Insecurities of a Tamil man

Rishi wrote:There is a Tamil guy from Chennai living locally who is married to a white woman.

The man became an American citizen long time ago. As soon as he got naturalized, he sponsored his sister and her husband. The process took its own time. They arrived here in the new world. The Tamil fellow's nephew, a smart kid who went to IIT was already here on a student visa a few years before his parents came to America. He was a little old to be considered to be a child to be brought by his parents as a permanent resident. He was doing his Ph.D here at a university here.

The IIT kid was good looking and had an impressive personality. He was personable and charming. He used to visit his uncle often. His American aunt also liked him.

One day, the 24 year old nephew got a call from his 55 year old uncle. "You are too friendly with my wife. You better stop that." the uncle warned.

The kid told his mom. She felt really bad. She felt sorry for her brother. She knew her SIL was a nice lady but it was her brother who was having a problem. He would have been better off marrying a Tamil woman, she thought.  
 

bw wrote:

Rishi wrote:There is a Tamil guy from Chennai living locally who is married to a white woman.

The man became an American citizen long time ago. As soon as he got naturalized, he sponsored his sister and her husband. The process took its own time. They arrived here in the new world. The Tamil fellow's nephew, a smart kid who went to IIT was already here on a student visa a few years before his parents came to America. He was a little old to be considered to be a child to be brought by his parents as a permanent resident. He was doing his Ph.D here at a university here.

The IIT kid was good looking and had an impressive personality. He was personable and charming. He used to visit his uncle often. His American aunt also liked him.

One day, the 24 year old nephew got a call from his 55 year old uncle. "You are too friendly with my wife. You better stop that." the uncle warned.

The kid told his mom. She felt really bad. She felt sorry for her brother. She knew her SIL was a nice lady but it was her brother who was having a problem. He would have been better off marrying a Tamil woman, she thought.  
 

are you saying that he wouldn't have minded his nephew getting friendly with his wife id she were a tamilian? what's the difference?

Rishi wrote:

bw wrote:

Rishi wrote:There is a Tamil guy from Chennai living locally who is married to a white woman.

The man became an American citizen long time ago. As soon as he got naturalized, he sponsored his sister and her husband. The process took its own time. They arrived here in the new world. The Tamil fellow's nephew, a smart kid who went to IIT was already here on a student visa a few years before his parents came to America. He was a little old to be considered to be a child to be brought by his parents as a permanent resident. He was doing his Ph.D here at a university here.

The IIT kid was good looking and had an impressive personality. He was personable and charming. He used to visit his uncle often. His American aunt also liked him.

One day, the 24 year old nephew got a call from his 55 year old uncle. "You are too friendly with my wife. You better stop that." the uncle warned.

The kid told his mom. She felt really bad. She felt sorry for her brother. She knew her SIL was a nice lady but it was her brother who was having a problem. He would have been better off marrying a Tamil woman, she thought.  
 

are you saying that he wouldn't have minded his nephew getting friendly with his wife id she were a tamilian? what's the difference?

>>> No. The nephew was not making passes at his white aunt. It was just that he was outgoing and could carry on a conversation. But the uncle might have thought his nephew may want to screw the white woman. Who knows?

A typical Tamil-Tamil relationship, a nephew may address his uncle's wife as  mAmi and act deferentially.

Rishi wrote:

bw wrote:

Rishi wrote:There is a Tamil guy from Chennai living locally who is married to a white woman.

The man became an American citizen long time ago. As soon as he got naturalized, he sponsored his sister and her husband. The process took its own time. They arrived here in the new world. The Tamil fellow's nephew, a smart kid who went to IIT was already here on a student visa a few years before his parents came to America. He was a little old to be considered to be a child to be brought by his parents as a permanent resident. He was doing his Ph.D here at a university here.

The IIT kid was good looking and had an impressive personality. He was personable and charming. He used to visit his uncle often. His American aunt also liked him.

One day, the 24 year old nephew got a call from his 55 year old uncle. "You are too friendly with my wife. You better stop that." the uncle warned.

The kid told his mom. She felt really bad. She felt sorry for her brother. She knew her SIL was a nice lady but it was her brother who was having a problem. He would have been better off marrying a Tamil woman, she thought.  
 

are you saying that he wouldn't have minded his nephew getting friendly with his wife id she were a tamilian? what's the difference?

>>> No. The nephew was not making passes at his white aunt. It was just that he was outgoing and could carry on a conversation. But the uncle might have thought his nephew may want to screw the white woman. Who knows?

A typical Tamil-Tamil relationship, a nephew may address his uncle's wife as  mAmi and act deferentially.

Silly Point wrote:why are we even talking about this?? as bw said an INSECURE man is an INSECURE man.. PERIOD.. it doesn't matter if it was a mami, chithi etc.. he feels insecure and realizes that the woman can leave him anytime.. the stoopid mum is a dumass who believes that if the aunt were Tamilian she would be all THALAI EZUTHU and stay with his ass..

uggghh.. i am getting pissed off at this make believe story supplied by Rishi AnNa..

*must be bored*

Krithi

Silly Point wrote:why are we even talking about this?? as bw said an INSECURE man is an INSECURE man.. PERIOD.. it doesn't matter if it was a mami, chithi etc.. he feels insecure and realizes that the woman can leave him anytime.. the stoopid mum is a dumass who believes that if the aunt were Tamilian she would be all THALAI EZUTHU and stay with his ass..

uggghh.. i am getting pissed off at this make believe story supplied by Rishi AnNa..

*must be bored*

Krithi

bw wrote:

Silly Point wrote:why are we even talking about this?? as bw said an INSECURE man is an INSECURE man.. PERIOD.. it doesn't matter if it was a mami, chithi etc.. he feels insecure and realizes that the woman can leave him anytime.. the stoopid mum is a dumass who believes that if the aunt were Tamilian she would be all THALAI EZUTHU and stay with his ass..

uggghh.. i am getting pissed off at this make believe story supplied by Rishi AnNa..

*must be bored*

Krithi

please do not slam rishi. i love his stories and insights.

Rishi wrote:However, the uncle, nephew and mum are all Mudaliars. I don't think the call uncle's wife as mAmi among Mudaliars.

Rishi wrote:There is a Tamil guy from Chennai living locally who is married to a white woman.

The man became an American citizen long time ago. As soon as he got naturalized, he sponsored his sister and her husband. The process took its own time. They arrived here in the new world. The Tamil fellow's nephew, a smart kid who went to IIT was already here on a student visa a few years before his parents came to America. He was a little old to be considered to be a child to be brought by his parents as a permanent resident. He was doing his Ph.D here at a university here.

The IIT kid was good looking and had an impressive personality. He was personable and charming. He used to visit his uncle often. His American aunt also liked him.

One day, the 24 year old nephew got a call from his 55 year old uncle. "You are too friendly with my wife. You better stop that." the uncle warned.

The kid told his mom. She felt really bad. She felt sorry for her brother. She knew her SIL was a nice lady but it was her brother who was having a problem. He would have been better off marrying a Tamil woman, she thought.  
 

b_A wrote:

Rishi wrote:
The IIT kid was good looking and had an impressive personality. He was personable and charming. He used to visit his uncle often. His American aunt also liked him.

One day, the 24 year old nephew got a call from his 55 year old uncle. "You are too friendly with my wife. You better stop that." the uncle warned.

The kid told his mom. She felt really bad. She felt sorry for her brother. She knew her SIL was a nice lady but it was her brother who was having a problem. He would have been better off marrying a Tamil woman, she thought.  
 

 
What is the relevance of IIT to the story? Had he not gone to IIT , his uncle wouldn't have been insecure?

b_A wrote:

Rishi wrote:There is a Tamil guy from Chennai living locally who is married to a white woman.

The man became an American citizen long time ago. As soon as he got naturalized, he sponsored his sister and her husband. The process took its own time. They arrived here in the new world. The Tamil fellow's nephew, a smart kid who went to IIT was already here on a student visa a few years before his parents came to America. He was a little old to be considered to be a child to be brought by his parents as a permanent resident. He was doing his Ph.D here at a university here.

The IIT kid was good looking and had an impressive personality. He was personable and charming. He used to visit his uncle often. His American aunt also liked him.

One day, the 24 year old nephew got a call from his 55 year old uncle. "You are too friendly with my wife. You better stop that." the uncle warned.

The kid told his mom. She felt really bad. She felt sorry for her brother. She knew her SIL was a nice lady but it was her brother who was having a problem. He would have been better off marrying a Tamil woman, she thought.  
 

 
What is the relevance of IIT to the story? Had he not gone to IIT , his uncle wouldn't have been insecure?

bw wrote:

Rishi wrote:There is a Tamil guy from Chennai living locally who is married to a white woman.

The man became an American citizen long time ago. As soon as he got naturalized, he sponsored his sister and her husband. The process took its own time. They arrived here in the new world. The Tamil fellow's nephew, a smart kid who went to IIT was already here on a student visa a few years before his parents came to America. He was a little old to be considered to be a child to be brought by his parents as a permanent resident. He was doing his Ph.D here at a university here.

The IIT kid was good looking and had an impressive personality. He was personable and charming. He used to visit his uncle often. His American aunt also liked him.

One day, the 24 year old nephew got a call from his 55 year old uncle. "You are too friendly with my wife. You better stop that." the uncle warned.

The kid told his mom. She felt really bad. She felt sorry for her brother. She knew her SIL was a nice lady but it was her brother who was having a problem. He would have been better off marrying a Tamil woman, she thought.  
 

are you saying that he wouldn't have minded his nephew getting friendly with his wife if she were a tamilian? what's the difference?

also, how do you know what his mom 'thought'? let me guess - she confided in you?

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

b_A wrote:

Rishi wrote:
The IIT kid was good looking and had an impressive personality. He was personable and charming. He used to visit his uncle often. His American aunt also liked him.

One day, the 24 year old nephew got a call from his 55 year old uncle. "You are too friendly with my wife. You better stop that." the uncle warned.

The kid told his mom. She felt really bad. She felt sorry for her brother. She knew her SIL was a nice lady but it was her brother who was having a problem. He would have been better off marrying a Tamil woman, she thought.  
 

 
What is the relevance of IIT to the story? Had he not gone to IIT , his uncle wouldn't have been insecure?

You are 102% right. it is the iit that was making the unkil insecure. Everyone missed the real reason.  I suspect that that the White Aunty is an Ivy Leaguer.