Reason why Krips quit the site - here-->

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Fri Aug 12, 2011 12:34 am

....read it from the source herself...

by charvaka Fri Aug 12, 2011 1:01 am

For Kripa: the reason I did not delete your ID is because I have not logged in as admin for almost a month now. I have it on my list of things to do the next time I login as admin (which may be this weekend or next.)

As Uppili said on old CH, I am not going to let my responsibilities as admin hinder my participation on this forum as a regular user. What I do as charvaka is nothing different from what anybody else can do on this forum.

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 10:44 am

charvaka wrote:For Kripa: the reason I did not delete your ID is because I have not logged in as admin for almost a month now. I have it on my list of things to do the next time I login as admin (which may be this weekend or next.)

As Uppili said on old CH, I am not going to let my responsibilities as admin hinder my participation on this forum as a regular user. What I do as charvaka is nothing different from what anybody else can do on this forum.

--> in an earlier post you had written:
I will also check with the site owners whether it is possible to disable IP logging by post.

https://such.forumotion.com/t674-admin-can-see-your-ip-address#5694

--> have u been able to do so?

by Hellsangel Fri Aug 12, 2011 11:02 am

Don't go down the path of deleting user IDs. Someone is going to use that against you and say you deleted user IDs.

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 11:12 am

i don't understand why this issue is even being considered by the admin. deleting userids means deleting their posts too! it should never be allowed. and why should admin obey the whims and fancies of sundry people? priya wants her/his id deleted for purely childish reasons. what difference does it make to people who have left the forum if their messages continue to exist here? did they not once post them? they think by robbing the site of their messages, it will somehow make them feel they have smote the forum. bullshit. i feel no id should be deleted except if it is for a very rare, exceptional and sincere reason.

by Impedimenta Fri Aug 12, 2011 11:13 am

Rashmun wrote:
charvaka wrote:For Kripa: the reason I did not delete your ID is because I have not logged in as admin for almost a month now. I have it on my list of things to do the next time I login as admin (which may be this weekend or next.)

As Uppili said on old CH, I am not going to let my responsibilities as admin hinder my participation on this forum as a regular user. What I do as charvaka is nothing different from what anybody else can do on this forum.

--> in an earlier post you had written:
I will also check with the site owners whether it is possible to disable IP logging by post.

https://such.forumotion.com/t674-admin-can-see-your-ip-address#5694

--> have u been able to do so?

i mean, come on now. you are smart. you cannot possibly be thinking that this website or the admin has nothing better to do then track your IP.

you must be aware of what apple devices including the iphone are doing these days[they save user's latitude and longitude from the IP] or you pretending to be oblivious? also, there are several online "Free" IP masking resources on the internet if you are that concerned.

lastly, i am sure you and others here use dictionary.com. this website and the admin is not even doing one millionth of the damage that that website has already done to your computer including logging your IP every single time you access it.

by Hellsangel Fri Aug 12, 2011 11:14 am

Impedimenta wrote:[

i mean, come on now. you are smart.

Hmmm.

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Fri Aug 12, 2011 11:25 am

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:i don't understand why this issue is even being considered by the admin. deleting userids means deleting their posts too! it should never be allowed. and why should admin obey the whims and fancies of sundry people? priya wants her/his id deleted for purely childish reasons. what difference does it make to people who have left the forum if their messages continue to exist here? did they not once post them? they think by robbing the site of their messages, it will somehow make them feel they have smote the forum. bullshit. i feel no id should be deleted except if it is for a very rare, exceptional and sincere reason.

Agree... a record is a record. This is like the politicians demanding their statements to be expunged bcz they did not like something about it later on.

Even the old Sulekha does not - repeat DOES NOT delete ids or posts.

If anything, there are 1000s of priyas and Krips in this universe and they are not patented trademarks.

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 11:28 am

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:Even the old Sulekha does not - repeat DOES NOT delete ids or posts.

zu r nuts.

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 11:35 am

deleting id's delete user posts too?

Let me post something as Queen Bee... then if and when charu deletes that id.. we will know.

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 11:38 am

shut up trashy whorni... who cares about what you do here.. go and show your boobs to poopa now.

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 11:42 am

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:i don't understand why this issue is even being considered by the admin. deleting userids means deleting their posts too! it should never be allowed. and why should admin obey the whims and fancies of sundry people? priya wants her/his id deleted for purely childish reasons. what difference does it make to people who have left the forum if their messages continue to exist here? did they not once post them? they think by robbing the site of their messages, it will somehow make them feel they have smote the forum. bullshit. i feel no id should be deleted except if it is for a very rare, exceptional and sincere reason.

A person who decides to withdraw himself from a forum and
requests the suppression of his account from the administrator. However
this last refuses. What are the obligations of the administrator?

In
accordance with article 34 of the data-processing law and freedoms of
January 6, 1978, each member of a forum has a right of access, of
modification, correction and suppression of the data which relate to it.
This is why the administrator cannot refuse to remove an account.
If such is the case, warn Forumotion who will require of the
administrator to remove this account. In the event of refusal of his
share, it will be exposed to the pure and simple removal of his forum
for nonrespect of the "data-processing and freedoms"...

http://help.forumotion.com/t1526-account-deletion-administrators-obligations

by Hellsangel Fri Aug 12, 2011 11:46 am

BTW, how to activate blogs:
http://help.forumotion.com/t72102-how-to-activate-blogs

by Hellsangel Fri Aug 12, 2011 12:36 pm

Queen Bee wrote:shut up trashy whorni... who cares about what you do here.. go and show your boobs to poopa now.

Wow! Keep your friends close...and all that?

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 12:41 pm

Hellsangel wrote:
Queen Bee wrote:shut up trashy whorni... who cares about what you do here.. go and show your boobs to poopa now.
Wow! Keep your friends close...and all that?

me wrote: deleting id's delete user posts too?

Let me post something as Queen Bee... then if and when charu deletes that id.. we will know.

was having some fun while at it.. heh... I don't keep enemies close. I just keep fake friends away. simble.

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 12:41 pm

Tracy Whitney wrote:deleting id's delete user posts too?

of course!

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 1:27 pm

ufff, even an imbecile cannot construct this deliberately constructed post. it is just too good. just note the deliberate typos and simply feel fascinated.

-----------------

Ocean BreaZe& LamDebar

started by
kripamaya 2 hrs ago

Welcome
to this exciting site where you yearn to visit with your silly
clown(clone) acts. he y, it seems there is not much activity where you
went- other than fights liek the fights that occured here. Most of the
militants have gone ,but you still linger on. Tell you what, come back
as your self with a nice +ve attitude and we will open our friendship
door. You decide which is better for you kiddo-the- Clone Here is my
rakhi for you Clown~~~~~~~~~OOOO~~~~~~~~

by Hellsangel Fri Aug 12, 2011 1:32 pm

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:ufff, even an imbecile cannot construct this deliberately constructed post. it is just too good. just note the deliberate typos and simply feel fascinated.

-----------------

Ocean BreaZe& LamDebar

started by
kripamaya 2 hrs ago

Welcome
to this exciting site where you yearn to visit with your silly
clown(clone) acts. he y, it seems there is not much activity where you
went- other than fights liek the fights that occured here. Most of the
militants have gone ,but you still linger on. Tell you what, come back
as your self with a nice +ve attitude and we will open our friendship
door. You decide which is better for you kiddo-the- Clone Here is my
rakhi for you Clown~~~~~~~~~OOOO~~~~~~~~

And the fact that Lamderbar could be distinguished from Lamberdar but Not Ocean Breaze from Ocean Breeze. A splendid performance of being scatter-brained.

by Rekz Fri Aug 12, 2011 1:32 pm

Who is ocean breaze? anybody in confession mode?

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 1:34 pm

kripamaya khamagani priya married to a dutch dude lol u fooled me, ha ha ha. i am laughing at myself now. you had me fooled for LONG. great job dude/dudette. you excel. now you remind me of other trolls like gatita and strawberry pink. our loss we lost you.

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 1:35 pm

Rekz wrote:Who is ocean breaze? anybody in confession mode?

not me.

by Rekz Fri Aug 12, 2011 1:38 pm

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:
Rekz wrote:Who is ocean breaze? anybody in confession mode?

not me.

I blindly believe you Hero:pirat:

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 1:39 pm

Hellsangel wrote:And the fact that Lamderbar could be distinguished from Lamberdar but Not Ocean Breaze from Ocean Breeze. A splendid performance of being scatter-brained.

oh there is no doubt. she is even mindful of spelling lamderbar as lamDebar. a typo must be doubly reinforced.

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 1:41 pm

Rekz wrote:I blindly believe you Hero:pirat:

ha ha ha. the feeling is reciprocal chennaikar. i had my doubts but they have long been dismissed.

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 1:59 pm

test:pirat:

by Guest Fri Aug 12, 2011 2:00 pm

test

by .|Sublime|. Fri Aug 12, 2011 10:06 pm

people come people quit. people come people quit.
why are you wasting your time explaining your case?

when people say that the fighting, name calling and abuse made them quit such, i have to say that as things stand here now, this seems a lot saner than the old sulekha. the constant abuse being heaped day in and day out there was getting hard for even people who tend to ignore a lot.
of course now sulekha seems like a cuckoos nest in saudi arabia - appearances in place and everyone playing the good host making sure the guests don't up and leave because someone said something bad. but the executions keep happening and everyone pretends everything is hunky dory.
i do not have anything for or against kripamaya but generally amused at the reasons people give to justify their actions.

by charvaka Fri Aug 12, 2011 10:28 pm

.|Sublime|. wrote:of course now sulekha seems like a cuckoos nest in saudi arabia - appearances in place and everyone playing the good host making sure the guests don't up and leave because someone said something bad. but the executions keep happening and everyone pretends everything is hunky dory.

That is spot on.

by charvaka Fri Aug 12, 2011 10:36 pm

Rashmun wrote:in an earlier post you had written:
I will also check with the site owners whether it is possible to disable IP logging by post.

https://such.forumotion.com/t674-admin-can-see-your-ip-address#5694

--> have u been able to do so?

No.

by charvaka Sat Aug 13, 2011 12:53 am

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:deleting id's delete user posts too?

of course!

Based on what I have read of Forumotion policies, it does sound like I have no choice to not delete user IDs if a user demands that their ID be deleted. However, that does not mean deletion of posts. I think the old posts will remain.

I say this based on the following content from the post that Rashmun posted above:

It should be noted however that you cannot require of the administrator
to remove all your messages (Except if they contain personal
information making it possible to identify you formally).

by Guest Sat Aug 13, 2011 1:07 am

i see. so you are obligated to delete ids; however that does not mean that the content posted by the user will also disappear. sounds fair enough.

edit. it's more like a ban, this deletion. i was fearing deletion implied deletion of and id and its posts like it happens in sulekha.

by Marathadi-Saamiyaar Sat Aug 13, 2011 1:21 am

charvaka wrote:
Huzefa Kapasi wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:deleting id's delete user posts too?

of course!
Based on what I have read of Forumotion policies, it does sound like I have no choice to not delete user IDs if a user demands that their ID be deleted. However, that does not mean deletion of posts. I think the old posts will remain.

I say this based on the following content from the post that Rashmun posted above:

It should be noted however that you cannot require of the administrator
to remove all your messages (Except if they contain personal
information making it possible to identify you formally).

The reason for retaining the posts is for legal purposes. Should a court require the identity of the poster for any damaging information, "forumotion" will be able to trace back the ip address, and the poster's location using the timestamp behind the post.

In other words, once a "return" key is hit on your computer it is alive someplace in some computer.

by Guest Sat Aug 13, 2011 8:54 am

well it says - except when it contains personal info.... so if you want to have a post deleted, you will have to make a case out of it.

This is something even sulekha mods took srsly. If you told them that the post reveals personal info about you or someone, they would promptly delete it. Even if you yourself had entered it.

by Guest Sat Aug 13, 2011 9:45 am

Aug 13, 2011: the dutch dude

by Hellsangel Sat Aug 13, 2011 9:58 am

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:Aug 13, 2011: the dutch dude

Didn't really see any typos. Now he is European. Not Dutch-German-English-American.

by Guest Sat Aug 13, 2011 10:01 am

did they date before marriage? why is she writing as if she's meeting even him for the first time in a new country? i meant the elevator and car etiquettes....

by MaxEntropy_Man Sat Aug 13, 2011 10:02 am

I was the center of attraction;
curious questions kept coming ceaselessly; one after another, inquiring
about my attire and the red dot on my fore head which many had not seen.
Most were surprised that I spoke English fluently. Another wanted to know if monkeys came into houses, and if there were snakes where I lived.

i figure this story is set the 1930s or 40s US. the name fred
is also a give away. i don't think anyone born after the 40s has been named
fred in the US.

by Guest Sat Aug 13, 2011 10:26 am

MaxEntropy_Man wrote:i figure this story is set the 1930s or 40s US.

*gasp* are you suggesting that the author's age as of today is 90+?

by Guest Sat Aug 13, 2011 7:23 pm

Oh, wow - I had no idea Krips was a blogger. The language is totally different from her usual posts.

The story seem to be set in the 60s.

by Guest Sun Aug 14, 2011 11:02 am

ya, she started just recently.

ya even I thought it's set in the 60s.... I am still intrigued to know how they met and how it lead to marriage, coz that blog goes as if she's discovering his european manners for the first time.

by CroMagnon Sun Aug 14, 2011 1:38 pm

Good riddance!

by Hellsangel Sun Aug 14, 2011 2:10 pm

Tracy Whitney wrote:ya, she started just recently.

ya even I thought it's set in the 60s.... I am still intrigued to know how they met and how it lead to marriage, coz that blog goes as if she's discovering his european manners for the first time.

And you believe any of that drivel?

by Guest Sun Aug 14, 2011 2:37 pm

Hellsangel wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:ya, she started just recently.

ya even I thought it's set in the 60s.... I am still intrigued to know how they met and how it lead to marriage, coz that blog goes as if she's discovering his european manners for the first time.
And you believe any of that drivel?

well for me all the pieces in a puzzle gotta fit. Until now and like hk I too believed in her specially after her endless posts on connecticut. But this blog leaves some questions which may it may not be answered.

I still think kripa is an original handle, whether a troll or not. But I won't be surprised ifKripa is yet another alter ego of Denice. Same pattern. Bad ch posts and perfectly written blogs.

by Kris Sun Aug 14, 2011 4:54 pm

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:Aug 13, 2011: the dutch dude

>>>>I just skimmed thru this story. There is something out of whack here, if this is autobiographical. Its almost they had an arranged, intercultural marriage and she is suddenly discovering his world and friends after the wedding.

by Guest Sun Aug 14, 2011 5:16 pm

Kris wrote:
Huzefa Kapasi wrote:Aug 13, 2011: the dutch dude

>>>>I just skimmed thru this story. There is something out of whack here, if this is autobiographical. Its almost they had an arranged, intercultural marriage and she is suddenly discovering his world and friends after the wedding.

exactly my thoughts.

by Guest Sun Aug 14, 2011 7:10 pm

Tracy Whitney wrote:
Kris wrote:
Huzefa Kapasi wrote:Aug 13, 2011: the dutch dude

>>>>I just skimmed thru this story. There is something out of whack here, if this is autobiographical. Its almost they had an arranged, intercultural marriage and she is suddenly discovering his world and friends after the wedding.

exactly my thoughts.

Maybe they met in India?

by Guest Sun Aug 14, 2011 7:13 pm

blabberwock wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:
Kris wrote:
Huzefa Kapasi wrote:Aug 13, 2011: the dutch dude

>>>>I just skimmed thru this story. There is something out of whack here, if this is autobiographical. Its almost they had an arranged, intercultural marriage and she is suddenly discovering his world and friends after the wedding.

exactly my thoughts.

Maybe they met in India?

Ya that's one option that came to mind. And hence the story is so interesting.

by Guest Sun Aug 14, 2011 7:17 pm

blabberwock wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:
Kris wrote:
Huzefa Kapasi wrote:Aug 13, 2011: the dutch dude

>>>>I just skimmed thru this story. There is something out of whack here, if this is autobiographical. Its almost they had an arranged, intercultural marriage and she is suddenly discovering his world and friends after the wedding.

exactly my thoughts.

Maybe they met in India?

I guessed the same too. This might've happened in the 90's.

by Guest Sun Aug 14, 2011 7:23 pm

kinnera wrote:
blabberwock wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:
Kris wrote:
Huzefa Kapasi wrote:Aug 13, 2011: the dutch dude

>>>>I just skimmed thru this story. There is something out of whack here, if this is autobiographical. Its almost they had an arranged, intercultural marriage and she is suddenly discovering his world and friends after the wedding.

exactly my thoughts.

Maybe they met in India?

I guessed the same too. This might've happened in the 90's.

I am guessing 60s or early 70s - the awe and wonder at "european" customs, wearing a silk saree for formal gathering etc. 90s girl would have gone wearing a cocktail dress and wielded the knife and fork with ease, I would think!

by Guest Sun Aug 14, 2011 7:31 pm

blabberwock wrote:
kinnera wrote:
blabberwock wrote:
Tracy Whitney wrote:
Kris wrote:

>>>>I just skimmed thru this story. There is something out of whack here, if this is autobiographical. Its almost they had an arranged, intercultural marriage and she is suddenly discovering his world and friends after the wedding.

exactly my thoughts.

Maybe they met in India?

I guessed the same too. This might've happened in the 90's.

I am guessing 60s or early 70s - the awe and wonder at "european" customs, wearing a silk saree for formal gathering etc. 90s girl would have gone wearing a cocktail dress and wielded the knife and fork with ease, I would think!

I don't think so. I lived in Switzerland for a couple of yrs in the 90's and my experience is the same as hers, except that my husband is Indian. I had to attend some official parties and I (and other indian wives) went to them in silk sarees, spotting a bindi and all. I was in US before I went there, but the experience in europe is entirely different from that of US. They are a pretty formal bunch, though they didn't mind us ladies wearing sarees. I was very nervous abt following their etiquette initially just kripa was.

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