chance of success for me too.