Situations

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 9:36 am

Is game where I will give situations and everyone will tell how they would handle it if they were in it.

Simran was flirting with a guy to make her husband raj jealous.
Raj n some an got into an argument about it and
Raj slapped her.

by swapna Thu Apr 03, 2014 11:13 am

seven wrote:Is game where I will give situations and everyone will tell how they would handle it if they were in it.

Simran was flirting with a guy to make her husband raj jealous.
Raj n some an got into an argument about it and Raj slapped her.

"Is game?"

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 11:26 am

A game *facepalm*

by smArtha Thu Apr 03, 2014 1:06 pm

And "Raj n some an"

Raj and Simran

OR
Raj and some Anne
OR
Raj and someone

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 1:13 pm

My over smart phone.
It should be raj n simran got into an argument...

No wonder no ones responding. They didn't understand the situation

by Guest Thu Apr 03, 2014 1:15 pm

Simran is stupid. No wonder her husband got irritated with her.

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 1:36 pm

So she deserved it. In fact, she asked for it. Yea?

by indophile Thu Apr 03, 2014 1:44 pm

Simran flirts to make her hubby jealous
But he still kept his woh anonymous
Till one day that fall
Saw her and best pal
Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious

by Guest Thu Apr 03, 2014 2:03 pm

seven wrote:So she deserved it. In fact, she asked for it. Yea?

She's stupid and stupid ppl are irritating.

by Impedimenta Thu Apr 03, 2014 2:16 pm

meenalochani got some popcorn and settled down in her sofa to watch the NI drama, wondering if raj was the short form of rajashekar.

by Rekz Thu Apr 03, 2014 2:22 pm

seven wrote:Is game where I will give situations and everyone will tell how they would handle it if they were in it.

Simran was flirting with a guy to make her husband raj jealous.
Raj n some an got into an argument about it and
Raj slapped her.

Simran should be happy as she got some reaction from her hubby.
Slapping hubby is a looser. I will call 911 n report.

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 2:24 pm

indophile wrote:Simran flirts to make her hubby jealous
But he still kept his woh anonymous
Till one day that fall
Saw her and best pal
Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious

Interesting. You think he is having an affair and has managed to keep it a secret from simran.
You also say she's having or will have an affair with raj's best friend (correct me if I didn't understand your poem right)

If he's having an affair, he shouldn't be jeles of the guy she was flirting with, right?

Also, I'm interested to know why you think their relationship is superficial.
Edit: what about the whole situation feels superficial to you, if at all ?

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 2:27 pm

Rekz wrote:
seven wrote:Is game where I will give situations and everyone will tell how they would handle it if they were in it.

Simran was flirting with a guy to make her husband raj jealous.
Raj n some an got into an argument about it and
Raj slapped her.

Simran should be happy as she got some reaction from her hubby.
Slapping hubby is a looser. I will call 911 n report.

A loser. Hmm..let's think about it. When does someone slap another person. To insult. But in emotional behaviors, it could be to establish dominance.

Or is it physical assault. Why 911? What's the emergency ?

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 2:32 pm

Impedimenta wrote:meenalochani got some popcorn and settled down in her sofa to watch the NI drama, wondering if raj was the short form of rajashekar.

Reminds me lol of one incidence sm1 told me about. He was in REC warangal and very new to south india. He saw two guys arguing about something n they were going at each other like in angry tones. He was totally expecting to see them get physical, like hit each other (from the tone of their arguments ofcoz). But all they did was just fight verbally. Lol for some 30 min! Until my friend lost interest n stopped watching them.

No, raj is not short for rajsheKar.

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 2:39 pm

Kinnera wrote:
seven wrote:So she deserved it. In fact, she asked for it. Yea?
She's stupid and stupid ppl are irritating.

Ok you think flirting with another guy to make yours jealous is stupid.
But it works every time!

Using something time tested is stupid per you. Hmm..

And slapping someone for doing that is not questionable. Hmm x2

by Rekz Thu Apr 03, 2014 2:40 pm

seven wrote:
Rekz wrote:
seven wrote:Is game where I will give situations and everyone will tell how they would handle it if they were in it.

Simran was flirting with a guy to make her husband raj jealous.
Raj n some an got into an argument about it and
Raj slapped her.

Simran should be happy as she got some reaction from her hubby.
Slapping hubby is a looser. I will call 911 n report.

A loser. Hmm..let's think about it. When does someone slap another person. To insult. But in emotional behaviors, it could be to establish dominance.

Or is it physical assault. Why 911? What's the emergency ?

Arre big time emergency...if my husband slaps me for whatever reason...im gonna play kick punch slap game...

Slapping or flirting to make hubby jealous is a sign of immaturity and insecurity.

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 2:49 pm

Oh you are turning the situation from serious to comic.
A kick punch fest!

Perf! That way you both make up Smile

Genius rekz

by smArtha Thu Apr 03, 2014 2:56 pm

seven wrote:
Kinnera wrote:She's stupid and stupid ppl are irritating.

Ok you think flirting with another guy to make yours jealous is stupid.
But it works every time!

Using something time tested is stupid per you. Hmm..

And slapping someone for doing that is not questionable. Hmm x2

But it works every time!
It did in this situation too.. made Raj jealous (as Simran expected) and elicited a response from him (unexpected slap). Simran is stupid because she believed that she can incite an emotion and also control the response.

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 3:00 pm

smArtha wrote:
seven wrote:
Kinnera wrote:She's stupid and stupid ppl are irritating.

Ok you think flirting with another guy to make yours jealous is stupid.
But it works every time!

Using something time tested is stupid per you. Hmm..

And slapping someone for doing that is not questionable. Hmm x2
But it works every time!
It did in this situation too.. made Raj jealous (as Simran expected) and elicited a response from him (unexpected slap). Simran is stupid because she believed that she can incite an emotion and also control the response.

How do you know she believed she can control his reaction ?

by indophile Thu Apr 03, 2014 3:36 pm

seven wrote:
indophile wrote:Simran flirts to make her hubby jealous
But he still kept his woh anonymous
Till one day that fall
Saw her and best pal
Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious

Interesting. You think he is having an affair and has managed to keep it a secret from simran.
You also say she's having or will have an affair with raj's best friend (correct me if I didn't understand your poem right)

If he's having an affair, he shouldn't be jeles of the guy she was flirting with, right?

Also, I'm interested to know why you think their relationship is superficial.
Edit: what about the whole situation feels superficial to you, if at all ?

Yes, he is having an affair and managed to keep it secret.
The poor girl Simran is not having an affair. She is just acting as if something is on, just to make hubby jealous. She is doing it because she knows he is having an affair.
The last word is Mary Poppins' (It means "something to say when you have nothing to say")
Watch the video from 0.35.
The wiki on the word: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious

by b_A Thu Apr 03, 2014 3:40 pm

seven wrote:
Impedimenta wrote:meenalochani got some popcorn and settled down in her sofa to watch the NI drama, wondering if raj was the short form of rajashekar.

Reminds me lol of one incidence sm1 told me about. He was in REC warangal and very new to south india. He saw two guys arguing about something n they were going at each other like in angry tones. He was totally expecting to see them get physical, like hit each other (from the tone of their arguments ofcoz). But all they did was just fight verbally. Lol for some 30 min! Until my friend lost interest n stopped watching them.

No, raj is not short for rajsheKar.

Yes , it may be a strange concept to NI's but we SI's don't beleive that getting physical is the way to win an argument.
Who is this rajasekhar under discussion ?

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 3:43 pm

@indo
Ok so the expectation is for you to describe how you would react in the situation. And not to dissect their relationship.
Dude! You made me feel sad for her.

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 3:47 pm

b_A wrote:
seven wrote:
Impedimenta wrote:meenalochani got some popcorn and settled down in her sofa to watch the NI drama, wondering if raj was the short form of rajashekar.

Reminds me lol of one incidence sm1 told me about. He was in REC warangal and very new to south india. He saw two guys arguing about something n they were going at each other like in angry tones. He was totally expecting to see them get physical, like hit each other (from the tone of their arguments ofcoz). But all they did was just fight verbally. Lol for some 30 min! Until my friend lost interest n stopped watching them.

No, raj is not short for rajsheKar.
Yes , it may be a strange concept to NI's but we SI's don't beleive that getting physical is the way to win an argument.
Who is this rajasekhar under discussion ?

Don't believe in it. Only dream/fantasize about it?
If not, why do they have such violence in SI movies. Example ghazni.

I mean I'm talking getting physical when the situation demands it. It's like koothrapalli and Wolowitz going at each other in boxing ring, saying I'll tear you apart in a heartbeat n not throwing a punch hahaha

by b_A Thu Apr 03, 2014 3:49 pm

Rekz wrote:
seven wrote:
Rekz wrote:
seven wrote:Is game where I will give situations and everyone will tell how they would handle it if they were in it.

Simran was flirting with a guy to make her husband raj jealous.
Raj n some an got into an argument about it and
Raj slapped her.

Simran should be happy as she got some reaction from her hubby.
Slapping hubby is a looser. I will call 911 n report.

A loser. Hmm..let's think about it. When does someone slap another person. To insult. But in emotional behaviors, it could be to establish dominance.

Or is it physical assault. Why 911? What's the emergency ?

Arre big time emergency...if my husband slaps me for whatever reason...im gonna play kick punch slap game...

Slapping or flirting to make hubby jealous is a sign of immaturity and insecurity.

1. Loser not looser. ( Preempt Phlegmy from feeling superior)
2. So are you calling 911 or kick punch ? If you do both , you will give a chance to your husband for filing a counter-claim.

by b_A Thu Apr 03, 2014 3:51 pm

seven wrote:
b_A wrote:
seven wrote:
Impedimenta wrote:meenalochani got some popcorn and settled down in her sofa to watch the NI drama, wondering if raj was the short form of rajashekar.

Reminds me lol of one incidence sm1 told me about. He was in REC warangal and very new to south india. He saw two guys arguing about something n they were going at each other like in angry tones. He was totally expecting to see them get physical, like hit each other (from the tone of their arguments ofcoz). But all they did was just fight verbally. Lol for some 30 min! Until my friend lost interest n stopped watching them.

No, raj is not short for rajsheKar.
Yes , it may be a strange concept to NI's but we SI's don't beleive that getting physical is the way to win an argument.
Who is this rajasekhar under discussion ?

Don't believe in it. Only dream/fantasize about it?
If not, why do they have such violence in SI movies. Example ghazni.

I mean I'm talking getting physical when the situation demands it. It's like koothrapalli and Wolowitz going at each other in boxing ring, saying I'll tear you apart in a heartbeat n not throwing a punch hahaha

One more dose of reality for you. Movies are not exactly real life.

by smArtha Thu Apr 03, 2014 3:51 pm

seven wrote:How do you know she believed she can control his reaction ?

Oh I know all Simrans Wink

. They are generally not the kind conducting truthful and objective experiments on the lines of "What will Mr. Dear do if he becomes jealous?". They report it that way while narrating to others. But in reality just want to play a 'see I control your emotions' game and cry foul when they realize that they may control his emotions but not necessarily the response.

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 3:52 pm

@ b_a
I know. They are our fantasies. That's exactly what I said in my post.

by nevada Thu Apr 03, 2014 4:06 pm

So your husband's name is Raj. Should you be upset about this? Only you can decide.

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 4:09 pm

nevada wrote:So your husband's name is Raj. Should you be upset about this? Only you can decide.

Names are changed for privacy reasons and the situation is totally hypothetical.

If I were in that position, I'd take the day off or wfh and start a thread about it on CH.

by b_A Thu Apr 03, 2014 4:16 pm

seven wrote:
nevada wrote:So your husband's name is Raj. Should you be upset about this? Only you can decide.

Names are changed for privacy reasons and the situation is totally hypothetical.

If I were in that position, I'd take the day off or wfh and start a thread about it on CH.

Isn't that confirming nevada's assumption. BTW, that was my assumption too.

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 4:28 pm

OMG cute detectives!

you're both wrong in your assumption(s) - swapna help here.

If it was in fact me, I might start a thread about it on CH, but I wouldn't tell you guys I'd do that, now would I ?

Anyways, like I said, situation is hypothetical.

by Kris Thu Apr 03, 2014 5:24 pm

seven wrote:Is game where I will give situations and everyone will tell how they would handle it if they were in it.

Simran was flirting with a guy to make her husband raj jealous.
Raj n some an got into an argument about it and
Raj slapped her.

>>>> Did they get married thru bharat matrimony, like the couple in the ad where the woman loves her job (presumably, coding Smile

? I have had the urge to slap them both often.

by Guest Thu Apr 03, 2014 5:46 pm

seven wrote:
Kinnera wrote:
seven wrote:So she deserved it. In fact, she asked for it. Yea?
She's stupid and stupid ppl are irritating.

Ok you think flirting with another guy to make yours jealous is stupid.
But it works every time!

Using something time tested is stupid per you. Hmm..

And slapping someone for doing that is not questionable. Hmm x2

"But it works every time!"

So you tried and tested it?

Every time = you tried it many times?

It works=your husband got jealous when you flirt with other guys in front of him? Boy! Your husband must be one heck of an insecure guy! So what does he do when he gets jealous? The curious minds want to know.

"Using something time tested is stupid per you. Hmm.."

why would you or any woman do that? Is it to test how much their husbands get jealous when they flirt with other guys? And the assumption is that the more jealous the husbands get the more they love them? that's stupidity101.

Now coming to Raj and Simran...

Here's the thing. Why should anyone assume that Raj was jealous if Simran flirted with other guys? He probably is plain irritated with her stupid behavior and embarrassed in front of the other guy. Imagine what this other guy must be thinking, 'for her to be flirting with other guys with her husband right beside her......heck! that must be one slutty wife and a loser husband!'

And probably Simran did it many times before and Raj was sick of it. They probably argued abt it before and this time she retorted with more stupid and irritating arguments and he lost control of his emotions.

Disclaimer1: However stupid, slutty and irritating the wife may be, the husband shld not lose his cool and get physical with her. That's bad!

Disclaimer2: Flirtations aren't bad at all, if they are natural and done with pure light fun. If done bad, women could come across as sluts and men as jerks.

by MaxEntropy_Man Thu Apr 03, 2014 5:48 pm

seven wrote:
Raj n some an got into an argument about it and

i think it's possible to deal with poor grammar or with SMSese, but put the two together and you have something that resembles a communication from outer space.

by Maria S Thu Apr 03, 2014 6:01 pm

If it is not the first time Simran was flirting with a man- just to make her husband jealous, and it's not the first time- Raj fell for this and reacted the way he did and slapped her..and they both play this game and don't change their behavior..and got some thrill out of it..they are made for each other-deserve each other!

I just wanted to comment, because it is your thread Babe!

How are you nice lady? Hope all is well.

take care.

by MaxEntropy_Man Thu Apr 03, 2014 6:04 pm

it would appear that everyone understood seven's first post except me! i read it many times and i still didn't get it. in addition to hindi, marathiglish must also be india's rastrabas.

by Guest Thu Apr 03, 2014 6:21 pm

MaxEntropy_Man wrote:it would appear that everyone understood seven's first post except me! i read it many times and i still didn't get it. in addition to hindi, marathiglish must also be india's rastrabas.

Lol! I don't think anyone got it.

I think she meant to say that she wants to play a game where she'd give a situation/scenario and whoever wants to play that game has to imagine him/herself in that situation and say what he/she would do in similar circumstances. Till now no one has done that.

by Maria S Thu Apr 03, 2014 6:36 pm

Max அவர்களே,

ஒரு கணித மேதை- உங்கள்ளுக்கு இது புரியவில்லை என்பது ஆச்சரியமே!
ஆண் - பெண் மன விளையாட்டுகள் 1+1 மாதிரி!

செல்வி 7 சும்மா ஒரு கற்பனை புதிர் (scene) போட்டு "அது பேசுற ஆங்கிலத்தில்" - நம் கருத்தை விளையாட்டுக்கு...கேள்வி கேட்குது! அவ்வளவு தான்! "

நீங்கள் நலம் என்று நம்புகிறேன்.

by b_A Thu Apr 03, 2014 7:06 pm

MaxEntropy_Man wrote:it would appear that everyone understood seven's first post except me! i read it many times and i still didn't get it. in addition to hindi, marathiglish must also be india's rastrabas.

https://such.forumotion.com/t21957-situations#149664

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 7:33 pm

Kris wrote:
seven wrote:Is game where I will give situations and everyone will tell how they would handle it if they were in it.

Simran was flirting with a guy to make her husband raj jealous.
Raj n some an got into an argument about it and
Raj slapped her.

>>>> Did they get married thru bharat matrimony, like the couple in the ad where the woman loves her job (presumably, coding ? I have had the urge to slap them both often.

Lol kris, I've heard that ad too. But since one of my fav couples n my good friends met thru shadidotcom, I have a soft space for matrimony websites.

And to answer your question, no, they did not meet on bharatmatrimony.

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 7:44 pm

Kinnera wrote:
seven wrote:
Kinnera wrote:
seven wrote:So she deserved it. In fact, she asked for it. Yea?
She's stupid and stupid ppl are irritating.

Ok you think flirting with another guy to make yours jealous is stupid.
But it works every time!

Using something time tested is stupid per you. Hmm..

And slapping someone for doing that is not questionable. Hmm x2
"But it works every time!"

So you tried and tested it?

Every time = you tried it many times?

It works=your husband got jealous when you flirt with other guys in front of him? Boy! Your husband must be one heck of an insecure guy! So what does he do when he gets jealous? The curious minds want to know.

"Using something time tested is stupid per you. Hmm.."

why would you or any woman do that? Is it to test how much their husbands get jealous when they flirt with other guys? And the assumption is that the more jealous the husbands get the more they love them? that's stupidity101.

Err I also know you should never marry a man who hates his mom or has no friends. I haven't tested it myself but I know these are time tested things that always work.

Once again for everyone's benefit, this isn't about me. It's a hypothetical situation.

Kinnera wrote:Now coming to Raj and Simran...

Here's the thing. Why should anyone assume that Raj was jealous if Simran flirted with other guys? He probably is plain irritated with her stupid behavior and embarrassed in front of the other guy. Imagine what this other guy must be thinking, 'for her to be flirting with other guys with her husband right beside her......heck! that must be one slutty wife and a loser husband!'

And probably Simran did it many times before and Raj was sick of it. They probably argued abt it before and this time she retorted with more stupid and irritating arguments and he lost control of his emotions.

Disclaimer1: However stupid, slutty and irritating the wife may be, the husband shld not lose his cool and get physical with her. That's bad!

Disclaimer2: Flirtations aren't bad at all, if they are natural and done with pure light fun. If done bad, women could come across as sluts and men as jerks.

So your guess is he wasn't jealous but irritated. You also think it was slutty of her to flirt. You, however, support pure and light fun flirting. Convinced though that our simran was doing the slutty flirting which was stupid n therefore irritating.

You have now changed your stand on the slap from she was stupid n irritating and no comment on slap reaction to slapping is bad. No matter what, he should not slap.

Very interesting...hmm...

by Guest Thu Apr 03, 2014 7:51 pm

Go read my posts again. I've always maintained that she was stupid and irritating. No comments on the slap until the end.

if it's a hypothetical situation as you claim it is, why don't you test it with your husband and see if it concurs with the 'time and tested' thing.

everyone probably sees you in Simran and your husband in Raj already.

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 8:04 pm

Kinnera wrote:Go read my posts again. I've always maintained that she was stupid and irritating. No comments on the slap until the end.

Isn't that exactly how I summarized you. From No comment on slap to slap is bad.

Kinnera wrote: if it's a hypothetical situation as you claim it is, why don't you test it with your husband and see if it concurs with the 'time and tested' thing.

everyone probably sees you in Simran and your husband in Raj already.

Why don't I try it with DH...err because it's more fun reading other peoples reaction to it (?)

if I start doing things because people see me that way, I'll go crazy.
I mean seriously? Why would you even ask someone to do some thing for this reason.

:-/

by Guest Thu Apr 03, 2014 8:16 pm

seven wrote:
Kinnera wrote:Go read my posts again. I've always maintained that she was stupid and irritating. No comments on the slap until the end.

Isn't that exactly how I summarized you. From No comment on slap to slap is bad.

Kinnera wrote: if it's a hypothetical situation as you claim it is, why don't you test it with your husband and see if it concurs with the 'time and tested' thing.

everyone probably sees you in Simran and your husband in Raj already.

Why don't I try it with DH...err because it's more fun reading other peoples reaction to it (?)

if I start doing things because people see me that way, I'll go crazy.
I mean seriously? Why would you even ask someone to do some thing for this reason.

:-/

So what's holding you back from testing the 'time and tested' thing? And it works every time too. Rite? And it isn't stupidity either.

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 8:26 pm

You really wanna make this about me, don't you :p

I didn't say I haven't tried it or I won't try it that sth is stopping me.

by Guest Thu Apr 03, 2014 8:29 pm

seven wrote:You really wanna make this about me, don't you :p

I didn't say I haven't tried it or I won't try it that sth is stopping me.

I don't want to make this abt you.

OTOH, you really want to make Raj look like the bad guy. Don't you? You want everyone to come down heavily on the guy for slapping Simran. You don't want to hear anything bad about Simran. well...why? I expected this right from the minute I read the original post.

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 8:42 pm

[quote="Kinnera"]

seven wrote:You really wanna make this about me, don't you :p

I didn't say I haven't tried it or I won't try it that sth is stopping me.
I don't want to make this abt you.

But you are making this about me. Want to or not you know better.

Kinnera wrote:OTOH, you really want to make Raj look like the bad guy. Don't you? You want everyone to come down heavily on the guy for slapping Simran. You don't want to hear anything bad about Simran. well...why? I expected this right from the minute I read the original post.

Ok now I would really like to know what in my first post suggested I wanted everyone to hate raj or even that *I* hate raj.

I'm open to hear good bad for both raj n simran. Actually I was interested to see how people think they'll react in a situation like this. But if they wanna talk about raj n simran n their relationship, that's welcome too. That's what we did all day.

But I don't think I'm taking sides yet. Although I'm allowed to. If I hate raj, I can suggest that in my posts. That's the game. You have to react to the situation n if it makes me wanna hate raj, I can.

What's not expected is making this personal n about me.

by Guest Thu Apr 03, 2014 8:47 pm

I gave my hypothesis of the situation, i analysed why raj could've been drawn to the edge and i also gave my disclaimers. I have nothing more to add.

I am done with this thread. good nite!

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 8:57 pm

Kinnera wrote:I gave my hypothesis of the situation, i analysed why raj could've been drawn to the edge and i also gave my disclaimers. I have nothing more to add.

I am done with this thread. good nite!

I agree. And add to the list, you tried to make this about me.

Sweet dreams Smile

by seven Thu Apr 03, 2014 9:01 pm

MaxEntropy_Man wrote:it would appear that everyone understood seven's first post except me! i read it many times and i still didn't get it. in addition to hindi, marathiglish must also be india's rastrabas.

That's sweet max! I'm surprised you opened sth I posted, let alone tried several times to make sense of it. It's just too sweet.

Idk what's a rastrabas n there was no Marathi in my post. I didn't understand your second line.

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