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Nila wrote:LOL. I was overdue with the credit card payment and paid 30 bucks fine. I guess, time to use the app. I thought I set up the auto payment...my bad. I wish H will never know of this.,

garam_kuta wrote:

Nila wrote:LOL. I was overdue with the credit card payment and paid 30 bucks fine. I guess, time to use the app. I thought I set up the auto payment...my bad. I wish H will never know of this.,

eanu kOpaa maadkondidheerAntha kaanaththey! DH-nalli D na bitbittidhiree

Nila wrote:

garam_kuta wrote:

Nila wrote:LOL. I was overdue with the credit card payment and paid 30 bucks fine. I guess, time to use the app. I thought I set up the auto payment...my bad. I wish H will never know of this.,

eanu kOpaa maadkondidheerAntha kaanaththey! DH-nalli D na bitbittidhiree

One fine day I realized that he is not D to me Morning Morning sumney bekilladha tension takobararthu...

Vidya Bagchi wrote:This was so simple. Bring the app up. Take pic of front and back, and deposit. Easy as 1-2-3.

Apart. H from DH. Hope it doesn't progress to XH (ex H). If that's the path you taking, make sure that the house has a clean deck, clean shed, clean garage, clean basement. Make sure you have all the tools labeled (and a knowledge how not to overfill them with oil ), all manuals handy, and every financial document filed meticulously. Make sure your car is fully serviced. Make sure you know the landscaper and other service people's numbers. Make sure you have a working printer and fax machine. Make sure your gps is upgraded and find the other special gadgets that work for you. Find a babysitter for other emergencies. Beyond that you may or may not need him much. Yeah kids will need him, but all that is manageable.

Propagandhi711 wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:This was so simple. Bring the app up. Take pic of front and back, and deposit. Easy as 1-2-3.

Apart. H from DH. Hope it doesn't progress to XH (ex H). If that's the path you taking, make sure that the house has a clean deck, clean shed, clean garage, clean basement. Make sure you have all the tools labeled (and a knowledge how not to overfill them with oil ), all manuals handy, and every financial document filed meticulously. Make sure your car is fully serviced. Make sure you know the landscaper and other service people's numbers. Make sure you have a working printer and fax machine. Make sure your gps is upgraded and find the other special gadgets that work for you. Find a babysitter for other emergencies. Beyond that you may or may not need him much. Yeah kids will need him, but all that is manageable.

any hints on tools that require double d batteries?

Nila wrote:XH? Don't know about that -it's up to him. If I plan I will certainly be prepared and seek advice here: who else I can rely on. All the above are noted. Thanks.

I service and wash the car. check

I can get the numbers from craigslist...already I am incharge of the gardening and landscaping and I hired the person. - Check

Don't the kids get swapped every other weekend?

Vidya Bagchi wrote:

Nila wrote:XH? Don't know about that -it's up to him. If I plan I will certainly be prepared and seek advice here: who else I can rely on. All the above are noted. Thanks.

I service and wash the car. check

I can get the numbers from craigslist...already I am incharge of the gardening and landscaping and I hired the person. - Check

Don't the kids get swapped every other weekend?

Was just venting for me. No XH scenario for you I hope. Being a single parent can be overwhelming. There are some cruise controlled days but it's a hard work to get to the stage and any small setback can unsettle the balance. I can't even afford a leg sprain at this stage. Things were better when he lived close by. But now he is too far, so it's all upon me.

Nila wrote:who else I can rely on.

Jeremiah Mburuburu wrote:

Nila wrote:who else I can rely on.

interesting! the only people you can rely on are those whose forum you destroyed a couple of years ago!

Nila wrote:

Jeremiah Mburuburu wrote:

Nila wrote:who else I can rely on.

interesting! the only people you can rely on are those whose forum you destroyed a couple of years ago!

I didn't destroy. It was an easy fix and sulekha failed to fix it. It's not my problem. I messed up only one thread by Rekz. Sorry...I forgot to add that I am an interesting person! Thanks JM!

Vidya Bagchi wrote: Beyond that you may or may not need him much. Yeah kids will need him, but all that is manageable.

Rekz wrote:

Nila wrote:

Jeremiah Mburuburu wrote:

Nila wrote:who else I can rely on.

interesting! the only people you can rely on are those whose forum you destroyed a couple of years ago!

I didn't destroy. It was an easy fix and sulekha failed to fix it. It's not my problem. I messed up only one thread by Rekz. Sorry...I forgot to add that I am an interesting person! Thanks JM!

Sasthi..why/when/how did u become moon(nila)? Is there any specific reason behind handle name changing?(serious q)...

7 deactivated her account :-|...Was there any new fight? Kindly update...

Nila wrote:

Rekz wrote:

Sasthi..why/when/how did u become moon(nila)? Is there any specific reason behind handle name changing?(serious q)...

7 deactivated her account :-|...Was there any new fight? Kindly update...

Hi Rekz Chellam, I usually follow a strict schedule here and elsewhere. I won't post anything unless it interests me after 5:00 PST. Since you mentioned my name and I will be having a busy day 2'morrow I thought I can be a little flex...given that "such" can get very addictive and I am not someone who can multitask. I don't chat or take messages. Just an FYI
I know nothing about 7's account deactivation. She was posting this afternoon...may be a rumor.
Yep about my new handle - see my other posts.

Okay, catch you some other time TC sweety.

Merlot Daruwala wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote: Beyond that you may or may not need him much. Yeah kids will need him, but all that is manageable.

Aiyyo..all these women want is a babymaker, a babysitter, a handyman and a landscaper. Once the babymaking is done and they find professional help in those other areas, see how they dump the poor husbands. Mankind is doomed...

Nila wrote:

Rekz wrote:

Nila wrote:

Jeremiah Mburuburu wrote:

Nila wrote:who else I can rely on.

interesting! the only people you can rely on are those whose forum you destroyed a couple of years ago!

I didn't destroy. It was an easy fix and sulekha failed to fix it. It's not my problem. I messed up only one thread by Rekz. Sorry...I forgot to add that I am an interesting person! Thanks JM!

Sasthi..why/when/how did u become moon(nila)? Is there any specific reason behind handle name changing?(serious q)...

7 deactivated her account :-|...Was there any new fight? Kindly update...

Hi Rekz Chellam, I usually follow a strict schedule here and elsewhere. I won't post anything unless it interests me after 5:00 PST. Since you mentioned my name and I will be having a busy day 2'morrow I thought I can be a little flex...given that "such" can get very addictive and I am not someone who can multitask. I don't chat or take messages. Just an FYI
I know nothing about 7's account deactivation. She was posting this afternoon...may be a rumor.
Yep about my new handle - see my other posts.

Okay, catch you some other time TC sweety.

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

Nila wrote:

Rekz wrote:

Sasthi..why/when/how did u become moon(nila)? Is there any specific reason behind handle name changing?(serious q)...

7 deactivated her account :-|...Was there any new fight? Kindly update...

Hi Rekz Chellam, I usually follow a strict schedule here and elsewhere. I won't post anything unless it interests me after 5:00 PST. Since you mentioned my name and I will be having a busy day 2'morrow I thought I can be a little flex...given that "such" can get very addictive and I am not someone who can multitask. I don't chat or take messages. Just an FYI
I know nothing about 7's account deactivation. She was posting this afternoon...may be a rumor.
Yep about my new handle - see my other posts.



Okay, catch you some other time TC sweety.

....If I were not a Desi, I would assume that you two are....