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Post by Guest Sun Sep 11, 2016 7:46 am

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Post by swapna Sun Sep 11, 2016 9:13 am

Rashmun wrote:Hindu Nadar girl seeks a groom 14292300_1789572807967968_2500236651762854566_n
did you post the ad here because it says "caste no bar," while it specifies the advertiser's caste?

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Post by swapna Sun Sep 11, 2016 9:21 am

is it really that unusual for an indian woman to be unconcerned about the caste of her potential husband?

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Post by MaxEntropy_Man Sun Sep 11, 2016 9:47 am

swapna wrote:is it really that unusual for an indian woman to be unconcerned about the caste of her potential husband?

That's an unusual q for someone who claims to have been "observing" Hindus for a long time here and before that at the predecessor site at sulekha.
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Post by Guest Sun Sep 11, 2016 10:11 am

swapna, didn't you notice the words "SC/ST excuse"? She is prepared to marry any man except a dalit (scheduled caste) man or someone who belongs to some scheduled tribe.

Even relatively open minded hindus refrain from marrying SC/ST people.

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Post by garam_kuta Sun Sep 11, 2016 4:28 pm

hahaha@ observing hindus for a long time... sapna started 'observing' and got stuck with one group which keeps rapidly evolving that he finds it to be a formidably daunting task ; i bet he won't be able to even scratch the surface let alone come to any conclusion, even with just that one group, in this lifetime -forget the other hindus.

OTOH,  douchemun has been lucky and has made it abundantly clear that all this happens only in TamilNadu, which is full of diversity with highly evolved cultural sophistication, composed of varying refinements and embellishments that are distinct to each one of their individual community, while the hindus of india are stuck, totally stunted, lagging way far behind, with their homogenous, boring and sterile culture.

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Post by Guest Sun Sep 11, 2016 4:49 pm

garam_kuta wrote:hahaha@ observing hindus for a long time... sapna started 'observing' and got stuck with one group which keeps rapidly evolving that he finds it to be a formidably daunting task ; i bet he won't be able to even scratch the surface let alone come to any conclusion, even with just that one group, in this lifetime -forget the other hindus.

OTOH,  douchemun has been lucky and has made it abundantly clear that all this happens only in TamilNadu, which is full of diversity with highly evolved cultural sophistication, composed of varying refinements and embellishments that are distinct to each one of their individual community, while the hindus of india are stuck, totally stunted, lagging way far behind, with their homogenous, boring and sterile culture.

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Post by Seva Lamberdar Mon Sep 12, 2016 8:47 am

Rashmun wrote:swapna, didn't you notice the words "SC/ST excuse"? She is prepared to marry any man except a dalit (scheduled caste) man or someone who belongs to some scheduled tribe.

Even relatively open minded hindus refrain from marrying SC/ST people.
May be she thinks that a guy (potential suitor) from that community would have all his achievements as a result of caste / tribe status and not due to genuine merit and thus she wants to be no part of it through marriage.
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Post by Hellsangel Mon Sep 12, 2016 9:09 am

Seva Lamberdar wrote:
Rashmun wrote:swapna, didn't you notice the words "SC/ST excuse"? She is prepared to marry any man except a dalit (scheduled caste) man or someone who belongs to some scheduled tribe.

Even relatively open minded hindus refrain from marrying SC/ST people.
May be she thinks that a guy (potential suitor) from that community would have all his achievements as a result of caste / tribe status and not due to genuine merit and thus she wants to be no part of it through marriage.

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Post by Guest Mon Sep 12, 2016 11:07 am

Seva Lamberdar wrote:
Rashmun wrote:swapna, didn't you notice the words "SC/ST excuse"? She is prepared to marry any man except a dalit (scheduled caste) man or someone who belongs to some scheduled tribe.

Even relatively open minded hindus refrain from marrying SC/ST people.
May be she thinks that a guy (potential suitor) from that community would have all his achievements as a result of caste / tribe status and not due to genuine merit and thus she wants to be no part of it through marriage.

Nadars are OBC Hindus. This means they enjoy the benefits of caste based reservations just as SC/STs do.

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Post by silvermani Mon Sep 12, 2016 1:43 pm

It is her choice who she wishes to marry or not marry. The role of her husband is not a government job with special consideration for SC/STs.
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Post by southindian Mon Sep 12, 2016 2:42 pm

Rashmun wrote:Hindu Nadar girl seeks a groom 14292300_1789572807967968_2500236651762854566_n
Rashmun Upadhyay,

Is she applying for a job with Govt of India?
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