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by Maria S Sat Sep 08, 2012 11:59 am

Good one..and being reminded/supported by others who believe in your strength and encourage you when you feel you have reached the end of the road..is helpful too!

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Sat Sep 08, 2012 3:00 pm

Maria S wrote:

Good one..and being reminded/supported by others who believe in your strength and encourage you when you feel you have reached the end of the road..is helpful too!

and then that person forgetting all that help and the people, and claiming all credit is also the norm.

- another Gem from Uppilanica.

by Maria S Sat Sep 08, 2012 3:20 pm

I like this gem Uppili Saamiyar:)

Looks like you are at home too..on a Sat!

Hope you are doing well.

by Guest Sat Sep 08, 2012 8:07 pm

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
Maria S wrote:

Good one..and being reminded/supported by others who believe in your strength and encourage you when you feel you have reached the end of the road..is helpful too!

and then that person forgetting all that help and the people, and claiming all credit is also the norm.

- another Gem from Uppilanica.

actually it's more complicated. sometimes the person helping u expects a certain level of equation always, and is not able to adjust to a 'normal' give and take of a relationship. they either want a credit all the time, or sometimes, they resent it when u turn around and want to help them too, coz they had started believing by now that they are perfect compared to u. and hence, such relationships end sour unless both are mature and resilient enough to changes in their lives. Been on both sides of the helper - helpee equations.

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Sat Sep 08, 2012 8:17 pm

Natalia Romanova wrote:
Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:
Maria S wrote:

Good one..and being reminded/supported by others who believe in your strength and encourage you when you feel you have reached the end of the road..is helpful too!

and then that person forgetting all that help and the people, and claiming all credit is also the norm.

- another Gem from Uppilanica.

actually it's more complicated. sometimes the person helping u expects a certain level of equation always, and is not able to adjust to a 'normal' give and take of a relationship. they either want a credit all the time, or sometimes, they resent it when u turn around and want to help them too, coz they had started believing by now that they are perfect compared to u. and hence, such relationships end sour unless both are mature and resilient enough to changes in their lives. Been on both sides of the helper - helpee equations.

shhhhhhhhhh... go back to your lazy boy, pillow, laptop, Netflix, and wine.

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