hmm story

http://www.insideedition.com/headlines/12021-cops-man-disemboweled-his-girlfriend-after-she-screamed-out-exs-name-during-sex

i logged in to post an article based on that news…

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/domestic-homicide-killers-excuses_5601d0c8e4b00310edf90e83

Many media outlets ran with his claim as fact, using headlines like "Man Disembowels Girlfriend For Screaming Out Another Man's Name During Sex." The story had all the sensational elements: graphic violence, an alleged betrayal and everyone's favorite topic, sex.

But the truth is, we have no idea if the victim did actually scream her former partner's name during sex. All we know is that her alleged killer claims she did. Even if it is true, it's a ludicrous excuse for violence.

"Partner-killers often fabricate stories to justify the murders," said David Adams, a domestic violence expert who has written critically about media coverage of intimate partner violence. "[Media reports] take the killer's comments at face value, as if there is a logical connection there, as opposed to recognizing that it's actually irrelevant. It's irresponsible reporting."

It's not unusual for men who kill women to come up with bizarre "reasons" to explain their actions. A quick Google search will bring up a slew of similar stories:

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Instead of simply repeating what the killer claims, Adams said, journalists should be asking if the perpetrator has a history of abuse and looking for patterns of behavior. Domestic homicides don't usually come out of nowhere. There are often red flags before women are murdered. Most killers don't just "snap," despite media coverage to the contrary.

There's also a calculated reason a killer might claim that he "snapped" because of something the victim did, according to Adams. If the perpetrator can argue that he flew into a spontaneous rage because of the victim's actions, he has a better chance of getting his charges reduced from first-degree, premeditated murder to second-degree murder.

We do women a great disservice when we uncritically repeat men's justifications for murdering them. The reason that killers are able to offer excuses for their lethal actions is because they are still alive. It stands to reason that the murdered women would tell very different stories about the lead-up to their homicides, if only they could.

who cares what the reasons are, the story is two ppl got drunk senseless and the woman got killed in a gruesome way. hope there's a lesson in there for everyone

Propagandhi711 wrote:who cares what the reasons are, the story is two ppl got drunk senseless and the woman got killed in a gruesome way. hope there's a lesson in there for everyone

What is the lesson? 

SomeProfile wrote:

Propagandhi711 wrote:who cares what the reasons are, the story is two ppl got drunk senseless and the woman got killed in a gruesome way. hope there's a lesson in there for everyone

What is the lesson? 

dont get shitfaced drunk and fuck some psycho

SomeProfile wrote:

Propagandhi711 wrote:who cares what the reasons are, the story is two ppl got drunk senseless and the woman got killed in a gruesome way. hope there's a lesson in there for everyone

What is the lesson? 

If you must, first fuck the psycho and then get shitfaced drunk.