Excuses welcome

seven wrote:
wat cud she say thats more convincing. wats important enough to miss your colleague's shadi ?

Tracy Whitney wrote:Does the friend have kid(s). Babysitter nahi mili has been my frequent. Or if thy sniffle just once I declare some upcoming cold. I don't make flase excuses about sickness. Superstition. When all else fails, hujband takes he blow- kaam tha, emergency release, prodcution issues, entire Europe thama pada hai. Definitely more important than a wedding.

seven wrote:not convincing enough i think bw. but ty

blabberwock wrote:

seven wrote:not convincing enough i think bw. but ty

I think it is a perfect excuse. I use it all the time.

Anyway, why did this friend avoid the wedding? Because he sent her flowers?

seven wrote:

blabberwock wrote:

seven wrote:not convincing enough i think bw. but ty

I think it is a perfect excuse. I use it all the time.

Anyway, why did this friend avoid the wedding? Because he sent her flowers?

she just avoids him while she can.

Tracy Whitney wrote:If lukie were here he would conclude that the friend is a northindian. Super scared of husband and raised eye brows.

blabberwock wrote:

seven wrote:

blabberwock wrote:

seven wrote:not convincing enough i think bw. but ty

I think it is a perfect excuse. I use it all the time.

Anyway, why did this friend avoid the wedding? Because he sent her flowers?

she just avoids him while she can.

If so, why is she so bothered about what he will think about her absence at the wedding?

Just tell him that she was busy and couldn't make it.

Rekz wrote:Newly Married friend- *looking quite upset* hmm why you did not turn up?

Your friend- Sorry yaar, actually i did not want to get lost in the shaadi crowd,you are so special to me sweetheart.Both of you come home with your shaadi cd...we will watch it over dinner at my place.

Happy Ending...

seven wrote:one of our friends,from work, got married earlier this month and he is coming back to work on tuesday. now another of our friends didn't go to his wedding and now she doesn't know wat to tell him when he comes back.

back story: he is extra nice to her. sometime back this girl wasn't her cheerful self and was having a tough time at work and her mom was in an accident so she was even more worried. this guy (who got married,) sent flowers to cheer her up and it did cheer her up but he does things like these all the time and she was in two minds about going to his wedding. maybe she wasn't comfortable or sth.

so we, her friends, told her to just go and say she is sorry she couldn't attend his wedding and she really wanted to etc...husband made other plans bcz he forgot abt the wedding. but i think its lame.

also i think none of us gave her good advice bcz most of us r upset with her for not going too. i am not, thats y i wana help

wat cud she say thats more convincing. wats important enough to miss your colleague's shadi ?

Kris wrote:

seven wrote:one of our friends,from work, got married earlier this month and he is coming back to work on tuesday. now another of our friends didn't go to his wedding and now she doesn't know wat to tell him when he comes back.

back story: he is extra nice to her. sometime back this girl wasn't her cheerful self and was having a tough time at work and her mom was in an accident so she was even more worried. this guy (who got married,) sent flowers to cheer her up and it did cheer her up but he does things like these all the time and she was in two minds about going to his wedding. maybe she wasn't comfortable or sth.

so we, her friends, told her to just go and say she is sorry she couldn't attend his wedding and she really wanted to etc...husband made other plans bcz he forgot abt the wedding. but i think its lame.

also i think none of us gave her good advice bcz most of us r upset with her for not going too. i am not, thats y i wana help

wat cud she say thats more convincing. wats important enough to miss your colleague's shadi ?

>>>> Did she RSVP that she would go and didn't? If this was not the case, just have her give the guy a gift and tell him she's sorry she missed the event due to prior commitments and leave it at that.

Tracy Whitney wrote:seven,



If you need drama in your life I can ship some down from NJ here.. too much drama, etc here, and of much stronger quality than trying to come up with excuses for a nonevent.

Merlot Daruwala wrote:Helping a "friend" come up with an excuse for not attending the wedding of a workplace "friend" - who she normally avoids btw - is a real problem?

Shaven, it's little wonder most of us think you're underage to be here.

Tracy Whitney wrote:lol seven... you will know a real drama when you get one... until then I will envy your life.

seven wrote:

Tracy Whitney wrote:lol seven... you will know a real drama when you get one... until then I will envy your life.

not done [-(. i'll get drama when i want one **may god come between my life and drama**

Tracy Whitney wrote:

seven wrote:

Tracy Whitney wrote:lol seven... you will know a real drama when you get one... until then I will envy your life.

not done [-(. i'll get drama when i want one **may god come between my life and drama**

you do seem to be wanting one... but not getting a real one so far.



regarding rules of chat.. it's more of a personal choice than an enforced rule, methinks...

Tracy Whitney wrote:Seven. Someone in my family died today. After being in a hospital for one month. She was admitted for a totally different reason, so this is a drama in itself. But that's not what gripped my day today. What happened was that her own daughter hasn't been informed yet. Atleast that's what we think coz the last rites have been done and no calls from her so far. Someone in that house was informed, hence this is a mystery. We are wondering how to tackle this when and if we talk to her.

More drama? The person who died is related to my blip blip blah cousin (in-law). They were pretty close. He is inconsolable today too.

Ise kehte hai real drama. Two three other dramatic things happened today. Batau ki pet bhar gaya?

blabberwock wrote:too much drama in this thread.

**god pls come between me and this drama**.

Tracy Whitney wrote:theek hai bhaiya... coming up with an excuse for a friend for missing the wedding of another friend is a huge event.... may you have fun resolving it... yes, one should not laugh at other people's problems by calling them non-issues, and I am sorry I even got entangled in this mess.

Another prick wrote:"I was babysitting Shaven." -- your friend who could not attend the wedding.

How's that?