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your wife is not there to manage everyone's ego at her cost

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Post by desi aunty Fri Mar 06, 2020 9:18 am

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She sleeps until this late. We don't like this. Ask her to wake up early.




So what if she didn't like what your uncle said. It's not important to show her woman empowerment views right here on display. Ask her to not destroy our respect. What will they say that our daughter in law argues with elders! 




I don't know why she needs so much time alone with you. She hasn't made a relationship only with you. She has made it with the family. She should concentrate first on the family. At least this is what we want! 




Why does she have to do things her way in this home? She came to our home, we didn't go to hers. 




Tell your wife to speak to you in a proper way when around people. She should understand that we are a conservative family. She shouldn't call you the way she calls. This is not a movie!




 Why does she not listen to her sister in law. Her sister in law is elder to her... She is married too. She should listen and understand there are certain rules that apply to all women. 




A wife is expected to put her own wishes down and do as everyone else wants her to do. Even if what is asked to being done will cause her discomfort, unhappiness, loneliness but still she is the one expected to bow down because it becomes about everyone else's ego.

There is an assumption that only she has to change, she has to listen to fit in what all everyone needs of her. Or else it becomes about other's egos and she has to manage it under all costs.


1. Marriage is a UNION of two individuals, not a favor that a man is doing


2. Everyone else can speak her mind, not she, why ?


3. Why is her wish always something that upsets someone's ego 


A lot of women get into depression, anxiety and a lot of personal pain because of how they are treated in their new homes, how they feel after marriage!




So many women seek therapy at IWIll because they feel miserably treated, badly hurt because of this dynamic! 




A lot of families expect women to just adjust, to do as others want and keep doing it to keep others happy...




Its almost like everyone's ego is attached to how much can a wife change, how much can a wife listen, how much can a wife do things that she ideally didn't want to do.

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