the most horrible experience in life...

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:... is to be in a hospital. though the doctors are well meaning, they have to treat you as an object. i pray i never get admitted and i pray i die at home.

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:... is to be in a hospital. though the doctors are well meaning, they have to treat you as an object. i pray i never get admitted and i pray i die at home.

This I heard last week. FIL was in hospital - when my MIL asked the doc to do some testing (of course, I had to give them advise), the doc told her "I am the doctor. you dont ask me or tell me anything. If there is something "I" will tell you"

Now that is Indian health care system for those without link to the medical or power structure.

Vidya Bagchi wrote:talking about horrible, cousin died by fire, 95% burn. Been almost a week, and i am still not able to wrap my head around it. I keep finding old pictures, and looking at her. asking mom if she was in any pain for the 24 hours she did live. wondering if her face was burned too...

she had a tough life indeed. may her soul rest in peace now.

Impedimenta wrote:

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

Huzefa Kapasi wrote:... is to be in a hospital. though the doctors are well meaning, they have to treat you as an object. i pray i never get admitted and i pray i die at home.

This I heard last week. FIL was in hospital - when my MIL asked the doc to do some testing (of course, I had to give them advise), the doc told her "I am the doctor. you dont ask me or tell me anything. If there is something "I" will tell you"

Now that is Indian health care system for those without link to the medical or power structure.

upps, why are you complaining about everything indian?

Vidya Bagchi wrote:talking about horrible, cousin died by fire, 95% burn. Been almost a week, and i am still not able to wrap my head around it. I keep finding old pictures, and looking at her. asking mom if she was in any pain for the 24 hours she did live. wondering if her face was burned too...

she had a tough life indeed. may her soul rest in peace now.

Maria S wrote:HK,

Hope you get well very soon, and are back at home.

take care, will keep you in my prayers.

Marathadi-Saamiyaar wrote:

Vidya Bagchi wrote:talking about horrible, cousin died by fire, 95% burn. Been almost a week, and i am still not able to wrap my head around it. I keep finding old pictures, and looking at her. asking mom if she was in any pain for the 24 hours she did live. wondering if her face was burned too...

she had a tough life indeed. may her soul rest in peace now.

That is horrible. 95% burn ??? they would have completely drugged her (in this country) but still it would have been horrible and tragic.

How did this happen ?

Hellsangel wrote:

Maria S wrote:HK,

Hope you get well very soon, and are back at home.

take care, will keep you in my prayers.

Maria, how did you come to that conclusion from what HK wrote?

Maria S wrote:

Hellsangel wrote:

Maria S wrote:HK,

Hope you get well very soon, and are back at home.

take care, will keep you in my prayers.

Maria, how did you come to that conclusion from what HK wrote?

*There are certainly other possibilities (could be a "general statement" about hospitals, or someone HK cares about was ill and he was visiting them etc). It's not a conclusion..and if it is wrong and it bothers him, I assume he would tell me. If he does not say anything..I am not going ask or badger him with questions.

No harm wishing anyone well or praying for good health..I would certainly not make a big deal if people assumed/misunderstood, but cared enough and prayed for me, even if I was healthy as I can be!

Hellsangel wrote:

Maria S wrote:


*There are certainly other possibilities (could be a "general statement" about hospitals, or someone HK cares about was ill and he was visiting them etc). It's not a conclusion..and if it is wrong and it bothers him, I assume he would tell me. If he does not say anything..I am not going ask or badger him with questions.

No harm wishing anyone well or praying for good health..I would certainly not make a big deal if people assumed/misunderstood, but cared enough and prayed for me, even if I was healthy as I can be!

Maria,
Hope you get well very soon.

Maria S wrote:

Hellsangel wrote:

Maria S wrote:HK,

Hope you get well very soon, and are back at home.

take care, will keep you in my prayers.

Maria, how did you come to that conclusion from what HK wrote?

*There are certainly other possibilities (could be a "general statement" about hospitals, or someone HK cares about was ill and he was visiting them etc). It's not a conclusion..and if it is wrong and it bothers him, I assume he would tell me. If he does not say anything..I am not going ask or badger him with questions.

No harm wishing anyone well or praying for good health..I would certainly not make a big deal if people assumed/misunderstood, but cared enough and prayed for me, even if I was healthy as I can be!