Sexual Harassment by Bittu etc

by Damini Wed Jan 02, 2013 8:24 am

Let us not forget the sexual harassment of ladies in Sulekha Coffee House by cheap handles like Bittu and Undertaker from low class families. Very few SUCH members called them out on this. Many ladies like GeeThree, Currer Bell, Maria S and Rupa Gawle found them entertaining and would encourage these low class characters. E.g. Bittu asking ladies the colour of their underwear, calling ladies words like kutti online, Undertaker using coarse language to attack ladies, posting porn and bullying. Just like rapists, these low class characters are cowards. Just like the rape in New Delhi, sexual harassment by Bittu and Undertaker will be conveniently forgotten in no time here.

by confuzzled dude Wed Jan 02, 2013 9:05 am

Haven't you heard the saying barking dogs never bite.

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 9:20 am

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO this is a copy-paste post from 2003 or 2004. i am getting a nice, fuzzy feeling remembering those years. your list needs to be upgraded to version 2.0 though:

~~GeeThree~~ Impedimenta, ~~Currer Bell~~, Maria S ~~Rupa Gawle~~, Vidya Bagchi, Kinnera and Seven.

by garam_kuta Wed Jan 02, 2013 9:25 am

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO this is a copy-paste post from 2003 or 2004. i am getting a nice, fuzzy feeling remembering those years. your list needs to be upgraded to version 2.0 though:

~~GeeThree~~ Impedimenta, ~~Currer Bell~~, Maria S ~~Rupa Gawle~~, Vidya Bagchi, Kinnera and Seven.

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO That is the spirit for years to come, Wishing you the best of health and wealth, bhaiya !

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 9:33 am

you too chotey! Smile

happy new year too!

by Rekz Wed Jan 02, 2013 10:19 am

@ Damini

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 10:21 am

Why handle names of others but real name of one handle? You trying to google mess?

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 10:55 am

Still remember Bittu claiming his fantasy was to rape a particular poster after making her unconscious using chloroform. He was genuinely surprised when some people did not like his sense of humor.

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:06 am

Rashmun wrote:Still remember Bittu claiming his fantasy was to rape a particular poster after making her unconscious using chloroform. He was genuinely surprised when some people did not like his sense of humor.

art represents the freedom of the mind to go where it wishes -- hanif kureshi

by Bittu Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:06 am

Rashmun wrote:Still remember Bittu claiming his fantasy was to rape a particular poster after making her unconscious using chloroform. He was genuinely surprised when some people did not like his sense of humor.

ID of this particular poster? I just wanna know if I raped her or if it is still a fantasy.

by Bittu Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:09 am

By the way, I don't think the chloroform thing is funny. It is just my de facto dating strategy.

Sexual Harassment by Bittu etc 1249

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:12 am

Bittu wrote:
Rashmun wrote:Still remember Bittu claiming his fantasy was to rape a particular poster after making her unconscious using chloroform. He was genuinely surprised when some people did not like his sense of humor.

ID of this particular poster? I just wanna know if I raped her or if it is still a fantasy.

You used this on more than one poster. I will not embarrass them by naming them.

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:13 am

Bittu wrote:By the way, I don't think the chloroform thing is funny. It is just my de facto dating strategy.

Would you be ok if this strategy is some day implemented on your own daughter?

by Bittu Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:29 am

Rashmun wrote:
Would you be ok if this strategy is some day implemented on your own daughter?

I believe it was implemented on your mom and that's how your turdy self was dropped on this planet.

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:30 am

Bittu wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
Would you be ok if this strategy is some day implemented on your own daughter?

I believe it was implemented on your mom and that's how your turdy self was dropped on this planet.

You did not answer my question: would you be ok if your own dating strategy is some day implemented on your daughter?

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:42 am

Bittu wrote:
Rashmun wrote:Still remember Bittu claiming his fantasy was to rape a particular poster after making her unconscious using chloroform. He was genuinely surprised when some people did not like his sense of humor.

ID of this particular poster? I just wanna know if I raped her or if it is still a fantasy.

This must be a new year resolution of one of the still left over handles to join SuCH - albeit using a non-original new handle.

Perhaps, you did not harass THIS Damini and hence upset.

P.S. who quotes Rupa Gawle in this day and age? Take guess

by MaxEntropy_Man Wed Jan 02, 2013 6:47 pm

Bittu wrote:By the way, I don't think the chloroform thing is funny. It is just my de facto dating strategy.

if the post above was meant to shock, it doesn't shock, it merely evokes revulsion. if it was meant to be humorous, it isn't. if it was serious, then some of the female handles here who routinely get hot under the collar about some things i say in my posts are better off getting upset about this instead.

by bw Wed Jan 02, 2013 7:50 pm

some women have told me that these men aren't hypocrites but honest fellas, honest about their feelings.

all you men think similarly about women but just don't say it - true?

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 7:59 pm

bw wrote:some women have told me that these men aren't hypocrites but honest fellas, honest about their feelings.

all you men think similarly about women but just don't say it - true?

it is important to realize that All men are not perverts (although male perverts would like you to believe so).

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 8:17 pm

MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
Bittu wrote:By the way, I don't think the chloroform thing is funny. It is just my de facto dating strategy.

if the post above was meant to shock, it doesn't shock, it merely evokes revulsion. if it was meant to be humorous, it isn't. if it was serious, then some of the female handles here who routinely get hot under the collar about some things i say in my posts are better off getting upset about this instead.

the way I see it, it was an attempt at self-deprecating humor, funny or not depending on those women's off-ch interactions w/him, or lack of.

Meanwhile, would love to see you getting a bit bolder and taking names for a change, speak directly, instead of trying to get all suave and catty w/indirect references. Until then, I will assume I am not one of those u were trying to hint there, and continue with life.

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 8:18 pm

Also,

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 8:25 pm

Vidya Bagchi wrote:
MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
Bittu wrote:By the way, I don't think the chloroform thing is funny. It is just my de facto dating strategy.

if the post above was meant to shock, it doesn't shock, it merely evokes revulsion. if it was meant to be humorous, it isn't. if it was serious, then some of the female handles here who routinely get hot under the collar about some things i say in my posts are better off getting upset about this instead.

the way I see it, it was an attempt at self-deprecating humor, funny or not depending on those women's off-ch interactions w/him, or lack of.

Meanwhile, would love to see you getting a bit bolder and taking names for a change, speak directly, instead of trying to get all suave and catty w/indirect references. Until then, I will assume I am not one of those u were trying to hint there, and continue with life.

Vidya, whose name? you have been posting under various handles now and it is amusing to see you asking other people to be bold.

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 8:28 pm

Rashmun wrote:
Vidya Bagchi wrote:
MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
Bittu wrote:By the way, I don't think the chloroform thing is funny. It is just my de facto dating strategy.

if the post above was meant to shock, it doesn't shock, it merely evokes revulsion. if it was meant to be humorous, it isn't. if it was serious, then some of the female handles here who routinely get hot under the collar about some things i say in my posts are better off getting upset about this instead.

the way I see it, it was an attempt at self-deprecating humor, funny or not depending on those women's off-ch interactions w/him, or lack of.

Meanwhile, would love to see you getting a bit bolder and taking names for a change, speak directly, instead of trying to get all suave and catty w/indirect references. Until then, I will assume I am not one of those u were trying to hint there, and continue with life.

Vidya, whose name? you have been posting under various handles now and it is amusing to see you asking other people to be bold.

Also, Vidya, would you be ok if a guy says he wants to win over your daughter after knocking her unconscious by using chloroform? Looks like your interaction with the B-man over emails and phone calls is preventing you from calling a spade a spade.

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 8:31 pm

I am mature enough not to react to such a man, if he says he wants to win my daughter using chloroform, unless I have reasons to believe that he can actually do it.

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 8:34 pm

Vidya Bagchi wrote:
I am mature enough not to react to such a man, if he says he wants to win my daughter using chloroform, unless I have reasons to believe that he can actually do it.

would you want your daughter to be friends with a man who says his fantasy is to make love to her after knocking her unconscious using chloroform?

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 8:37 pm

Rashmun wrote:
Vidya Bagchi wrote:
I am mature enough not to react to such a man, if he says he wants to win my daughter using chloroform, unless I have reasons to believe that he can actually do it.

would you want your daughter to be friends with a man who says his fantasy is to make love to her after knocking her unconscious using chloroform?

after she's 18, her choice. she would have learned enough from me regarding her safety around men. Before 18, I will teach her to be safe around not just a man who says that, but more around a man who may NOT say all that, but still do that or something worse than that.

any more parenting tips?

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 8:43 pm

Vidya Bagchi wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
Vidya Bagchi wrote:
I am mature enough not to react to such a man, if he says he wants to win my daughter using chloroform, unless I have reasons to believe that he can actually do it.

would you want your daughter to be friends with a man who says his fantasy is to make love to her after knocking her unconscious using chloroform?

after she's 18, her choice. she would have learned enough from me regarding her safety around men. Before 18, I will teach her to be safe around not just a man who says that, but more around a man who may NOT say all that, but still do that or something worse than that.

any more parenting tips?

A person who gives threats is someone to be wary of. sure, those who do not give threats may also do unpredictable acts but we have no control over that.

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 9:22 pm

The chloroform post was made to provoke the morons more and quite expectedly, they were bent out of shape. Razz

by MaxEntropy_Man Wed Jan 02, 2013 9:48 pm

bw wrote:some women have told me that these men aren't hypocrites but honest fellas, honest about their feelings.

all you men think similarly about women but just don't say it - true?

no.

by truthbetold Wed Jan 02, 2013 10:33 pm

I am disappointed by the lame execuses made for this bittu.
How many men do you know that say they will use cloroform to rape a women? I never heard such talk even from people with criminal background.
Are you forgetting that many incidents of crime including murders were committed by perverts who lured girls on internet chat rooms?
What extraordinary skills do you have to say this guy is not one of those past or future criminal?
If any of you have a formula to detect innocent vs criminal minds , please reveal it instead of making some lame generic statements.
For once, i have to say rashmun has asked the right question.
i can tell all the girls here normal men do not talk of raping women. Any person who talks like that is likely to be a pervet with some level of deviant behavior.

by bw Wed Jan 02, 2013 10:47 pm

kinnera wrote:The chloroform post was made to provoke the morons more and quite expectedly, they were bent out of shape.

kinns, please help me out here:

a person constantly talking about groping women, squeezing their 'racks', bedding them and posting porn videos is normal? you may like the lewd, crude person for other reasons but others who find him utterly tasteless and lacking class aren't morons, surely?

by pravalika nanda Wed Jan 02, 2013 10:49 pm

bittu has a pretty good sense of humor. some of the things he said crossed the line but that was rarely.

it makes me laugh to see all these sputtering over bittu's behavior when the women themselves find it harmless and funny. clearly these men belong to some far off generation.

men may find this hard to believe but women can and should take of themselves, they're not children, they're grown, educated women and mothers living in a democracy. if anything, protect your children by making them aware of the dangers lurking in the internet and how to deal with them.

any woman who is offended by bittu should avoid reading his posts, that is all. this is totally a non-issue.

by MaxEntropy_Man Wed Jan 02, 2013 10:52 pm

pravalika nanda wrote:bittu has a pretty good sense of humor. some of the things he said crossed the line but that was rarely.

it makes me laugh to see all these sputtering over bittu's behavior when the women themselves find it harmless and funny. clearly these men belong to some far off generation.

men may find this hard to believe but women can and should take of themselves, they're not children, they're grown, educated women and mothers living in a democracy. if anything, protect your children by making them aware of the dangers lurking in the internet and how to deal with them.

any woman who is offended by bittu should avoid reading his posts, that is all. this is totally a non-issue.

i used to think you are a smart woman. but it's clear you're just a moron. i feel quite sad to have realized this today.

by pravalika nanda Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:10 pm

MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
pravalika nanda wrote:bittu has a pretty good sense of humor. some of the things he said crossed the line but that was rarely.

it makes me laugh to see all these sputtering over bittu's behavior when the women themselves find it harmless and funny. clearly these men belong to some far off generation.

men may find this hard to believe but women can and should take of themselves, they're not children, they're grown, educated women and mothers living in a democracy. if anything, protect your children by making them aware of the dangers lurking in the internet and how to deal with them.

any woman who is offended by bittu should avoid reading his posts, that is all. this is totally a non-issue.

i used to think you are a smart woman. but it's clear you're just a moron. i feel quite sad to have realized this today.

** well. what do you disagree with? i don't believe in keeping bittu in check by curtailing his freedom of speech. at the same time, i cannot take him seriously. women are asking for equal pay, the right to vote, they're running large companies, and doing 12-hr surgeries, and raising families. i would not spend a minute on complaining about sexual harrassment. when something verging on it happened to me, i felt sick that day, and the next day after having thought through the different options available to me, i pulled the guy aside and had a talk with him. i didn't threaten to tell anybody, i told him that his behavior was inappropriate and it wasn't to happen again. i handled this myself cuz i felt that if i couldn't handle the guy who was just a few years my senior, what am i ever going to accomplish in life. i have big things to do and no frat boy is going to stop me. if the housewives are offended, well, i feel bad that they will occupy their time with such little things. there is a lot at stake for women and they really have to seize the moment and make the most of it.

** it's the internet. there is not need to be so emotional.

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:12 pm

pravalika nanda wrote:
MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
pravalika nanda wrote:bittu has a pretty good sense of humor. some of the things he said crossed the line but that was rarely.

it makes me laugh to see all these sputtering over bittu's behavior when the women themselves find it harmless and funny. clearly these men belong to some far off generation.

men may find this hard to believe but women can and should take of themselves, they're not children, they're grown, educated women and mothers living in a democracy. if anything, protect your children by making them aware of the dangers lurking in the internet and how to deal with them.

any woman who is offended by bittu should avoid reading his posts, that is all. this is totally a non-issue.

i used to think you are a smart woman. but it's clear you're just a moron. i feel quite sad to have realized this today.

** well. what do you disagree with? i don't believe in keeping bittu in check by curtailing his freedom of speech. at the same time, i cannot take him seriously. women are asking for equal pay, the right to vote, they're running large companies, and doing 12-hr surgeries, and raising families. i would not spend a minute on complaining about sexual harrassment. when something verging on it happened to me, i felt sick that day, and the next day after having thought through the different options available to me, i pulled the guy aside and had a talk with him. i didn't threaten to tell anybody, i told him that his behavior was inappropriate and it wasn't to happen again. i handled this myself cuz i felt that if i couldn't handle the guy who was just a few years my senior, what am i ever going to accomplish in life. i have big things to do and no frat boy is going to stop me. if the housewives are offended, well, i feel bad that they will occupy their time with such little things. there is a lot at stake for women and they really have to seize the moment and make the most of it.

** it's the internet. there is not need to be so emotional.

Pravalika I recall Bittu used to ask you out because you used to live in his vicinity. Did you ever have lunch or dinner with him?

by truthbetold Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:22 pm

Is a sense of humor a mitigating factor for pervert behaviour?

by pravalika nanda Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:23 pm

Rashmun wrote:
pravalika nanda wrote:
MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
pravalika nanda wrote:bittu has a pretty good sense of humor. some of the things he said crossed the line but that was rarely.

it makes me laugh to see all these sputtering over bittu's behavior when the women themselves find it harmless and funny. clearly these men belong to some far off generation.

men may find this hard to believe but women can and should take of themselves, they're not children, they're grown, educated women and mothers living in a democracy. if anything, protect your children by making them aware of the dangers lurking in the internet and how to deal with them.

any woman who is offended by bittu should avoid reading his posts, that is all. this is totally a non-issue.

i used to think you are a smart woman. but it's clear you're just a moron. i feel quite sad to have realized this today.

** well. what do you disagree with? i don't believe in keeping bittu in check by curtailing his freedom of speech. at the same time, i cannot take him seriously. women are asking for equal pay, the right to vote, they're running large companies, and doing 12-hr surgeries, and raising families. i would not spend a minute on complaining about sexual harrassment. when something verging on it happened to me, i felt sick that day, and the next day after having thought through the different options available to me, i pulled the guy aside and had a talk with him. i didn't threaten to tell anybody, i told him that his behavior was inappropriate and it wasn't to happen again. i handled this myself cuz i felt that if i couldn't handle the guy who was just a few years my senior, what am i ever going to accomplish in life. i have big things to do and no frat boy is going to stop me. if the housewives are offended, well, i feel bad that they will occupy their time with such little things. there is a lot at stake for women and they really have to seize the moment and make the most of it.

** it's the internet. there is not need to be so emotional.

Pravalika I recall Bittu used to ask you out because you used to live in his vicinity. Did you ever have lunch or dinner with him?

** what about breakfast? or a cup of coffee? or tea with biscuits? or a nightcap? good night, rashmun.

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:30 pm

Rashmun wrote:
pravalika nanda wrote:
MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
pravalika nanda wrote:bittu has a pretty good sense of humor. some of the things he said crossed the line but that was rarely.

it makes me laugh to see all these sputtering over bittu's behavior when the women themselves find it harmless and funny. clearly these men belong to some far off generation.

men may find this hard to believe but women can and should take of themselves, they're not children, they're grown, educated women and mothers living in a democracy. if anything, protect your children by making them aware of the dangers lurking in the internet and how to deal with them.

any woman who is offended by bittu should avoid reading his posts, that is all. this is totally a non-issue.

i used to think you are a smart woman. but it's clear you're just a moron. i feel quite sad to have realized this today.

** well. what do you disagree with? i don't believe in keeping bittu in check by curtailing his freedom of speech. at the same time, i cannot take him seriously. women are asking for equal pay, the right to vote, they're running large companies, and doing 12-hr surgeries, and raising families. i would not spend a minute on complaining about sexual harrassment. when something verging on it happened to me, i felt sick that day, and the next day after having thought through the different options available to me, i pulled the guy aside and had a talk with him. i didn't threaten to tell anybody, i told him that his behavior was inappropriate and it wasn't to happen again. i handled this myself cuz i felt that if i couldn't handle the guy who was just a few years my senior, what am i ever going to accomplish in life. i have big things to do and no frat boy is going to stop me. if the housewives are offended, well, i feel bad that they will occupy their time with such little things. there is a lot at stake for women and they really have to seize the moment and make the most of it.

** it's the internet. there is not need to be so emotional.

Pravalika I recall Bittu used to ask you out because you used to live in his vicinity. Did you ever have lunch or dinner with him?

I have one question:

Are you jealous that Bittu only harasses other women and not coming onto you? It is normal for people with your "trait" - not that there is anything wrong with that.

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:31 pm

Bw, ever seen bittu as a bigot, hating a whole group of ppl, finding excuses to throw mud at them, a hypocrite who poses as someone concerned abt the social issues, but is really only interested in using it as an excuse to spew hatred at a particular group? this is a very dangerous mentality. Worst thing is if that person has this false sense of self-aggrandizement too. yuck!

Have you ever seen bittu gossiping abt others and ever bothering abt others? He's very intolerant about gossiping. Never ever participates in it. How abt the ones here who come to chat in anonymous handles, lurk there for hours, gather whatever ppl are talking there, make their own assumptions and gossip here and elsewhere? what kind of moral behavior is that?
How abt the ones who one trusts and reveals personal info or pix and the person leaks them to others? Betrayal of trust! How bad can that be? We have seen major issues regarding that here, i guess. I nvr ever in my wildest can imagine bittu ever doing that. He won't scoop down to that level ever.

The 'holier than thou' are usually the ones with gutter mentality. The real decent, dignified ones never take a moral high stand and judge others. Look at the ones who are preaching here. LOL!

When jay leno cracks lewd jokes, no one takes him seriously. They just laugh off.

Someone talked abt the possibility of bittu being dangerous, etc. ROFL@that.
All the women over the yrs in sulekha from 1999 till now are not stupid teenage girls. They are mature, educated, intelligent, sensible, articulate and confident women. They got along ok with him. Need i say more?
i think ppl should mind their own business and stop worrying about abt others. If you don't like bittu, stay off his posts here or put him on ignore on chat.
Look at yourself first before throwing mud at others.

That said, i did criticize him, fight with him, stayed off of him, ignored him, insulted him etc. He's not perfect nor am I nor anyone else is. To each his/her own!

by pravalika nanda Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:34 pm

truthbetold wrote:Is a sense of humor a mitigating factor for pervert behaviour?

** it certainly helps that he's not a thoroughly bad guy, he is decent enough and normal and likeable. moreover, he realizes that he's addicted to porn and he is aware of his weaknesses.

** i don't click on his nsfw or other posts where it is clear that it contains unviewable stuff. so maybe you guys actually see all that and then get pissed. but why? why don't you just steer clear of it? you can choose what you see. i know meat is not my kind of thing, so i don't eat it. i don't eat and then complain about it. bittu and i've only always had friendly conversations. and similarly with propa, we've always found other things to talk about and i like them perfectly well. we're also responsible for steering our relationships in a certain direction. i now remember that ole lena and dut had really disastrous conversations, i do remember thinking that it was dut's fault but we're grown-ups. if someone or something troubles you, you have to nip it in the bud. you can't cry sexual harrassment each time.

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:40 pm

Rashmun wrote:
Pravalika I recall Bittu used to ask you out because you used to live in his vicinity. Did you ever have lunch or dinner with him?

perfect. Rashmun, by this logic, have you met vee, qb, or max, since you seem to be supporting them a lot lately? was it for lunch, coffee, or a nightcap?

by MaxEntropy_Man Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:41 pm

pravalika nanda wrote:
** well. what do you disagree with?

i don't believe in keeping bittu in check by curtailing his freedom of speech. at the same time, i cannot take him seriously. women are asking for equal pay, the right to vote, they're running large companies, and doing 12-hr surgeries, and raising families. i would not spend a minute on complaining about sexual harrassment. when something verging on it happened to me, i felt sick that day, and the next day after having thought through the different options available to me, i pulled the guy aside and had a talk with him. i didn't threaten to tell anybody, i told him that his behavior was inappropriate and it wasn't to happen again. i handled this myself cuz i felt that if i couldn't handle the guy who was just a few years my senior, what am i ever going to accomplish in life. i have big things to do and no frat boy is going to stop me. if the housewives are offended, well, i feel bad that they will occupy their time with such little things. there is a lot at stake for women and they really have to seize the moment and make the most of it.

** it's the internet. there is not need to be so emotional.

i didn't ask for his freedom of speech to be curtailed. i find it difficult to believe that you find crude, lewd, and violent posts (that chloroform post was just that) humorous. sense of humor? my ass. i haven't bothered responding to other women who also routinely say this same thing, that they find his posts humorous, frankly because i think their sense of priorities is totally whacked. but i responded to your posts, because i think it is an aberration that can be rectified after some reconsideration.

by pravalika nanda Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:45 pm

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
pravalika nanda wrote:
MaxEntropy_Man wrote:
pravalika nanda wrote:bittu has a pretty good sense of humor. some of the things he said crossed the line but that was rarely.

it makes me laugh to see all these sputtering over bittu's behavior when the women themselves find it harmless and funny. clearly these men belong to some far off generation.

men may find this hard to believe but women can and should take of themselves, they're not children, they're grown, educated women and mothers living in a democracy. if anything, protect your children by making them aware of the dangers lurking in the internet and how to deal with them.

any woman who is offended by bittu should avoid reading his posts, that is all. this is totally a non-issue.

i used to think you are a smart woman. but it's clear you're just a moron. i feel quite sad to have realized this today.

** well. what do you disagree with? i don't believe in keeping bittu in check by curtailing his freedom of speech. at the same time, i cannot take him seriously. women are asking for equal pay, the right to vote, they're running large companies, and doing 12-hr surgeries, and raising families. i would not spend a minute on complaining about sexual harrassment. when something verging on it happened to me, i felt sick that day, and the next day after having thought through the different options available to me, i pulled the guy aside and had a talk with him. i didn't threaten to tell anybody, i told him that his behavior was inappropriate and it wasn't to happen again. i handled this myself cuz i felt that if i couldn't handle the guy who was just a few years my senior, what am i ever going to accomplish in life. i have big things to do and no frat boy is going to stop me. if the housewives are offended, well, i feel bad that they will occupy their time with such little things. there is a lot at stake for women and they really have to seize the moment and make the most of it.

** it's the internet. there is not need to be so emotional.

Pravalika I recall Bittu used to ask you out because you used to live in his vicinity. Did you ever have lunch or dinner with him?

I have one question:

Are you jealous that Bittu only harasses other women and not coming onto you? It is normal for people with your "trait" - not that there is anything wrong with that.

** i find that bittu and i are friendly with each other and given to easy banter. from what i know of him online he's not a judgemental guy at all. and of course, like all women, i'm supremely jealous that bittu has no time to write ghazals for me or make pizza for me, but i'm young, i will wait, i know he's a busy jat.

by FluteHolder Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:46 pm

by Merlot Daruwala Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:50 pm

In summary, the women at the receiving end of Bittu's comments are not offended. They are okay with it and some even profess friendly ties with the guy. Why is this so upsetting to others? Surely, it's for the women to decide what to take offence at and what not to.

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:51 pm

pravalika nanda wrote:
Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
pravalika nanda wrote:
MaxEntropy_Man wrote:

i used to think you are a smart woman. but it's clear you're just a moron. i feel quite sad to have realized this today.

** well. what do you disagree with? i don't believe in keeping bittu in check by curtailing his freedom of speech. at the same time, i cannot take him seriously. women are asking for equal pay, the right to vote, they're running large companies, and doing 12-hr surgeries, and raising families. i would not spend a minute on complaining about sexual harrassment. when something verging on it happened to me, i felt sick that day, and the next day after having thought through the different options available to me, i pulled the guy aside and had a talk with him. i didn't threaten to tell anybody, i told him that his behavior was inappropriate and it wasn't to happen again. i handled this myself cuz i felt that if i couldn't handle the guy who was just a few years my senior, what am i ever going to accomplish in life. i have big things to do and no frat boy is going to stop me. if the housewives are offended, well, i feel bad that they will occupy their time with such little things. there is a lot at stake for women and they really have to seize the moment and make the most of it.

** it's the internet. there is not need to be so emotional.

Pravalika I recall Bittu used to ask you out because you used to live in his vicinity. Did you ever have lunch or dinner with him?

I have one question:

Are you jealous that Bittu only harasses other women and not coming onto you? It is normal for people with your "trait" - not that there is anything wrong with that.

** i find that bittu and i are friendly with each other and given to easy banter. from what i know of him online he's not a judgemental guy at all. and of course, like all women, i'm supremely jealous that bittu has no time to write ghazals for me or make pizza for me, but i'm young, i will wait, i know he's a busy jat.

Did you receive a Christmas gift from him?

by MaxEntropy_Man Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:57 pm

Merlot Daruwala wrote:In summary, the women at the receiving end of Bittu's comments are not offended. They are okay with it and some even profess friendly ties with the guy. Why is this so upsetting to others? Surely, it's for the women to decide what to take offence at and what not to.

bittu's chloroform post is an attitude that lies somewhere along a continuum between what they call eve teasing in india, to a metal rod in a vagina and a dead woman. what's upsetting is not the banter or the friendly ties, but a failure to recognize that post for what it is.

by pravalika nanda Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:57 pm

Rashmun wrote:
pravalika nanda wrote:
Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
pravalika nanda wrote:

** well. what do you disagree with? i don't believe in keeping bittu in check by curtailing his freedom of speech. at the same time, i cannot take him seriously. women are asking for equal pay, the right to vote, they're running large companies, and doing 12-hr surgeries, and raising families. i would not spend a minute on complaining about sexual harrassment. when something verging on it happened to me, i felt sick that day, and the next day after having thought through the different options available to me, i pulled the guy aside and had a talk with him. i didn't threaten to tell anybody, i told him that his behavior was inappropriate and it wasn't to happen again. i handled this myself cuz i felt that if i couldn't handle the guy who was just a few years my senior, what am i ever going to accomplish in life. i have big things to do and no frat boy is going to stop me. if the housewives are offended, well, i feel bad that they will occupy their time with such little things. there is a lot at stake for women and they really have to seize the moment and make the most of it.

** it's the internet. there is not need to be so emotional.

Pravalika I recall Bittu used to ask you out because you used to live in his vicinity. Did you ever have lunch or dinner with him?

I have one question:

Are you jealous that Bittu only harasses other women and not coming onto you? It is normal for people with your "trait" - not that there is anything wrong with that.

** i find that bittu and i are friendly with each other and given to easy banter. from what i know of him online he's not a judgemental guy at all. and of course, like all women, i'm supremely jealous that bittu has no time to write ghazals for me or make pizza for me, but i'm young, i will wait, i know he's a busy jat.

Did you receive a Christmas gift from him?

** no, bittu don't like me.

by Guest Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:59 pm

pravalika nanda wrote:
Rashmun wrote:
pravalika nanda wrote:
Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
Rashmun wrote:

Pravalika I recall Bittu used to ask you out because you used to live in his vicinity. Did you ever have lunch or dinner with him?

I have one question:

Are you jealous that Bittu only harasses other women and not coming onto you? It is normal for people with your "trait" - not that there is anything wrong with that.

** i find that bittu and i are friendly with each other and given to easy banter. from what i know of him online he's not a judgemental guy at all. and of course, like all women, i'm supremely jealous that bittu has no time to write ghazals for me or make pizza for me, but i'm young, i will wait, i know he's a busy jat.

Did you receive a Christmas gift from him?

** no, bittu don't like me.

I am surprised. You used to be his favorite. What did you do wrong?

by Guest Thu Jan 03, 2013 12:06 am

FluteHolder wrote:

omg, lol.