Conversation with Indian born American raised TamBrahm girl

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:Well... you just increased your chances of being her FOURTH husband.

MulaiAzhagi wrote:I don't stand a chance. Looks like she goes after affluent men.

panini press wrote:

MulaiAzhagi wrote:I don't stand a chance. Looks like she goes after affluent men.

Haha, I was waiting for some judgment from Breasty Beauty, and there it is! For, after, same thing.

MulaiAzhagi wrote:
Mulai Azhagi: "In my opinion I think marriage is nothing but a man and a woman having a relationship with a legal imprimatur from the state. The only problem is the 'kids'. I think marriage should be abolished. People should be allowed to do whatever they want. Any kids from the relationship should be brought up by the state."

blabberwock wrote:Dear MA,

How did you find out that she was a Tambram girl? What gave that away?

Yours curiously,
BW

MulaiAzhagi wrote:This evening, I went shopping for groceries at a nationwide store which sells organic and good quality food items. After picking a container of hummus, I turned back and saw an Indian female smiling at me. She worked there. She was thin, polished and good looking. Then I realized that I had seen her many times before somewhere. The following conversation took place.

Mulai Azhagi: "You look familiar. I think I saw you at the temple."

She: "I used to come there with my second husband. You must know him. He is Dr. Krishna Murthy. He is a ..."

Mulai Azhagi (a little surprised): "You mentioned it was your second husband. Is it not kind unusual for Indian women to go around broadcasting which husband it was?. "

She: "Well. I grew up here."

Mulai Azhagi: "The fact that you were specific about him being the second husband tells me that you are married again."

She: "In fact I am."

Mulai Azhagi: "In my opinion I think marriage is nothing but a man and a woman having a relationship with a legal imprimatur from the state. The only problem is the 'kids'. I think marriage should be abolished. People should be allowed to do whatever they want. Any kids from the relationship should be brought up by the state."

She (with her eyes wide open with disbelief): What?

MulaiAzhagi wrote:This evening, I went shopping for groceries at a nationwide store which sells organic and good quality food items. After picking a container of hummus, I turned back and saw an Indian female smiling at me. She worked there. She was thin, polished and good looking. Then I realized that I had seen her many times before somewhere. The following conversation took place.
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Mulai Azhagi: "In my opinion I think marriage is nothing but a man and a woman having a relationship with a legal imprimatur from the state. The only problem is the 'kids'. I think marriage should be abolished. People should be allowed to do whatever they want. Any kids from the relationship should be brought up by the state."

She (with her eyes wide open with disbelief): What?

blabberwock wrote:Dear MA,

How did you find out that she was a Tambram girl? What gave that away?

Yours curiously,
BW

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

blabberwock wrote:Dear MA,

How did you find out that she was a Tambram girl? What gave that away?

Yours curiously,
BW

we have now evolved considerably just labeling someone "tamBrahm" is inadequate. from now on, there should be further classification.

panini press wrote:

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

blabberwock wrote:Dear MA,

How did you find out that she was a Tambram girl? What gave that away?

Yours curiously,
BW

we have now evolved considerably just labeling someone "tamBrahm" is inadequate. from now on, there should be further classification.

Earlier we used to get a little bit more detail, like Madras Iyer, ward #6 Iyer, etc. I think the hold of the caste system is weakening, and people are forgetting all distinctions and just calling others by blanket names like TamBrahm. I demand the end of reservations, now that caste system is on its way out.

MulaiAzhagi wrote:

blabberwock wrote:Dear MA,

How did you find out that she was a Tambram girl? What gave that away?

Yours curiously,
BW

===> The conversation continued. She showed up at the cash register. She said that she was visiting her father who was in Madras. Plus her name. Who knows she might as well be a Mudaliyar. I think I have an inbuilt TamBrahm detector.

MulaiAzhagi wrote:Mulai Azhagi: "In my opinion I think marriage is nothing but a man and a woman having a relationship with a legal imprimatur from the state. The only problem is the 'kids'. I think marriage should be abolished. People should be allowed to do whatever they want. Any kids from the relationship should be brought up by the state."

blabberwock wrote:

MulaiAzhagi wrote:

blabberwock wrote:Dear MA,

How did you find out that she was a Tambram girl? What gave that away?

Yours curiously,
BW

===> The conversation continued. She showed up at the cash register. She said that she was visiting her father who was in Madras. Plus her name. Who knows she might as well be a Mudaliyar. I think I have an inbuilt TamBrahm detector.

All this happened in Madras?

MulaiAzhagi wrote:

blabberwock wrote:

MulaiAzhagi wrote:

blabberwock wrote:Dear MA,

How did you find out that she was a Tambram girl? What gave that away?

Yours curiously,
BW

===> The conversation continued. She showed up at the cash register. She said that she was visiting her father who was in Madras. Plus her name. Who knows she might as well be a Mudaliyar. I think I have an inbuilt TamBrahm detector.

All this happened in Madras?

===> No. This conversation took place at Trader Joe's.

I see what you are saying. I should have said "She said that she was visiting her father who is in Madras."

MulaiAzhagi wrote:===> Maria

You are right.

I saw the picture of her second husband. He is ugly.

No wonder she was attracted to me.

Sasthi wrote:Great! Only few people in the world live their lives and most others only read about them. It is all Karma!

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

Sasthi wrote:Great! Only few people in the world live their lives and most others only read about them. It is all Karma!

so how was your India trip.

Don't know why...whenever I see your post, you remind me of someone in my IM (who has been on my IM for the last 12 years from a pre-Sulekha site). Also, she is your age, ht/wt, your same city , and even heck sounds/talks like....when I talk to her rarely, I think of you and when I reply to your post I think of her....although I am 102% sure you both are different people.

No... I can never cross 5...

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

Sasthi wrote:Great! Only few people in the world live their lives and most others only read about them. It is all Karma!

so how was your India trip.

Don't know why...whenever I see your post, you remind me of someone in my IM (who has been on my IM for the last 12 years from a pre-Sulekha site). Also, she is your age, ht/wt, your same city , and even heck sounds/talks like....when I talk to her rarely, I think of you and when I reply to your post I think of her....although I am 102% sure you both are different people.

No... I can never cross 5...

Impedimenta wrote:

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

Sasthi wrote:Great! Only few people in the world live their lives and most others only read about them. It is all Karma!

so how was your India trip.

Don't know why...whenever I see your post, you remind me of someone in my IM (who has been on my IM for the last 12 years from a pre-Sulekha site). Also, she is your age, ht/wt, your same city , and even heck sounds/talks like....when I talk to her rarely, I think of you and when I reply to your post I think of her....although I am 102% sure you both are different people.

No... I can never cross 5...

M adi saamiyar,

That is really twisted. are you secretly trying to be like the casanova swami nithyananda?

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

Sasthi wrote:Great! Only few people in the world live their lives and most others only read about them. It is all Karma!

so how was your India trip.

Don't know why...whenever I see your post, you remind me of someone in my IM (who has been on my IM for the last 12 years from a pre-Sulekha site). Also, she is your age, ht/wt, your same city , and even heck sounds/talks like....when I talk to her rarely, I think of you and when I reply to your post I think of her....although I am 102% sure you both are different people.

No... I can never cross 5...

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

Impedimenta wrote:

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

Sasthi wrote:Great! Only few people in the world live their lives and most others only read about them. It is all Karma!

so how was your India trip.

Don't know why...whenever I see your post, you remind me of someone in my IM (who has been on my IM for the last 12 years from a pre-Sulekha site). Also, she is your age, ht/wt, your same city , and even heck sounds/talks like....when I talk to her rarely, I think of you and when I reply to your post I think of her....although I am 102% sure you both are different people.

No... I can never cross 5...

M adi saamiyar,

That is really twisted. are you secretly trying to be like the casanova swami nithyananda?

Actually...better late than never....

I was going to "imply" that Sashti's hubby probably has 2 wives...then I was afraid of "impy" coming down swinging at me...