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The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 6:59 am
Jignes is your typical gujju ABD. Migrated from the Gujarat at an early age. Lives with parents. Had one girlfriend or the other since high school. When he was 25 and his 3 year old relationship ended, his parents suggested him to check out Jigna. A young bright girl from our own Gujarat.
Jignes never imagined he would be having an arranged marriage but he was heart broken. He had a chance to go to India, so he met Jigna and considering all factors, thought that maybe she was the right girl for him and his family.
Jignes never imagined he would be having an arranged marriage but he was heart broken. He had a chance to go to India, so he met Jigna and considering all factors, thought that maybe she was the right girl for him and his family.
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 7:10 am
Jignes made 2 or 3 more trips to India for Jigna, to meet her again, to get engaged, and eventually to get married. Then he brought her here to the Gujarat state of the USA.
Jignes really thought he has hit the lottery marrying super pretty Jigna. Soon enough Jigna became the dutiful daughter in law and a loving wife. She also found a job, and before you know it, they were a happy couple with a baby on the way.
Jignes really thought he has hit the lottery marrying super pretty Jigna. Soon enough Jigna became the dutiful daughter in law and a loving wife. She also found a job, and before you know it, they were a happy couple with a baby on the way.
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 7:22 am
One day Jignes got a call from a woman. She introduced herself as Aneri, wife of Devang, who Jignes vaguely knew as Jigna's colleague, and who was also in his late twenties.
Aneri pleaded with Jignes to meet him, and when Jignes met her, she showed him email proofs of the affair between Jigna and Devang. She also told him that this is not Devang's first offense and that he is very flirtatious by nature.
Aneri pleaded with Jignes to meet him, and when Jignes met her, she showed him email proofs of the affair between Jigna and Devang. She also told him that this is not Devang's first offense and that he is very flirtatious by nature.
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 7:28 am
Jignes was devastated. He went home and confronted Jigna. She broke down and admitted the affair.
Jignes was heartbroken. The timing wasn't right either, with the baby on the way. Jigna did assure him it was his baby. The affair had begun during her pregnancy.
Considering they were to start a family, and Jigna seemed repentant, Jignes thought of giving their marriage another chance. He tried to come to terms with the cheating.
Jignes was heartbroken. The timing wasn't right either, with the baby on the way. Jigna did assure him it was his baby. The affair had begun during her pregnancy.
Considering they were to start a family, and Jigna seemed repentant, Jignes thought of giving their marriage another chance. He tried to come to terms with the cheating.
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 7:41 am
Aneri didn't leave Devang either. They had a little son to worry about.
After the birth of their baby, Jignes continued to try to forget about Jigna's cheating. He tried for two years. But he just could not bring himself to trust her again. He began getting suspicious of every move of Jigna's. He always wondered what she was upto. If she was doing it again.
Eventually he realized this was healthy for neither himself nor Jigna, who was forever faced with a suspecting husband. He realized they both were too young to be dealing with this shyt for the rest of their lives. And that it was better they both started new lives for themselves while they still could.
He asked Jigna to leave. She did. They have been living separately but close by and taking joint care of their kid on a daily basis. Both are dedicated parents, and in full agreement regarding the kid's well being. Their divorce is under way.
Do you think they can or should get back together? Is there another hope?
After the birth of their baby, Jignes continued to try to forget about Jigna's cheating. He tried for two years. But he just could not bring himself to trust her again. He began getting suspicious of every move of Jigna's. He always wondered what she was upto. If she was doing it again.
Eventually he realized this was healthy for neither himself nor Jigna, who was forever faced with a suspecting husband. He realized they both were too young to be dealing with this shyt for the rest of their lives. And that it was better they both started new lives for themselves while they still could.
He asked Jigna to leave. She did. They have been living separately but close by and taking joint care of their kid on a daily basis. Both are dedicated parents, and in full agreement regarding the kid's well being. Their divorce is under way.
Do you think they can or should get back together? Is there another hope?
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Re: The cheating story
by Bittu Tue Aug 27, 2013 9:30 am
Amazing stuff. Now all you need to do is track down Jigna and get her side of the story. This foolio Jignes should have boffed Aneri to even out things. Effin n00bs.
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 9:44 am
She was newly married, in her 20s, seemed happy in her marriage, was also pregnant, from conservative india, but cheated on her husband anyway.....just like that. Kaiku? Jignes never cared to find out what the problem was.
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 9:48 am
i blame the devang.kinnera wrote:She was newly married, in her 20s, seemed happy in her marriage, was also pregnant, from conservative india, but cheated on her husband anyway.....just like that. Kaiku? Jignes never cared to find out what the problem was.
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Re: The cheating story
by goodcitizn Tue Aug 27, 2013 10:11 am
Jigna is a pregnant desini fob having an affair - disgusting
Devang a married desi fob f'n a pregnant desini - barf-inducing
Sounds like a dim-witted trailer trash episode from Jerry Springer
Devang a married desi fob f'n a pregnant desini - barf-inducing
Sounds like a dim-witted trailer trash episode from Jerry Springer
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Re: The cheating story
by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Tue Aug 27, 2013 10:25 am
Problem? what problem?kinnera wrote:She was newly married, in her 20s, seemed happy in her marriage, was also pregnant, from conservative india, but cheated on her husband anyway.....just like that. Kaiku? Jignes never cared to find out what the problem was.
It JUST happened...and Jigna never planned it to happen.
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Re: The cheating story
by Propagandhi711 Tue Aug 27, 2013 10:28 am
yes, wimmens never cheat. they be pure as driven snow and dont have free willVidya Bagchi wrote:i blame the devang.kinnera wrote:She was newly married, in her 20s, seemed happy in her marriage, was also pregnant, from conservative india, but cheated on her husband anyway.....just like that. Kaiku? Jignes never cared to find out what the problem was.
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Re: The cheating story
by Kris Tue Aug 27, 2013 10:50 am
>>>>I don't know, but one thing is for sure, Jignes can't be using this sob story as a ploy to lure our virtuous SUCH women and subjecting them to weird practices like singing to random men on trains.Vidya Bagchi wrote:Aneri didn't leave Devang either. They had a little son to worry about.
After the birth of their baby, Jignes continued to try to forget about Jigna's cheating. He tried for two years. But he just could not bring himself to trust her again. He began getting suspicious of every move of Jigna's. He always wondered what she was upto. If she was doing it again.
Eventually he realized this was healthy for neither himself nor Jigna, who was forever faced with a suspecting husband. He realized they both were too young to be dealing with this shyt for the rest of their lives. And that it was better they both started new lives for themselves while they still could.
He asked Jigna to leave. She did. They have been living separately but close by and taking joint care of their kid on a daily basis. Both are dedicated parents, and in full agreement regarding the kid's well being. Their divorce is under way.
Do you think they can or should get back together? Is there another hope?
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 10:54 am
Sweet of you to call me virtuous. I am just another twisted aunty lol.
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Re: The cheating story
by Kris Tue Aug 27, 2013 10:58 am
>>>VB, in the land of the blind, the one- eyed man is king.. so, there you go! hahahaVidya Bagchi wrote:Sweet of you to call me virtuous. I am just another twisted aunty lol.
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Re: The cheating story
by MaxEntropy_Man Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:06 am
seems like garden variety stuff. jhumpa lahiri plumbs the immigrant indian communities, especially the bengali community for stories like these.
make them a bit older, white, and suburban and you know where john updike's fuel comes from.
make them a bit older, white, and suburban and you know where john updike's fuel comes from.
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:10 am
Yeah, that must've been Jignes's line of thinking too: Things JUST happen even when never planned. In that situation, one should accept whatever comes one's way. Jignes couldn't do that. He was constantly worried that it might happen again and hence the divorce after a couple yrs. problem, no?Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:Problem? what problem?kinnera wrote:She was newly married, in her 20s, seemed happy in her marriage, was also pregnant, from conservative india, but cheated on her husband anyway.....just like that. Kaiku? Jignes never cared to find out what the problem was.
It JUST happened...and Jigna never planned it to happen.
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Re: The cheating story
by MaxEntropy_Man Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:18 am
story continued twenty years on....
kid grows up, comes to learn of mom's youthful infidelity from notes he finds stashed away on her google phone from twenty years ago, finds out about devang and where he lives, follows him to a friendly neighborhood starbucks. picks up an empty latte cup he threw away and does DNA analysis to discover he is d's kid. confronts him and says, "pApA! huṁ tamārī putra chuṁ!". embraces and tears follow, and father and son walk away into the sunset to a fishing trip, or to a dandiya ras party to celebrate their newly found relationship.
kid grows up, comes to learn of mom's youthful infidelity from notes he finds stashed away on her google phone from twenty years ago, finds out about devang and where he lives, follows him to a friendly neighborhood starbucks. picks up an empty latte cup he threw away and does DNA analysis to discover he is d's kid. confronts him and says, "pApA! huṁ tamārī putra chuṁ!". embraces and tears follow, and father and son walk away into the sunset to a fishing trip, or to a dandiya ras party to celebrate their newly found relationship.
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:20 am
I wonder if Jignes did a paternity test.
Affirming note to self: no bidya, you are not going to say yes to the sudden lunch invite today. No matter how curious you are.
Affirming note to self: no bidya, you are not going to say yes to the sudden lunch invite today. No matter how curious you are.
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:24 am
I do remember reading one such story from jumpa lahiri. The woman gets pregnant from a house guest who was her husband's punjabi friend. It happens just once and she bears his child. No one knows abt it. She confesses that to the guide on their trip to india.MaxEntropy_Man wrote:seems like garden variety stuff. jhumpa lahiri plumbs the immigrant indian communities, especially the bengali community for stories like these.
make them a bit older, white, and suburban and you know where john updike's fuel comes from.
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Re: The cheating story
by indophile Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:26 am
Like that wise man Rajneesh said - "f..." is an interesting word, and it's transitive.Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:Problem? what problem?kinnera wrote:She was newly married, in her 20s, seemed happy in her marriage, was also pregnant, from conservative india, but cheated on her husband anyway.....just like that. Kaiku? Jignes never cared to find out what the problem was.
It JUST happened...and Jigna never planned it to happen.
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Re: The cheating story
by southindian Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:27 am
Max, you love google, starbucks and can't think of their imaginative replacements in 2033.MaxEntropy_Man wrote:story continued twenty years on....
kid grows up, comes to learn of mom's youthful infidelity from notes he finds stashed away on her google phone from twenty years ago, finds out about devang and where he lives, follows him to a friendly neighborhood starbucks. picks up an empty latte cup he threw away and does DNA analysis to discover he is d's kid. confronts him and says, "pApA! huṁ tamārī putra chuṁ!". embraces and tears follow, and father and son walk away into the sunset to a fishing trip, or to a dandiya ras party to celebrate their newly found relationship.
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Re: The cheating story
by MaxEntropy_Man Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:29 am
i hate starbucks.southindian wrote:Max, you love google, starbucks and can't think of their imaginative replacements in 2033.MaxEntropy_Man wrote:story continued twenty years on....
kid grows up, comes to learn of mom's youthful infidelity from notes he finds stashed away on her google phone from twenty years ago, finds out about devang and where he lives, follows him to a friendly neighborhood starbucks. picks up an empty latte cup he threw away and does DNA analysis to discover he is d's kid. confronts him and says, "pApA! huṁ tamārī putra chuṁ!". embraces and tears follow, and father and son walk away into the sunset to a fishing trip, or to a dandiya ras party to celebrate their newly found relationship.
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:30 am
I read that too.kinnera wrote:I do remember reading one such story from jumpa lahiri. The woman gets pregnant from a house guest who was her husband's punjabi friend. It happens just once and she bears his child. No one knows abt it. She confesses that to the guide on their trip to india.MaxEntropy_Man wrote:seems like garden variety stuff. jhumpa lahiri plumbs the immigrant indian communities, especially the bengali community for stories like these.
make them a bit older, white, and suburban and you know where john updike's fuel comes from.
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Re: The cheating story
by MaxEntropy_Man Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:37 am
tale as old as time. change names, context, and culture, rinse and repeat. woman obtains stronger and better genes at low or no financial cost to herself, and man gets to propagate his stuff with no cost to him. usually the jigneses of the world, the working stiffs are none the wiser.Vidya Bagchi wrote:
I read that too.
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:39 am
Sorry, fine. Will try to write something original next time.MaxEntropy_Man wrote:tale as old as time. change names, context, and culture, rinse and repeat.Vidya Bagchi wrote:
I read that too.
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Re: The cheating story
by southindian Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:52 am
Sex stories are spicy but have much the same plots for 5000 years.Vidya Bagchi wrote:Sorry, fine. Will try to write something original next time.MaxEntropy_Man wrote:tale as old as time. change names, context, and culture, rinse and repeat.Vidya Bagchi wrote:
I read that too.
Think imaginative. Think outside sexual stimulation.
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Re: The cheating story
by MaxEntropy_Man Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:54 am
didn't mean it that way. your story is still interesting because it has the cultural nuances particular to soft wavy haired jignes with foos nu pant and smace nu sirt, and jigna.
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 11:57 am
The only thing I tried to show new in this story was that Jignes did give it a try for the sake of the kid.
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Re: The cheating story
by MaxEntropy_Man Tue Aug 27, 2013 12:13 pm
yes good man jigs.Vidya Bagchi wrote:The only thing I tried to show new in this story was that Jignes did give it a try for the sake of the kid.
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 12:30 pm
I thought it applies to the whole of living kingdom. I thought only humans stick to one mate in the name of marriage. Fidelity/infidelity stuff applies only to humans. No?MaxEntropy_Man wrote:yes good man jigs.Vidya Bagchi wrote:The only thing I tried to show new in this story was that Jignes did give it a try for the sake of the kid.
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Re: The cheating story
by MaxEntropy_Man Tue Aug 27, 2013 12:32 pm
many species of birds are nominally monogamous too.
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Re: The cheating story
by Guest Tue Aug 27, 2013 12:50 pm
Hmmm...MaxEntropy_Man wrote:many species of birds are nominally monogamous too.
I remember this from rajneesh's interview: he was advocating IVF from donors, that woman shouldn't bind themselves to marriage, that they shld be free to go to sperm banks and choose the best DNA to bear children. And men with good DNA should volunteer to donate their sperm, and that all men and women should raise the kids as global children unselfishly. If followed as he proposes, he visualizes the world full of ppl with good DNA. Fine and dandy, but he fails to mention that only women with good DNA should have their eggs fertilized.
Anyway, he thinking was pretty out of the box, esp for his time.
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Re: The cheating story
by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Tue Aug 27, 2013 1:13 pm
Remember: It is NOT cheating if you can give a reason why it is not.kinnera wrote:Hmmm...MaxEntropy_Man wrote:many species of birds are nominally monogamous too.
I remember this from rajneesh's interview: he was advocating IVF from donors, that woman shouldn't bind themselves to marriage, that they shld be free to go to sperm banks and choose the best DNA to bear children. And men with good DNA should volunteer to donate their sperm, and that all men and women should raise the kids as global children unselfishly. If followed as he proposes, he visualizes the world full of ppl with good DNA. Fine and dandy, but he fails to mention that only women with good DNA should have their eggs fertilized.
Anyway, he thinking was pretty out of the box, esp for his time.
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Re: The cheating story
by Captain Bhankas Wed Aug 28, 2013 5:11 am
''kinnera wrote: Anyway, he (osho rajnish's) thinking was pretty out of the box, esp for his time.
no, it is just that his supplier supplied only the best and pure stuff.
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Re: The cheating story
by Merlot Daruwala Wed Aug 28, 2013 5:24 am
Correct. And see what a difference that can make. Poor ToothSeeker says much the same stuff after glugging two-dollar hooch but all you peasants just laugh at him.Captain Bhankas wrote:''kinnera wrote: Anyway, he (osho rajnish's) thinking was pretty out of the box, esp for his time.
no, it is just that his supplier supplied only the best and pure stuff.
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Re: The cheating story
by Captain Bhankas Wed Aug 28, 2013 5:30 am
precisely. it takes a jawahir to know the worth of a gem.Merlot Daruwala wrote:Correct. And see what a difference that can make. Poor ToothSeeker says much the same stuff after glugging two-dollar hooch but all you peasants just laugh at him.
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